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Posted on Mon, Aug 04, 2008 21:47

Ladies, Give your honest opinion what are the top 5 qualities you are looking for in your ultimate soulmate or match...

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Posted on Sat, Aug 09, 2008 02:19

I am partial to JenKitty's comments. The older you get, looks are important but stability, intelligence, communication, empathy and trust usually move to the top of the list. Everyone, no matter what age, wants attraction to be part of their relationship. However, time will soon remove the beauty of youth...and there must be something more to sustain the relationship for the long haul. Most professional guys, especially the type all of you describe and are looking for, usually want the same things in a woman (if they are worth building a quality relationship with). I told my daughters as they grew into adulthood..."If you want Mr. Right, you have to be Ms. Right!" Don't expect something you are not willing to bring to the table too! Guys don't want to be loved for their balance sheet or liquidity. To me there is nothing more attractive and magnetic than a stunning woman with the intelligence and Emotional IQ to match her looks. Here are my 5 top items for women. (They are not in order of priority) 1. Magnetic smile...well kept appearance (fit at any age) 2. Intelligent...and someone who is a great conversationalist 3. Empathic nature and great sense of humor... 4. An attitude of gratitude 5. Someone who brings something to the table in a relationship (including knowledge, skills and a desire to contribute to a win-win, mutually beneficial relationship). E Richards P.S. Since these sites are so superficial placing photos first, I do not put the picture first. I will gladly email you one if you reply to me)


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azlady60
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Posted on Thu, Aug 07, 2008 00:08

5 essential qualities: 1. Must be a good kisser!! 2. Respectful of women/me 3. Financially solvent 4. Comfortable with himself 5. Healthy sense of humor for starters anyway.......


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Posted on Wed, Aug 06, 2008 22:42

Hmmmmm.... 1. Happy with himself and his life - I believe this could prevent a lot of marital issues; 2. Good sense of humor - if all else fails, we'll just laugh; 3. Charm - well, what else needs said about this; 4. Resourceful - if he doesn't have it, he can find IT and if he can't find it, he can build it, and if... 5. Empathetic - if he can REALLY put himself in my shoes, he'll be a pretty damn understanding man...wearing a size 35.5 Louboutin with 4 inch heel! ;)


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Posted on Wed, Aug 06, 2008 07:35

1. Honesty 2. Affectionate 3. Chemistry (Mutual Attraction) 4. Playful-Good Sense of Humour 5. Financially Stable Money is always nice, but is definitely not the key to happiness...


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Posted on Tue, Aug 05, 2008 22:25

I personally think he should have these qualities: 1. Highly intellectual 2. confident in his accomplishments (career / family /financial) 3. Openly affectionate / loving, romantic type characteristics 4. healthy body and mind 5. great communicator

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Posted on Tue, Aug 05, 2008 07:29

top 5 things...hmmmmmm 1. Dependable/faithful 2. Honest/straightforward 3. Loves to laugh 4. Strong/confident 5. Affectionate/giving


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