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Posted on Aug 03, 2008 at 10:22 AM

What do you think is the best age to find your mate for life, given that we all go through different stages in our lives. And at what age or in what circumstances are we most likely to make a bad mistake? Or, if you have other observations about picking a mate,,, share your thoughts.

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Posted on Sep 03, 2008 at 06:56 PM

Quoting author: Oh do I understand that one! My ex just picked up and moved with my daughter without court approval...but it takes money to fight it. And she wanted to go....so what choice did I have? Is the child old enough to make her own decision on with whom she wants to live and where?

Usually a kid can decide after age 12, in most states. And no, often a kid does not have the brains to decide where is best. They usually want to go where they can have the least supervision. Bet, there is little anyone can do, just hope for the best.

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Posted on Aug 19, 2008 at 03:12 PM

No, she has a child that can't leave the state without divorce court approval which isn't going to happen.

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Posted on Aug 18, 2008 at 01:46 AM

Quoting author: Aw B.... Maybe if you would stop flirting with everything in a skirt...and get serious...and maybe someone from our generation.... You might have that dream come true! ..aww come on and smile... You know I am right... this time.

ur right about not getting serious right now. The problem is I don't know where I should be living. I have a disabled daughter in Texas, and I maybe be needed there for the rest of my life. However, I had rather be living in the hills. This uncertainty limits my prospects.

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Posted on Aug 14, 2008 at 11:13 AM

I like to see elderly people in love too. Gives me hope I guess.

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Posted on Aug 05, 2008 at 01:19 PM

Even with a matchmaker... that has not been blissful and perfect either! I knew of people that have gone thru professional matchmaker... Few years later... they are DIVORCE.

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Posted on Aug 04, 2008 at 07:25 PM

one could make a valid argument for any age bracket. When people are younger,,in their teens and twentys,,the avaiable pool of potential mates is very large. SO you stand a good chance of meeting someone suitable for that reason alone. We all make mistakes and I do believe that it comes from our own failure to see ourselves as we really are. We cant find the best mate because we delude ourselves about what we are and what we want. For instance, I do not like/want/or need daily contact and I dont want a man who needs me around all the time. Its smothering. I like my freedom. I like companionship and all the niceties love brings, but I dont want a shadow or a whining puppy. I am 100% percent faithful in love and I expect that in any man I am involved with. So you can see my problem in finding a man who fits those parameters. They exist..but are not common. My first husband was both a clinging shadow and a whining puppy, It drove me crazy. Next serious man was far too remote, but at least the sex was great. Third one was perfect in every regard, except he lives and works half a planet away that that has turned out to be too much time apart. So my answer is that the best time is NOW and never !

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Posted on Aug 04, 2008 at 05:37 PM

The best age is the age you are when you finally connect with the person who stays with you for life. And for everyone, that'll be different.

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Posted on Aug 04, 2008 at 05:00 PM

We obviously don't have the brains to make good choices so maybe we should all hire professional matchmakers. For instance: Since when does a woman who has a good bu*tt make a good wife? BUTT, I am getting better. lol

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Posted on Aug 04, 2008 at 02:02 PM

Could not share anything on this since I have made several mistakes and choices already!!! Still hoping to make the right choice.... whatever that maybe!

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Posted on Aug 04, 2008 at 08:05 AM

I concur with what Bill has said. However, now that we are all older and wiser we would think we could make the right choices. I can attest to the fact that I am still making the wrong choices. I would have thought by now I could tell the difference between what is real, and what is not. Now, wwwwwwws. could you help me with this. How can people who are as smart as we are (or so we think) still be making mistakes.

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Posted on Aug 04, 2008 at 07:50 AM

That's a strange question for this group....5W's. No one here seems to have figured that answer out. At least not yet. It might a question better suited for Warren Jeffs and/or some of his cronies.

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