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Posted on Sat, Jun 14, 2008 19:39

to really know if one is being true... to really know if he / she is the one... if only we had a crystal ball... such a shame everyone cannot just be themselves... as once quoted..."the man of my dreams is almost faded now..."

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Posted on Mon, Jun 16, 2008 08:15

thank you for reading my blog and responding, and yes it is from Somewhere in Time, one of my favorite movies spoken by Jane Seymour, an elegant classic beauty. Giving up could never be an option for me as I am a true hopeful romantic...was very blessed to have the love of a special man for 15 years before he passed, and just know when the timing is right, the right man will enter my life and we will live out our lives the way intended. If you ever feel you are losing or have lost hope, go outside, with a glass of wine, sit down on the ground and glaze at the stars for a few moments...it is so relaxing and helps me unwind and dream ... with a dream, hope will be there...it is all about timing...I believe that...

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Posted on Sun, Jun 15, 2008 19:18

Hello Jen, This is a very thoughtful and thought provoking blog. I used to think that there was someone, somewhere, waiting for me and that once we found each other, everything would be beautiful. But now, I've all but given up hope. Sigh.......... PS I think that quote is from "Somewhere In Time". From one hopeless romantic to another.


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Posted on Sun, Jun 15, 2008 18:53

I am truly sorry that you are feeling the distrust that you are, and I can feel for you... as I have so many friends whom that is all I hear about from there dating experiences... but remember although I was not scarred as many have been with bad memories, mine were just cut short early, re earning trust for some are much harder than others.. Even the young adults today are in no hurry to marry due to witnessing divorces (many bitter) amongst them, honestly believe that many should take a year off when hurt badly rather then be on a dating site unless just as a pen pal, as they are no way near ready for more... hang in there and believe, when you least expect it...actually when we both least expect it... it will happen... I truly believe that...believing is the key

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Posted on Sun, Jun 15, 2008 04:13

I do have a crystal ball, in fact, have several. However, I am not sure that it is able to see the future as I would like it to be. We may not know. But we do know in our hearts that there is someone out there for each of us. Sometimes that search takes some time. If we are patient, we will find what we are waiting for. In the meantime we can practice our own skills at learning how to become better people, and loving ourselves.

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People may not remember what you say or do, but they will remember how you made them feel.

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Posted on Sat, Jun 14, 2008 23:08

Panamagt, It is a survival problem. My first experience here was with a real scammer gang from Nigeria, until proved contrary everybody is Innocent. I am a true believer of that. thanks god I realized it fast, and no harm was done. The more you write the more you will get to know each one of us and vice versa... different styles different attitude, but above a group of real nice people!


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Posted on Sat, Jun 14, 2008 22:52

Jen it is like I am almost feeling your pain... please cheer up a little, I know you are just taking it out of your chest, and all kinds of question going dancing inside your mind (what if I had done this ..or if I do that...) you know you will feel better tomorrow... if you want to cry - cry, do anything you want... Tomorrow is already here! Hugs, Lisi


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Posted on Sat, Jun 14, 2008 21:08

Jan, they precious temporary Gifts we receive in our lives, and you sure have all reasons to feel blessesd. Now, I am wondering if you are just writing to yourself or if you want a friend or if you want "him" to know you miss him? This Love thing is great but sometimes huuuuuurrrtttt so much ... but it will pass !! :-) you know


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Posted on Sat, Jun 14, 2008 20:25

Although I have only been a member a short time I am getting this overwhelming feeling of distrust and frustration in these blogs. Also there seems to be a lot of "total statements". Personally, I am direct, honest, and sincere. It is a bit of a downer that there are many people that refuse to give people the benefit of the doubt until shown wrong instead of wrong until shown otherwise. Ladies, please remember this and I am going to be honest. There is nothing here that I could take from any of you that can not be found elsewhere. The point in that statement is ... take. The sweetest things in life are the gifts that we give each other and the greatest gift of all is the gift of one's self without remorse, recourse or apprehension. The best gifts a mutual and bilateral. There ... I am off my soapbox. Good luck in finding a great guy. We are out there is you allow us to be.


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Posted on Sat, Jun 14, 2008 20:19

If only life were that easy... I am truly blessed and appreciate all that life has given me... just sometimes wonder why things were taken away... and when I can truly live again...

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Posted on Sat, Jun 14, 2008 19:59

Hi Jen! You can use mine!!! as you can see there is even 2 princes inside.. good to see you back !! Lisi


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