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Posted on Wed, Mar 11, 2009 22:14

Why don't people listen? When someone tells you something about themself, why is our first reaction to discount it. For instance, I met someone that told me he was an asshole, and I laughed it off and said "oh really I'm sure you are". . .. but the reality is noone tells you who they are . . . and dont mean it And on the reverse side. . .when I tell people I don't want to get married.. .. why does every man think they can change me. And why do they waste my time and date me for 3-6 months and then dump my ass cause they decide they can't handle the fact that I wont marry them (in the future). . . .why don't people listen when we tell them who we are? (and yes i'm venting!)

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Posted on Tue, Mar 17, 2009 14:19

The way I see it. I have had my children. they are healthy and beautiful. I have done the whole "marraige thing" it was nice but I feel that I am entering a new phase in my life and freedom becomes more precious as you grow older because you begin to realize the draw backs of commitment and that true commitment has nothing to do with a signed peice of paper. Thats just a contract. I believe people when they tell me who they are but I believe what they do more. Actions speak louder than words.


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Posted on Fri, Mar 13, 2009 20:26

Hiiiiiii shazzzzz good to see you!!!!


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Posted on Thu, Mar 12, 2009 21:46

PPl always tell you who they are if you listen, and as for marriage, you should write on your profile that you have no intention of¿marrying.. this way men who want¿marriage¿will steer clear of contacting you and you will not be¿harassed..

Hope this helps

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Posted on Thu, Mar 12, 2009 19:08

conyersguy- whomever you are. my profile hasnt been updated in 4 yrs. I have not used this site to meet men in over 3 yrs. once i met newman i knew that noone else would ever meausre up to the beauty that is George. . . . but thanks for the advice


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Posted on Thu, Mar 12, 2009 10:09

ahh Spring brings out the oldsters,,Hi Sep. I agree with you totally. We hear what we want to hear. Men especially WILL tell you all you need to know IF you listen to them. And they Do mean what they say. As for men dating you,,honey,,you MUST kow that you set yourself up as the Ultimate Challenge. And men love challenges. They WANT to believe that THEy can be the Magic that turns your heart around. ( making them the winner in the game of romance) Just be thankful that you are still pretty and attractive. You may eventually chnage your mind about marriage..but oh gawd,,LISTEN to your own heart and do that, No one " needs " marriage unless they want to raise children. And you should tell Geo to stick it.,, for old time sake.


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Posted on Thu, Mar 12, 2009 06:28

lol Good to see you back Sep Marry dont marry? your choice



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