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Posted on Sat, Dec 26, 2009 19:06

Yes I am pleasingly plump and some women in here have just flat out called me a fat old woman. You'll be my age one day girls! *L* How many times have you been called a cougar? Once upon a time I was referred to as a MILF.
So gentlemen please share! This has potential of being a lot of fun!



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Posted on Thu, Feb 25, 2010 15:02

Nope no surgery. I like that line..keep your chin up and smile it confuses them. Thanks for taking time to read the blog.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 25, 2010 09:13

For 56 and if you have had no cosmetic alterations done to you? Then I say I hope I look as vibrant as you do!

But on a foot note I always thought cougar was dating someone that was 10yrs younger then you? However I'm new to all this "verbage" or "labeling" .   I do however find it funny when someone has called me a "MILF" and then I thought well that has no age bracket because there are women as young as 15yrs old having children so would they be considered a "MILF" also?

Keep your chin up and smile it confuses people ")



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Posted on Fri, Feb 19, 2010 21:56

I think part of my gravitating to younger men is because I love to go out dancing. Some slow winding oh yea! Me and R. Kelly! *L*



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Posted on Fri, Feb 19, 2010 21:47

Quoting Dekan09

Same here...usually 15 years younger at least they have good taste. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY everyone!



Wow! You too? Something about those 25 year olds drive me WILD!!! I'm 41 for goodness sakes! I need HELP!!!!! Lol!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 19, 2010 21:45

Quoting addyseas

Once someone asked me if I was a cougar...and I fired back..."I'd say I'm more like a feral cat!" Ha Ha Ha! Frankly, men my age want younger women...when I look through the men on here...the cut off is usually well below my age. Outside of here, I get hit on by younger men far more then men my age. But I get the feeling they think it would be nice lying on my couch waiting for me to get home from work...and I'm not into that....


I agree with the cut off age for men in their 40s and 50s being younger than I. What's up with that? I'm like, "Boy, you are 40, 50 or BEYOND and your cut off age for a woman is 33?" Puhleeeez! LOL! I guess they want a trophe or baby-makin' machine! I too, enjoy hitting on men younger than I. I think it almost comes natural for me. Its like the cougar in me leaps OUT! But like you, I have to tell myself, umm, he might want or expect me to take care of him and Momma can't do that!

 

What is it that makes an older woman attracted to a younger man? And it seems as if younger men are likewise attracted to me. If I'm in a room with both younger men (cubs) and "age-appropriate" or older men, whom I call Lions, I will always gravitate towards the cub and he gravitates towards me. STRANGE!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 19, 2010 18:30

But the bad thing is they sometimes start getting serious on you. I hate to hurt people's feelings. And I did get my flowers. I forget what blog I told someone I'd let you know if I got them.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 19, 2010 04:57

As long as I don't look like the guys mother, I'm okay with the older/younger thing.



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Posted on Wed, Feb 17, 2010 04:00

That is exactly what I tell them. I'm 10 to 15 years older now than most that are interested in me. Then I tell them 10 years from now I'll be 66 and you'll be 50. They say it ain't nothing but a number...so say you and Pretty Rickie! *L* Unless you die everyone is going to be my age eventually!



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Posted on Tue, Feb 16, 2010 09:31

I think you can fall into a "courgar", as it is now a coined term, by accident.  Why? Because there are more single younger guys out there.

 

It does not last. Even Ivana Trump could only hold onto her younger man for 5 years. 



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Posted on Sun, Feb 14, 2010 11:55

Same here...usually 15 years younger at least they have good taste. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY everyone!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 14:35

Once someone asked me if I was a cougar...and I fired back..."I'd say I'm more like a feral cat!" Ha Ha Ha! Frankly, men my age want younger women...when I look through the men on here...the cut off is usually well below my age. Outside of here, I get hit on by younger men far more then men my age. But I get the feeling they think it would be nice lying on my couch waiting for me to get home from work...and I'm not into that....


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Posted on Fri, Feb 05, 2010 09:57

Nice to see you back Dekan! 



Courtney :)

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Posted on Thu, Feb 04, 2010 19:22

Quoting Dekan09

Yes I am pleasingly plump and some women in here have just flat out called me a fat old woman. You'll be my age one day girls! *L* How many times have you been called a cougar? Once upon a time I was referred to as a MILF.
So gentlemen please share! This has potential of being a lot of fun!



And by the way, how dare someone call you fat. You look amazing to me! Beautiful and confident. That's what matters. The nerve of people. Do YOU sister! Riiight, As you suggested, we'll all get older some day. :) I too have been called a MILF. Now, I'm a Cougar. Rooooarrr!!! Momma loves the cubs!



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Posted on Thu, Feb 04, 2010 19:20

Quoting Dekan09

Yes I am pleasingly plump and some women in here have just flat out called me a fat old woman. You'll be my age one day girls! *L* How many times have you been called a cougar? Once upon a time I was referred to as a MILF.
So gentlemen please share! This has potential of being a lot of fun!



I had soooo much fun in my cougar days!!! The sex was woooo hoooo...off the chain!!! Thoe youngins are just so beautiful, with their nice washboard stomachs, bright smiles, youthful spirits! Lawd ham mercy!!! Only thing, when you're ready to settle down, they aren't usually mature enough to make a marriage work. Plus, they want children and Momma's children are GROWN. However, I had lots of fun..I loved the men in their 20s and I'm 41! LOL

What made me a Cougar...my love for the young men. And I'm highly sexual, so they were the BEST...knew how to satisfy my appetite. I hope a man my age can keep up with me in the bedroom. LOL! Love this blot sister! Good subject!



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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 12:10

lol Dekan ive allways been a bit of a cougar and Bold is right we started this when the blogs used to be WILD! such fun all those yummy young men !



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Posted on Fri, Jan 15, 2010 22:06

Well thank  you very much! All of you in the picture are very attractive! Have a super weekend!

Eyvonne



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Posted on Fri, Jan 15, 2010 21:57

Quoting boldnsexy:

Just to let the newer ppl on here know, Tinkerbelle is the one who started the whole Cougar thing on the blogs and she IS the official Cougar on this site and that is about the nicest compliment I know cuz she is HOT, muy caliente, lol.  You go girl.



I totally agree... I think the media has lowered the standards. There's some cougar show in the US with Courteney Cox (who's only a year older than I) that portrays her as a cougar, so now the age limit is lessened and the expectations increased!


Courtney :)

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Posted on Fri, Jan 08, 2010 14:35

Blogs wild? No foolin? Interesting! I didn't mean my message to be snippy...you can't tell when you type things! Sorry if it came across that way!



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Posted on Fri, Jan 08, 2010 13:52

Chill! I'm not trying to take anyone title away! I could care less! *L*



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