After reading the poetic post by HomelessGuy aka WWD, TURNING IN MY TIGHTS, I am thinking about the subject... Is there a Strong Sensitive Man arround? or if they are strong they can't be sensitive and if they are sensitive they can't be strong? I know I want a strong, polite and elegant man but I am confused about the sensitive part...
After reading the poetic post by HomelessGuy aka WWD, TURNING IN MY TIGHTS, I am thinking about the subject...
Is there a Strong Sensitive Man arround? or if they are strong they can't be sensitive and if they are sensitive they can't be strong?
I know I want a strong, polite and elegant man but I am confused about the sensitive part...
you mean explosive temper?? I have a dear friend that I love to be with when there is just the two of us, we talk hours and hours non stop...he have discussions some people even think we are fighting) but we are even laughing, (he is Italian) but when there is more people and with his girlfriend he just can't control himself... it is a disaster waiting to happen always... I could not survive in a relationship like that... not even one day... Huggssssss
Pauline dear...
you mean explosive temper??
I have a dear friend that I love to be with when there is just the two of us, we talk hours and hours non stop...he have discussions some people even think we are fighting) but we are even laughing, (he is Italian) but when there is more people and with his girlfriend he just can't control himself... it is a disaster waiting to happen always...
I could not survive in a relationship like that... not even one day...
Huggssssss
I know they exist, I had one. But feelings change, and well, all have an end. That is my problem how to find the second Mr. Right? For this time of my life, or am I going to live happy just because at least I had for 17 years a wonderful love? People are lovable, lovely, have so many good qualities, I guess I want the same QUALITY of the love I felt and received. I want something as easy as a lightning striking twice in the same spot! :-) Hugs, Lisi
PuRrFekly_NrML !!
I know they exist, I had one.
But feelings change, and well, all have an end.
That is my problem how to find the second Mr. Right? For this time of my life, or am I going to live happy just because at least I had for 17 years a wonderful love?
People are lovable, lovely, have so many good qualities, I guess I want the same QUALITY of the love I felt and received.
I want something as easy as a lightning striking twice in the same spot! :-)
Hugs,
Lisi
we sure can say a lot about how they present themselves - I say the difference is probably is that here is just 2 dimension and real life 3. And there are other information we miss that is How things are said... in real life the experience is richer in details... so sometimes someone might be joking and to the readers may seem that the person is serious... we have let's see about 46.876% of information of how someone is... (in some cases it goes to almost 70%) The search to the superman of my dreams continues!!!LOL
Queen,
we sure can say a lot about how they present themselves - I say the difference is probably is that here is just 2 dimension and real life 3. And there are other information we miss that is How things are said... in real life the experience is richer in details... so sometimes someone might be joking and to the readers may seem that the person is serious... we have let's see about 46.876% of information of how someone is... (in some cases it goes to almost 70%)
The search to the superman of my dreams continues!!!LOL
Yes the hardware is all there, I mean like all the wiring and lamps etc, are the same for both man and woman, but when you turn on the lights they are different. I am questioning myself ... I want it all the complete package but is it possible?
smiling, Lisi
...Men are just as sensitive, and in some ways more sensitive, than women are....
Hi Ponzio,
Yes the hardware is all there, I mean like all the wiring and lamps etc, are the same for both man and woman, but when you turn on the lights they are different.
I am questioning myself ... I want it all the complete package but is it possible?
smiling,
Lisi
...Men are just as sensitive, and in some ways more sensitive, than women are....
I tend to think of a sensitive man (or woman) as a person who is aware of how they affect the people around them. They take the time to listen to what another person might be saying. They are careful of what they share about themselves and others. This type of person is conscious of what they are doing, and cares....
It is interesting how much we can see about who people are simply by how they present themselves here in blogland.
I tend to think of a sensitive man (or woman) as a person who is aware of how they affect the people around them. They take the time to listen to what another person might be saying. They are careful of what they share about themselves and others. This type of person is conscious of what they are doing, and cares....
It is interesting how much we can see about who people are simply by how they present themselves here in blogland.
You can find both characteristics in one man, IMO, a strong man is a sensitive man.
A sensitive man will speak from his heart: his success, disappointments, wide pools of hurt, fears, hopes, dreams and he's strong enough to ask for and accept his partners praise, support and feedback.
A sensitive man will cry while throwing punches in the air and feel comfortable finding solace in his lovers arms; yet is strong enough to protect, cherish, hug tenderly and lovingly the One woman he loves.
A strong man sets boundaries and respects his needs but is sensitive to the changing moods, needs and mysterious whimsical nature of his woman as well.
A sensitive man may love dreamy, useless impractical, beautiful and exhilarating things and is strong enough to express it. (I'm not talking about limp-wristed pink tissue paper toting kinda guy or ones who fancy nothing more than wearing our frilly, lacy things, lol)
Well I could go on and of course it's all about reciprocity. It's not always an easy dance to learn, or begin to learn for that matter. But finding a partner who is both strong and sensitive and who honors and supports the same in you, a partner willing to learn the Tango, changing ryhthms and stick with you thru all the dizzying array of steps in life and love....I think could be the best thing since sliced bread! Well I'm getting all dreamy again as I often do, and I have to remember what a wise, albeit disgruntled, gentleman once said "what good are ballroom shoes if your feet never hit the ground"
Hi aVirtualone<
You can find both characteristics in one man, IMO, a strong man is a sensitive man.
A sensitive man will speak from his heart: his success, disappointments, wide pools of hurt, fears, hopes, dreams and he's strong enough to ask for and accept his partners praise, support and feedback.
A sensitive man will cry while throwing punches in the air and feel comfortable finding solace in his lovers arms; yet is strong enough to protect, cherish, hug tenderly and lovingly the One woman he loves.
A strong man sets boundaries and respects his needs but is sensitive to the changing moods, needs and mysterious whimsical nature of his woman as well.
A sensitive man may love dreamy, useless impractical, beautiful and exhilarating things and is strong enough to express it. (I'm not talking about limp-wristed pink tissue paper toting kinda guy or ones who fancy nothing more than wearing our frilly, lacy things, lol)
Well I could go on and of course it's all about reciprocity. It's not always an easy dance to learn, or begin to learn for that matter. But finding a partner who is both strong and sensitive and who honors and supports the same in you, a partner willing to learn the Tango, changing ryhthms and stick with you thru all the dizzying array of steps in life and love....I think could be the best thing since sliced bread! Well I'm getting all dreamy again as I often do, and I have to remember what a wise, albeit disgruntled, gentleman once said "what good are ballroom shoes if your feet never hit the ground"
I did? I really asked you to have a brazilian? oh my god I am having serious memory problem lately and I don't even drink. Poor darling I am trying to imagine Shrek having a brazilian... did you arrive there using your new blue tights? bet you did not... you should have asked for general anesthesia ... it helps... now in reference to the last item to be removed please don't tell me she WAS using that 3X Magnifier lenses?? was she? Everything will be OK !! you will soon forget the pain and next month you will be there again...
Thanks for the kind words of encouragement, I will find my strong, kind, polite, elegant twin soul at... THE RestHome! How thoughtful!! I am delighted!!
BTW in Brazil MEN do not ever have a brazilian... was it my revenge because you left your sensitive man training in the middle? Your ballet teacher is missing you a lot ... kisses sweetheart and have a peaceful weekend... sweet dreams and remember to train for your " pas de deux " Love, evil minime
Aha my Pseudo-Neo-Sensitiveman,
I did? I really asked you to have a brazilian?
oh my god I am having serious memory problem lately and I don't even drink. Poor darling I am trying to imagine Shrek having a brazilian... did you arrive there using your new blue tights? bet you did not... you should have asked for general anesthesia ... it helps... now in reference to the last item to be removed please don't tell me she WAS using that 3X Magnifier lenses?? was she?
Everything will be OK !! you will soon forget the pain and next month you will be there again...
Thanks for the kind words of encouragement, I will find my strong, kind, polite, elegant twin soul at... THE RestHome! How thoughtful!! I am delighted!!
BTW in Brazil MEN do not ever have a brazilian... was it my revenge because you left your sensitive man training in the middle? Your ballet teacher is missing you a lot ... kisses sweetheart and have a peaceful weekend... sweet dreams and remember to train for your " pas de deux "
Love,
evil minime
your jokes are part of the training of all sensitive-to-be, ex-insensitive men, or the neo-sensitive man, and even the pseudo-neo-sensitive.
Regarding Alaska: The description of your experience was indeed touching thanks for sharing. But I won't ask any additional details. Although delighted to see the solidarity among the male of our specie, I shall decline the kind invitation to see and/or participate in any kind of visual manifestation where the underprivileged will be subject of abuse. I hope to have you in my blogs many times, your presence is an inspiration!
LOL... Hugs, Lisi
Saint!!
your jokes are part of the training of all sensitive-to-be, ex-insensitive men, or the neo-sensitive man, and even the pseudo-neo-sensitive.
Regarding Alaska: The description of your experience was indeed touching thanks for sharing. But I won't ask any additional details.
Although delighted to see the solidarity among the male of our specie, I shall decline the kind invitation to see and/or participate in any kind of visual manifestation where the underprivileged will be subject of abuse. I hope to have you in my blogs many times, your presence is an inspiration!
I hope you are not bothered with my two jokes about sensitivity men. I mean no harm,,,, men will laugh at these if they read them,,,, I do have my sensitivity moments I think. I just can't remember when it Happened.
I'm not sure real men can be very sensitive.
I also remember a few women that attacked some small guy for posting a nude photo of himself...lol... Damn, the guy was pretty small to,, wasn't he..
I think when I went up to Barrow, Alaska in the middle of the winter, I think it was -50, mine shriveled up to about that same size... It was sure cold,,, had nothing to do with being 50 years old. It was real cold.
I think more men should put nude photos up, just to take the abuse from all you women.
I hope you are not bothered with my two jokes about sensitivity men. I mean no harm,,,, men will laugh at these if they read them,,,, I do have my sensitivity moments I think. I just can't remember when it Happened.
I'm not sure real men can be very sensitive.
I also remember a few women that attacked some small guy for posting a nude photo of himself...lol... Damn, the guy was pretty small to,, wasn't he..
I think when I went up to Barrow, Alaska in the middle of the winter, I think it was -50, mine shriveled up to about that same size... It was sure cold,,, had nothing to do with being 50 years old. It was real cold.
I think more men should put nude photos up, just to take the abuse from all you women.
Thank's God such man does exist Optimistic... strong in both ways... but most emotionaly strong, after all we are getting old and you know ... can't ask a man to carry my suitcases LOL watch your back !! but you are optimistc my friend so I might have to challange you on that one ... or not?
Thank's God such man does exist Optimistic...
strong in both ways... but most emotionaly strong, after all we are getting old and you know ... can't ask a man to carry my suitcases LOL watch your back !!
but you are optimistc my friend so I might have to challange you on that one ... or not?
I do not want a sensitive man (stereotypical type) at all. If he's more softspoken than I am, there is an issue. If he talks less than I do. There's an issue. On my days off I may not vocally say ten words. If he cries... and he's not in need of the ER, a friend/family member didn't die . . etc... There's an issue. If he likes 'chic flicks' and Romance novels and isn't a writer of the genres . . . we have an issue. If he is small enough that I think I could bench press him . . . we have an issue. And lastly . . . if I am more ambitious . . we have a serious issue. Same with income. If I earn more ... forget it.
There are ways to be romantic and not be a pansy.
I do not want a sensitive man (stereotypical type) at all. If he's more softspoken than I am, there is an issue. If he talks less than I do. There's an issue. On my days off I may not vocally say ten words. If he cries... and he's not in need of the ER, a friend/family member didn't die . . etc... There's an issue. If he likes 'chic flicks' and Romance novels and isn't a writer of the genres . . . we have an issue. If he is small enough that I think I could bench press him . . . we have an issue. And lastly . . . if I am more ambitious . . we have a serious issue. Same with income. If I earn more ... forget it.
Strong as in Physical strength or in emotional form? I believe a man can be strong in either form and yet be very sensitive. In fact I think in order to be senitive to one's environment requires a great deal of emotional strength. So in answer to your question, Yes I do believe men can be very sensitive and still be strong
Strong as in Physical strength or in emotional form? I believe a man can be strong in either form and yet be very sensitive. In fact I think in order to be senitive to one's environment requires a great deal of emotional strength. So in answer to your question, Yes I do believe men can be very sensitive and still be strong
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