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Posted on Wed, Aug 06, 2008 17:33

so men want to know women and women want men... but do they really want to be understood? personally i would tell any man to just give up on me... because i'm way too complicated to be understood... and it's not like it's intentional... i don't understand myself at times. we're just illogic creatures by nature and men are just creature who are logically simple. that is one gap i'm glad to say i'll never try to close. but that's what makes the world interesting. imagine a world in which man can read woman's mind? can you see... the madness you would be in? i can. measuring a man's heart... don't try just look at the way they look at you. measuring a woman's heart? you're swimming in open ocean... good luck.... or am i just being cynical?


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Posted on Sat, Aug 09, 2008 19:34

i supposed you're right. there is no different. it's all human complex emotions and stuff. what is emotion anyway? what are feelings? what is real and what is not depends on just our own judgement of it... so if we look it this way, everyone is right.


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Posted on Sat, Aug 09, 2008 07:57

Sounds as though Ayn Rand has had a profound effect on you as it has had to so many other twenty somethings... including me. The reason that you feel that you're so complicated is that you are not very complicated at all. Your brain is still evolving and is being molded and changed, more by what you read rather than experience. With experience will come wisdom and the formulation of your own ideas about life and love. Don't despair, you'll get over it. Most of us have been twenty-two and successfully made the transition from pubescence to adulthood. You should probably read "The Fountainhead" and "Anthem" and research society at the time she wrote those novels. There was a movie about her life. I think she was played by Helen Mirren. "Atlas Shrugged" is supposedly being made into a movie. Continue to pursue perfectionism but don't get sick over it. Mediocrity is the expected norm.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 08, 2008 18:24

p.s. your eyes are filled with sad memories and lonely nights... i'm glad you grew stronger from it all rather than fall. congret! you have become indifferent haven't you? because really... non of it matters now... what matters is that you are happily living out your life to its fullest.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 08, 2008 18:21

have you ever read a book called Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand? you would love it... if not... appreciate it at the least. it is very long and it makes you think so it's not a book for the weak heart nor mind. it's my favorite book of all times and it'll always remind so. i hope you do read it.... and if you don't have time... when you are most in desperate need of finding yourself again... perhaps it is the best time to read it. it might make you want to commit suicide... actually one has to kill one self after reading the book... and then live... forever free from the chain of so called selfless.


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Posted on Fri, Aug 08, 2008 17:41

I don't agree with you. I don't think men, or women are complicated. I don't believe that it's necessary to try and figure anyone out. Listening, sharing your viewpoints, and finding common ground is key. Sometimes there's just way too much overkill by people who write books, teach seminars, etc about uncovering the differences between men and women.


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Posted on Thu, Aug 07, 2008 18:07

I'm sorry girls but I don't agree with you! I understand myself perfectly, I talk to myself every day and agree with everything I say. Complicated?...of course! That's what keeps us interesting I don't rely on anyone for validation of my self worth. I'm priceless! Ask me.....I'll tell you. When you learn to love yourself, others know there is a self to love. We all have our little idiosyncrasies, well, actually, mine are huge. That's what makes for interesting interaction......LOL


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Posted on Thu, Aug 07, 2008 16:14

but... isn't it sad... that we should rely on other people to tell our worth? thank you for the comment and encouragement... but i think there is more to the story than that... for example, pride, conceitedness... and so on. you're right, i see your point of view but it's sad nevertheless.


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