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Posted on Wed, Jul 09, 2008 16:35

This blog is for the Queens of the MM blogs. Yes, I am talking about the many fine women that are here. And maybe a girlie man or two...Please feel free to leave any rebuttals here to the Ryleighs "Men Only" blog. As always, if you stray off topic, I will delete you. This blog has been inspired by Peggysue. To begin, I would like to share this email that I received today. Following is Queen Purr revision, which I feel is much more accurate as to how many of the Queens of MM look at our Kings...(Thank you Queen Purr!) (Disclaimer. This does not imply that I agree with the statements or thoughts that the words expressed in the first version below. I was surprised a man would send this out...) Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men do not want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that are not as good, but easy. The apples at the top of the tre think that something is wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing. The best men learn(or know) how to climb all the way to the top of the tree. Now men....men are like fine wine. They begin as grapes, and it is up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn inot something acceptable to have dinner with, or take out in public. And now, Queen Purrs version. (Much better IMHO) Woman may be like apples in that they come in all varieties and grow through many stages. Sometimes at their peak and ready for picking, sometimes just hanging around in the top of the tree enjoying and soaking up the sun in the process of ripening, sometimes clinging tenaciously to the highest of branches for fear she might fall to the ground. The apples on the ground may be at their peak too, ripe, juicy,sweet, unscathed and available but not easy, or perhaps bruised but hardy and in need of gentle handling much like the one at the top hanging on tightly. The best men know this, and appreciate most all the variety of apples no matter if they are on top of the tree or on the ground because they are all worthy of a good mans efforts. And eventually all the apples on the top of the tree will fall at some point to join the apples laying on the ground. Yes the best men know this and don't need to be stomped into fine wine. He just is....

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Posted on Mon, Jul 14, 2008 13:29

Queen Virtual. You are so right! It is so easy to create a fantasy before you meet someone here. Since I had not been dating in the real world for so long, I think I have forgotten if I created fantasys there as well. I am thinking that I probably did. We never really know if the person on the other side of this screen, or in our real life, is creating an illusion for us to believe or not. I do not think that most people do this, but as we all know, that is what some people choose to do. I am not sure why because the truth will usually come out. (Thank goodness) I have fallen in cyber love about 6 times now. There is such a thrill that we feel when we think this might be the one we have been waiting so long for...ahhh, the feelings of love. So yes, I believe that you will fall in love again. As will I. It is only a matter of time before each of us is finally face to face with that person who has also been waiting for us... And than we will know this was all worth the wait. May all our dreams of happiness and love come true soon!

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Posted on Mon, Jul 14, 2008 13:19

Hello, Queen Holly. Welcome to blogland. You are right, we have some of the most incredible people who play here! Many of us have become a big family of brothers and sisters. If you know what that means. There is love, hate, screaming, laughter and tears that we all share. Like many families we are also dysfunctional part of the time, and yet at others will all join together to support or protect those in our family. The Saint really is a saint. Check out his profile and maybe he will check out yours! One more idea. Try to use regular letters instead of all capital letters. The capital letters make you look like you are shouting, and some people will never read what you write as a result. So, from a newbie prospective, what do you think of this online dating? Have you had any experiences that you want to share? Do you like this better than meeting someone at a bar?

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Posted on Sun, Jul 13, 2008 20:20

Dear Queen Queen!! It like a book and a movie of that book... it is impossible that it matches your imagination. Most of the times you will like the book more than the movie. Sometimes it will be completelly different from what you expected I only met in real life, friends and they were only on line friends also, no romance involved, so no disapointment at all. I am wondering if I want to love of fall in love again... right now my answer is no. But I may change tomorrow... Huggs, Lisi

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Posted on Sun, Jul 13, 2008 13:16

THIS PICTURE IS JUST TOO DARN CUTE! I AGREE MEN WHO LIKE CATS ARE MAKES THEM MORE ADORABLE; AT LEAST IN MY EYES. YOUR SITE HAS AMUSED ME AND I HAVE READ SEVERAL. I LEARNED ABOUT THIS SITE FROM ANOTHER AND THOUGHT I'D CHECK IT OUT. THANK YOU FOR THE LOLS'. THE SAINT MADE ME LAUGH TOO. I'LL HAVE TO CHECK IN ANOTHER TIME...THANKS AGAIN AND LOOKING FORWARD TO THE NEXT TIME.


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Posted on Sat, Jul 12, 2008 17:23

Yes, Queen Shaz. It appears that our Devo has returned!!! For a moment in the passing of time, it seems. hmmmmmm. I am honored that he took a moment of his precious time to stop into this blog and say hello. Now, Devo, would you please comment on some of our questions? Which brings to mind yet another thought. Is it only me, or have the women and men here found this site to be a great source of potential matches? Have you found this to be a place to discover new people to play with on the blogs? Are you enjoying your time here as much as I do?

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Posted on Sat, Jul 12, 2008 17:18

Queen Tay, You can call me Queen, or Queenie. This is really a nick name that has been with me since childhood. Not sure why. Maybe I was a queen in a previous lifetime... In the world, there are many great queens. Like you. Feel free to claim this tree photo as one of yours. I always feel that anyone can copy the photos that I have saved over my time here. They are all special and should be shared...

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Posted on Sat, Jul 12, 2008 14:52

Stayawayfromdonjuans theythinktheyaremorethantheyare becarefulihavesaid theyareoftenonlylead draggingyoudown wastingyourtime thereisnowaytoknow untilyouknow thanthebestthatyoucando istakebackyourcontrol andrunawayasfastasyoucan.


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Posted on Sat, Jul 12, 2008 00:42

OMG>>>HE LIVES !!! DEVO....lol..sorry about all the distractions that one time. How rude of me. Im blaming it all on my daughter. Shes not here right now to object so that automatically makes it her fault.


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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 18:28

Queen Ryleigh, I must agree with you. Your friend does sound naive. Men (or women) who are Don Juan's do not change their ways. History shows this to be true. But, if we encounter one of them, we each hope that history is wrong. Humans either choose to have one on one relationship, multiple relationships, or to be alone. There is no wrong or right, unless you are with the one who is into multiple relationships and is dishonest. I have also never had a man, or in fact anyone, provide or take care of me. I have taken care of them before, but will not again. Like you, I am looking for an equal. Someone who can inspire me and who I can inspire as well. My friends also include men and women. They accept who I have become and honor me for my achievements and the way I have chosen to live. Of course, they all wonder if I will ever choose a King, but they know...that I will not settle for just anyone. I have also dreamed that a big hunka manhood would sweep my off my feet...and someday one might be able to do just that. We have become so selective about who we want to share our lives with. I am sure that you will agree that it is better to live our lives "alone" (is what they say- but it is our own piece of heaven) than to share it with someone who brings us down. Forget the vibrating fence. Go find a rabbit. (LOL) May the man we have been waiting for, find us, we miss him and have been waiting a long time to be with him

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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 16:13

Quoting Taycott: If I have to be an apple then I want to be the juicy yellow kind. They are super sweet, full of yummy juice, and never tart to the taste.

Oh, Queen Taycott, you do sound good enough to eat! And I mean that in a totally non-lesbian way. It sounds like some of you are getting a little kinky. OH, OH!! If you are not careful we will need to bring out another roll of duct tape. Wait, I have several here yet. I am already getting a vision as to where this blog might be headed now... As I am staying on topic I thought I would show the apple tree that Queen Taycott came from...

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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 15:25

Well, my High Queen, to be perfectly honest with you, I thought and think my friend was and is an idiot. Even though he said he did not feel the need to stray again, the trust is gone. I know she still wonders every time he walks out the door. Her need to be dependant on someone, outweighed her respect for herself. We all know that the minute she starts to put restrictions on him, off he'll go. Though her confession to me was that she will turn a blind eye, as she now has the ring on her finger and the security that she needs. As you say, these things can work, but not for me. I have an equal amount of male and female friends. Women never see me as a threat, as I treat both sexes equally. I have remained friends with my ex partners. As for this site, I have chatted to many, though I make it clear, in my own inimitable way of course...LOL, that I'm here to make friends only. I've been on my own far too long to make changes now. I've never had a man provide for me, and I doubt if I ever could. Saying that, who knows what the future holds, the thoughts and actions of today may be the errors of judgements tomorrow. Put another way, I say I'm not looking, but if a big hunka manhood were to sweep me off my feet, (quite a feat that would be too...lol) I may have egg on my face for pontificating about the joys of being alone. Sod it, I'm gonna sit on the fence....it's still vibrating...LOLOLOL If you seek and do not find, desist, for that which you seek will find you.


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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 14:34

If I have to be an apple then I want to be the juicy yellow kind. They are super sweet, full of yummy juice, and never tart to the taste.


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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 12:38

I agree with you, Queen Ryleigh. If there was someone I was interested in that was a blogger, it would not bother me if they were still posting. I am not even sure if I would care if their profile was up. Or maybe I should be. I noticed as long as mine is up that I am still being contacted by potential matches. To be sure, they are not looking for friendships. So maybe it is better that the profiles are taken down. That is wonderful about your friend. She is a wise woman to feel so secure in the man she loves. Sometimes these things can work out! I am not sure my friend would be as comfortable after what she saw in those emails. They clearly showed that her Don Juan was checking out and meeting other women... I also have buisness contacts who are men. I would be comfortable with this in a partner who is a man. Of course, as we know, it is easy to see which men and women are really doing business, and which ones are up to funny buisness. I also agree with what you said about the first sign of wrong doing (in a significant or potentially significant other) and whoosh, they're gone. Like you, once I see or hear that a partner is straying, or playing with other women, the trust is gone. I do not like to share my man. The feelings that we have built up until that time, are not so hard to process, when we have the facts that we know to be true. And with all the choices that we have, we can wish them a good life, and move on to a new opportunity. Your mother was a very wise women to tell you this. "You can forgive a man anything, except another woman." I think that the same holds true for men. So, Queen Ryleigh, how have your experiences been on MM in the time that you have been here? Are you enjoying the journey? Are you connecting with some that might fit your needs?

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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 12:16

You are right Queen Purr. We never do plan on running into these type of challenges, but we never know who is really behind the profile, until we really know. As you say. We have many other choices to choose from rather than to waste our energys on people that are like this. Once we are able to see who they really are all we have to do is say "next" for the highest good of all concerned. That is what is exciting to me about online dating. There always seems to be someone new that finds us, or someone who we knew before that we start seeing in a different light. Life here is always an adventure! I for one am happy to have found this world. Girlie man is missing. I am sure that he will be back as another persona. Will you save his pink tutu for him?

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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 10:40

Hi Queen, High Queen, hello Queen...lol Thoughts on removing profiles etc.. I personally would not ask them to refrain from posting or talking on site. I think when you DO insist, it's almost like a red rag to a bull. If you say they can't, they'd most likely go behind your back. When you have no problem either way, I think some would find that their potential partner would refrain. After all, if the challenge is taken away, there's no point. Works in real life too. A friend of mine dated a guy who was a serial cheater, I was horrified and told her that I would've kicked him to the kerb. But, as is often the case, she was in love and thought he'd change. He didn't! She threatened to leave him. I knew she wouldn't, as did he. Eventually, she told him that he could see other women, as long as he didn't rub her nose in it. One night some weeks later, I was chatting to him and asked him why he felt the need to cheat on her. He looked at me with a smile and said, 'You know what Ryles, I don't do it anymore. She's taken all the fun and mystery out of it. I suppose I'm like a naughty child. When she said I couldn't do it, I wanted to. Now I have her blessing I don't go there.' They're married now and very happy - I would still have kicked him to the kerb, but that's me. I'm confident enough in myself that I don't feel threatened by a partner retaining contacts...wherever they may be....however, first sign of wrong doing and whoosh, they're gone. I have no qualms about that, no matter how deep the feeling for them, if they stray, they're out. Once trust has gone, there's nothing left. My mother, bless her, used to always say, 'You can forgive a man anything, except another woman.'


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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 05:58

I just dont know Queen. I've never run into this challenge, and keeping my fingers crossed that I never will. I dont have the desire or energy to be wondering what a partner might be doing behind the scenes. Too many other choices to be wasting valuable energy on stuff like that. It seems girlie man has gone missing. Too bad it would have been good to read a post by a man on this subject. Devo what think you??


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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 04:31

I agree with what you have said Queen Purr. I would hope that once you've had that "Talk" that both people would expect monogomy and be honest with each other as they work towards becoming a couple. With online dating, hiding the profile would be nice, even if they both continue to blog. However, how would we even know what "they" might be doing behind the scenes is my question. Again, we are talking both men and women here. I do recall one experience that a friend had, where a man said that he wanted a committed relationship with her. They had met a few times in person. He had promised that he was not talking to any other women, other than old friends and buisness associates. One day he asked her to go into his account, for some reason he could not access it himself that day. While doing what he requested she took a moment to look in his sent emails file. There she found that he had kept contacting other women by email and phone, asking them (and getting) their phone numbers and addresses, telling each one how much they excited him, and making plans to meet with them as soon as he could. Seems he had been a very busy Don Juan. Needless to say, she was very surprised. But also very glad to know the truth as to what was really going on, behind the scenes. She was very lucky that day. It would be nice to hear what other members here have experienced as to to this subject. Online dating is a stretch of our imaginations. I suppose it is the same with dating someone we do not know. We never know, until we know.

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Posted on Fri, Jul 11, 2008 04:13

Quoting Devoted2FindingU: Sorry that I don't qualify as a girlie man but just had to say hey to you and BnB.. D.

King Devo!! It is true. You are not a girlie man, but maybe you could pretend to be one? Never mind. The best people I have met seem to be a balance of both male and female energies. And so Welcome back to the funny farm! You have been around this scene of online dating for awhile. What would you say to the questions that Queen Purr has brought forth?


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Posted on Thu, Jul 10, 2008 19:09

Sorry that I don't qualify as a girlie man but just had to say hey to you and BnB.. D.


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