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Nicegirl1268
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Posted on Mon, Sep 10, 2007 04:51

Is it wrong to remain on this site even if you become attached? Notice, I did not say dating site. Because I feel this has become much more than that for many people. Most of us would say that we are searching for our perfect match, but honestly how many of you feel that the blogs and the people in them fill some kind of void in your life? So that finding someone takes a back seat. AT first, I was hopeful, then I became jaded, cynical...as time went on, and seeing all of you, reading about you, getting to know special things about every one of you. I have come to realize that at my core I am you. I have grown to care about everyone here. Even the people who I was at odds with...honestly, I hope you are all OK and find peace. Secretly, I think I sabatoge my potential relationships, because I don't want to "trade you in". And even though, I do not need permission, or validation from you, I value your opinion. Does anyone else feel this way, or am I crazy? ~T~


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Posted on Mon, Sep 17, 2007 08:27

T, remember Cat? she was blogging even though she had somebody living with her. They both had good laughs at some MM's situations. So for as long as you have total trust in each other, blogging here or elsewhere should not be a problem... at least this is how I see it! My best, Peri


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Posted on Mon, Sep 17, 2007 07:32

No its not wrong. I think as long as you make it clear in your profile you've found someone and just looking for friends. Thats what I've done. sarah :-)


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Posted on Tue, Sep 11, 2007 16:49

I agree with EmpressBee. I enjoy talking and meeting friends on here. I have met more men on other sites. This is the only site that has blogs. The blogs make it special. I'm so sick of these flirts from other places that have no real person behind them. The only way you can read into another is to meet them on the blogs and get a feel for their personality. Anyway, this place is special. I haven't been here too often here lately because my kindergarten children have kept me way too busy. Now, since I have them started I will share more with everyone. Lynncat


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Posted on Tue, Sep 11, 2007 16:30

Hey there T. This is a great topic. As you know I have been seeing someone for several months now. I am no longer a member of this site but I do check in now and again on the blogs because I enjoy the exchange of ideas and the positive contributions. I do find the responses to this blog quite telling; that they don't look at this site as one for dating but more of a social network site. I think the blogs really foster that environment. Best to you NKP


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Posted on Tue, Sep 11, 2007 08:49

Hi ~T~ I have to say this site has never been about dating for me. It very quickly became about the friendships that I made with some of the people here. And those friendships will survive long after the membership is cancelled. ;)


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Posted on Mon, Sep 10, 2007 23:22

I thought I joined to find another unique, fascinating passionate loving faithful man..that I was ready again...after. I wasnt. But finding that out was a process. In the meantime, blogging was about as close as I could stand to be to anyone. Ive moved to a new place, started a new business, and still,,it has not been the right time , yet. But I think it will be, soon. Sometimes, the outlook on life was so bleak,,i wished I could just go to sleep and not wake up.This place has been a saving grace in the middle of the night,,when things have been too quiet.


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Posted on Mon, Sep 10, 2007 22:47

When I joined here, matching others was my only intention, so from my point of view, being on MM just to blog, doesn't mean necessarily looking for your own match! But now of course, I'm no longer playing cupid..(ok just for couple or so girls lol), I think blog can enhance my search!!!


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