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Posted on Sun, Jan 20, 2008 13:48

Ok I am curious again... there are several very special women who have added me to their favorites..., but when I write to them they don't write back... in fact most of the women I write to on here don't respond... could someone help me understand why.

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Posted on Mon, Sep 20, 2010 14:06

I ran into the same problem with men...maybe the candy store has so many choices and its hard to make ONE choice...hee hee...who knows... I have met some nice men...and some not so nice... but all in all its been a good experience...My first such site...was given to be as a birthday present from my daughter...been much fun... Enjoy! m


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Posted on Wed, Jan 23, 2008 15:50

Sparkys, I attempted several times to reply to your email but it would not send. Having read your profile and checked out your pictures, i have this to say.. you get MAJOR points for even knowing who/what Hoobastank is ! Nice painting and its good to stretch your own ! I am a semi-crazed artist, too and I lOVE to sing...can you actually play those instruments ? Couldnt enlarge the primary photo enough to see what kind of plans they were... Don't you just LOVE the newest Chad Kroger/Carlos collaboration ??? " and they danced on into the nighttttttt" How do you feel about Incubus ? how much "younger" do you prefer? and what kinds of occasions do you frequent as the term "stylish and well dressed" could mean a whole entire different style,,depending. And no, I dont live in Australia,,I just like to go there.


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Posted on Wed, Jan 23, 2008 14:02

Thank you for your nice email. When I attempted to reply. MM;s wonderful programming once again came into play and it would not send. Oh Well. Its difficult at times not to be cynical. But there are many decent kind and sincere people of both sexes here looking for a real connection. Unfortunatley there ARE a number of others here who are not. Telling the difference can be tiring. Trust your instincts and dont worry much about those who dont make an effort to reply. Its their loss. Happy Blogging. Miss D


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Posted on Wed, Jan 23, 2008 12:31

I am new at this... hope I am doing it right. Well your in depth reply was quite an eye opener... I guess I am so careful not to attract someone for what I have that I have shot myself in the foot. Funny how difficult it is to sell yourself when everyone in the past introductions has done it for you. No I am not looking for a super model or a celebrity... just an attractive girl who has a little class and takes care of herself. I guess bottom line is the men are looking for sex appeal and the girls are looking for money, which I have been very careful not to disclose... I guess we are not 18 anymore and love is just a dream. You have helped me understand why I am not meeting some of the women I have contacted... Thanks


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Posted on Mon, Jan 21, 2008 09:48

OMG Tinkerbelle. Looks like you are about to become a blind date on lay away. Not your style I am quite sure. What is the world coming to??? LOL.. Pic plagiarized from somewhere. Wish I had one of those to come home to.


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Posted on Mon, Jan 21, 2008 08:37

hey Bill thats pretty funny .and accurrate ! By the way,,Ide like to order a few Kuta Cowboys to go please ! Just have them delivered to the front desk at the Green Garden Hotel....my driver will fetch them.


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Posted on Mon, Jan 21, 2008 08:36

LOL Bill as usual a fresh approach. I never realised I was a lay away LOL


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Posted on Mon, Jan 21, 2008 05:35

Imagine it this way. Think of yourself perusing through a giant real time candy store catalog; stocked with all kinds of personalities, life styles and looks to choose from. Your initial reaction is let's try them all. I want one of these, one of those and a couple of them. Maybe I should sample a few Europeans or Chileans. Never had one of those before. A Columbian might add fun to the party. lol. Kuta cowboys are on sale this week. Give me three. Where do you think "fee, fi, fo, fum, I smell the blood of an Englishman" came from?? Then you finish your shopping for the day and you hit the check out line. Much to your dismay you find out what your total list of selections is going to cost. For most it would narrow the field in a hurry. What's discarded at the check out counter becomes known as the favorites. You are on hold for another shopping spree on another day. I believe it's called the "lay away" plan. lol. Much kinder and gentler than being known as chopped liver. Don't you think???...lol

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Posted on Mon, Jan 21, 2008 00:50

it happens to me all the time . I even have men e mail me. I reply and they dont bother to respond. Very strange


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Posted on Sun, Jan 20, 2008 16:30

OK ..I will. HI , my name is Darcy and Ive been on MM for about two years. I tend to be a bit blunt,,soooooooo You are handsome enough and seem nice. PLenty of comments. I would change the "myself" portion of your profile and leave out the negative stuff. No one needs to know you were engaged but it didnt work out.Not at the beginning anyway. What kind of women do you consider "very special "? Were they ultra rich ? Were they especially young and beautiful ? You really have to pay attention to peoples profiles when dating online. IF they say something like,,I want to be spoiled and pampered,,well ,they want MONEY.A common factor among some of the women here. You dont list your income. Thats ok,,except there are those who will not be interested because they dont want to waste time on an unknown. Your profile isnt very descriptive either. Perhaps an update is in order. I put people in my favs who I want to be able to contact later on...so I dont forget their usernames. Its doesnt mean I think they are great or perfect or I must meet them,,just that I dont want to forget their names. Are YOU making the effort to contact these women ? The basic biology of human beings doesnt get altered much in Cyberland...its still boy meet girl,,boy like girl,,boy PURSUE girl. If you are waiting around for women to pursue you,,you are in for along wait. Attraction is a funny beast. But it remains the same in many ways no matter what the medium. Where these women close to your own personal ratings on the "wonderful scale" ? If they, for instance, happened to be a Supermodel, a rating of 10 in physical attracton,,what do you have to offer to match that ? If they are a celebrity,,what you do have to even out the playing field in that regard ? If they are just young and beautiful,,well,,how much money do you have ? SURE its insulting to think thats how life is..but IT IS how life is. Deal with reality and you get better results. Research into love and relationships shows over and over again that in order to be successful,,each person should be no more than 2 points away from the other in the ratings. They probably dont consider you in their league. OR they just had a off day when you wrote.. Could be anything. Best to hang those ones up and move on.


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Posted on Sun, Jan 20, 2008 15:30

I've ran into the same problem with men. I really don't have an answer. I think it must depend on the mood they were in when they added the person, or they had difference reasons for the adding other than communication? No clue there. Good luck


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