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Posted on Mon, Jan 26, 2009 00:34

Ok so you have found what you think is a great partner. You are interested, they are hot, and you are out on your first date.

My question is this, is there anything that could be a dealbreaker here. What is it you just cant overlook? What is it that could  stop you in your tracks  for you to say no to another date.

 

Could it be they have annoying habits , a speech impediment of some kind, a whiny voice, repetitious conversation,the wrong political convictions? What about if they have halitosis , dont stop talking and even worse are bad in bed !!

 

What is it that does it for you?

 

For me, only last week I had my own deal breaker. Nice looking man, tall, looks a bit like George Clooney sparkly blue eyes, good conversation. Nice . Very nice, but then it happened. He drove me home at the end of the date, walked me to my house. Looked in to my eyes and ran his hand through my hair. He pulled me to him and kissed me.. A soft kiss his lips just brushing mine. Lovely.  Im very big on kissing, And then it happened.......

 

Then he pounced and gave it his best shot a big wet smacker of a kiss. All slobbery . I thought one of two things, either he was going to eat me alive or  i was going to drown UGH UGH ......and that was it. My deal breaker a very bad kisser

 

Whats yours?



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Posted on Fri, Feb 20, 2009 09:43

i am beginning to get a tad annoyed at those men who keep suggesting " trips" but who do not follow through !



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Posted on Tue, Feb 17, 2009 11:38

love 4 ever  weve all had that happen It goes on all the time. I do like Shaz. Report the buggers and get them off here.



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Posted on Tue, Feb 17, 2009 11:36

God Vida you are such a positive life force Im truly humbled.

Hats off to you darling. With your outlook and heart you can only succeed in everything you strive for in life. You have my utmost respect.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 14, 2009 14:53

Love 4 ever,,,,that sort of behavior is not allowed on MM. Hit the " report abuse" button and report them. Do us all the favor of helping to remove those unsavory elements.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 14, 2009 11:16

The deal breaker for me is when you go to chat and after only a few lines of conversation, and yea, one word answers, start with sexual remarks followed by, want to watch me on my web-cam? Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude, but on your first time to communicate, you know what they are looking for. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I'd like to get to know someone better before getting to the sex. Where are the men with honorable intentions??? lol


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Posted on Fri, Feb 06, 2009 04:12

My deal breakers are: 1. Racism 2. Verbal abuse 3. Physical abuse 4. Men who eat air as food


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Posted on Wed, Feb 04, 2009 07:13

Box?? box of tricks more like lol



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Posted on Tue, Feb 03, 2009 00:34

¿I knew you would come to see things " my way" Tink.

Rubber,leather,,its ALL good !

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Boo, Ive seen some tranny photos that might make anyone wonder. the parts are there,,but the rest looks female. I dont¿ think THEY knw what they are. What¿ "box" do they check ??



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Posted on Sun, Feb 01, 2009 10:18

well said Tom I completely agree. I have it has to be said thought i could make things how I wanted them to be in the past lol but ive learned and as you say have learned to move on



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Posted on Sun, Feb 01, 2009 10:16

and you would know that from what experience Boo Boo??



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Posted on Sun, Feb 01, 2009 10:15

lol Shaz , as we speak im polishing up the rubber !!!



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Posted on Sat, Jan 31, 2009 18:41

Actually...if he doesn't like to shop or doesn't wear pink and has any sort of facial hair ...thats it i'm done! LOL :)


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Posted on Sat, Jan 31, 2009 09:34

Tink Darlin', if they got one they're a man.... regardless of what it says on the box. Boo


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Posted on Sat, Jan 31, 2009 07:54

tinkie dear...if they dont respond to the " praise" method for training purposes,,,then get out the Dom costume and bring out the whips ! Trust me on this one,,,men love to " be trained" in how to sexually please their women. but if he is totally hopeless, such as he wears white socks on a dinner date,,well, THEN you have a problem


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Posted on Sat, Jan 31, 2009 05:45

Like most people, I don't have just one. If a woman has really misrepresented herself (much older than says, much more overweight than says) that's a deal-breaker. If she smokes, that's a deal-breaker. If she is self-consumed and only talks about herself and doesn't ask/seem to care about me, that's a deal-breaker. Life's short and none of us want to waste our time. Be honest, be yourself, and if things click, great. If there is a "deal-breaker" well move on.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 30, 2009 04:09

if he cant kiss i cant do anything else


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Posted on Thu, Jan 29, 2009 04:18

what???? on a man or woman Boo Boo lol



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Posted on Wed, Jan 28, 2009 08:57

Male genitalia.


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Posted on Mon, Jan 26, 2009 10:10

Disrespect....making me feel as though i'm not #1 in his life. Putting me second....or maybe third place. BIG HUGE deal breaker for me.


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