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Phantomea
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Posted on Mon, Jun 30, 2008 21:10

My last lover couldn't keep up. His libido and mine were so not in sync. It wasn't really his fault. His medication affected his desire. Mine does too but since my libido is very high normally and now I am hitting the peak years, my meds only make me slightly normal where as his made him mostly non interested. So he is history and I am in need of a new lover. I unfortunately live in an area where there are few single men and even fewer with the same interests as mine. So the question is, how do I go about finding a new lover who is not still married with whom I can have a conversation every once in a while?


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Posted on Mon, Jul 07, 2008 10:50

Since this whole thing wasn't really working out I went back and changed my profile. I was going to delete this blog but it was just starting to get fun what with Bill's Birds and passing Cutie's ex around like the proverbial hat. So I'll leave it up because maybe someone else would like to date a Cockatoo. I think I'll stick with black birds. They are not as noisy and like shiney things.


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Posted on Mon, Jul 07, 2008 09:28

EEEK! Bunnies are evil!


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Posted on Mon, Jul 07, 2008 04:03

Welcome back Phantom! Just get yourself one of those rabbits that all the ladies from "Sex in the City" have all adopted. LOL. There is the Pearl Rabbit, the Rabbit Habit (cordless) and more....

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People may not remember what you say or do, but they will remember how you made them feel.

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Posted on Sun, Jul 06, 2008 00:36

I'm glad you like me and are relegating him to the bin after all. I think I should just remove the added mess from my profile and give this up. I am getting no takers. It wasn't a very good idea in the first place. In the year and a half I have been on this site I have not contacted anyone who hasn't contacted me first. I read the profiles of the gentlemen on this site and I have found several I would happily date. But I do not contact them because they are not looking for a woman like me. No use wasting everyone's time. So I once again looked to other sites. Boy was that a mistake. The sites you don't have to pay for are so user unfriendly that I became offensively frustrated and had no problems being rude on my profile about the site as well as sending rude emails to the management. We all complain alot about MM but I have to say that it isn't the worst site out there. I've been quite happy here even if I've never gotten a date. I've just become resigned to the fact that there is no one out there who connects with me.


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Posted on Wed, Jul 02, 2008 21:49

LOL Bill. LOL


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Posted on Wed, Jul 02, 2008 08:42

Quoting cutiebooty: You can have my old one if you like...I'm just about to bin him! LOL

Well, if you are going to bin him there has to be a reason. Why are you throwing him away? I might want to bin him before I get him.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 01, 2008 13:51

Bold, thank you for worrying about me. I assure you that I am extra careful about things like that. When taking a new lover it I tend to get new test results to show and require them to provide medical reports as well. I also insist on being able to hold divorce papers in my hand to prove marital status. I might even have to start having a death certificate because a little over a year ago I had a gentleman ask me out who said his wife had been dead for 4 years. After I accepted the date, his clearly not dead wife sent me an email threatening me if I went out with said "lonely widower". I am very careful about who I date. All of my actual lovers have been friends whom I have known for a long time before we become more. I am certainly not promiscuous as that list is quite short. I am simply in an area where the dating pool is very small and shallow. That was the entire reason I came to this site in the first place. I just never used this site to make a "match" and I didn't stay on any other sites where I made a profile. My last relationship was a long distance one and it didn't work out. He would come to visit and be too tired to spend time with me and by the time he was no longer tired it was time for him to leave again. Unlike myself, he was never in the mood if he was tired. He would rather sleep. Pebbles, surprisingly the offers are not pouring as you would imagine. I have had the request on my profile for nearly two weeks and had one response. Moldy I have my scammer glasses on. Bill I have never tried dating a Cockatoo as I have never been partial to yellow headed males. Perhaps a raven as I perfer dark males. I almost dated a crow once but he was too good a friend to take over the line even if he did smell like cookies.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 01, 2008 05:38

Have you ever gone out with a Cockatoo???? May be your solution.

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Posted on Tue, Jul 01, 2008 01:23

and watch out for scammers ....


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Posted on Tue, Jul 01, 2008 01:19

Ms Phamtomea - Now that you have put out your request openly... you will now get a lot of invites from the single eligible man on MM. CHOOSE WISELY!


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