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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 06:02

why is everyone hooked on photos ...read profiles no photo no talk.. not interested.... are you looking for love or trophies??? do you need to see something that might scare you away???? there are plenty of good reasons for not posting photos 1) stalkers 2) they don't do a person justice not many look as good in photos as in person 3) they add or take away weight 4) they really don't show the best feature of a person ( the brain and heart) and yes I've sent plenty out and scared a lot of people away one asked to meet and I sent a photo and he never got back ...then he tried a second time and again the same I guess that wart on my nose looks worst than I thought LOL any comments


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Posted on Mon, May 07, 2007 16:28

thanks everyone for the comments and I apologize for anyone who was offended that was not my intention ...I just wanted to liven things up a bit and have some fun Hootz since I per fer being behind the camera and not in front that won't be easy the latest one shows scared???maybe because I didn't want the photo taking...I did it for my grandsons since they live so far away I wanted them to know who I am


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Posted on Mon, May 07, 2007 14:44

OK first off steve those aren't sunglasses they are what I need to see with....second yes those photos were put on on due to the extreme pressure I was put under here and yes I do read and respond to profiles without photos cause people do have reasons for not putting one on some legitimate and some not but being honest and nothing to hide all one has to do is ask!! BUT I WILL SEND PHOTOS IF GIVEN AN EMAIL ADDRESS so there is no ugh I don't want her after communicating and I do have a recent one 10/07 I don't like it but it's current PuRrFekly NrML- I too had that same situation happen till he sent a photo but he was easy to get rid of cause he had a one tract mind and I wouldn't/t answer the one question he kept asking so he gave up contacting me bambidag thank you and that is one of the reasons I'm now being bashed for so I sent in my sisters car and an old distant photo to make people happy and I do come with a sense of humor


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Posted on Sat, May 05, 2007 22:29

Welcome back Sep!!! Lol!! Muah


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Posted on Sat, May 05, 2007 22:12

Pics show character and lifestyle and creativity and interests. When I haven't posted photos, I wasn't really invested in a search. I was figuring out what my character and lifestyle and interests truly were. And getting my feet wet for when I was truly ready to date. What posting photos says to me is that the person is ready and willing to put themselves out there for scrutiny by others. I respect that, and in fact expect that from a potential partner. A friend of mine used to say "Someone may not have the most attractive face...but on a Dating Site, I'd like to know they at least Have One!"


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Posted on Sat, May 05, 2007 17:54

i agree with bambi. . .and even if they are not hiding a spouse often times they are hiding their ugly mug


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Posted on Sat, May 05, 2007 11:22

OK all good answers here and I appreciate it but if interested why not ask for a pic I'll gladly send one to those interested and give an email address ...which means you still see me and /or others to decide to continue or not so nothing is really lost and bambi I have nothing to hide except fear of a stalker if you have never been or no someone that has been you have no idea what they go through


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 23:15

Gentleman... You are very right, in fact I'd say a lot of women, not the good ones, put personality a late third, to stability, (money), or looks... But, hey, a lot of them, you might have good chemistry with... so, as long as you provide them, with what they need, I guess they'll keep you...until someone better comes along, or that chemistry wanes... But, what exactly have you got ? Besides chemistry... That is my point, and it's really not gender bias, actually, I think there are more rotten women out there, than men, and I think a lot of good women on here, will agree... & of course, Mr. Kisses... : )


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 22:30

I have to put my 2 cents in here.. sorry no whip cream.. fresh out tonight.. but I my opinion anyone that does not post a picture is "hiding" something. Otherwise, they would be more than pround to post a pic. Smiley honey darling sweetheart!! We know your not looking for a trophy wife!! You got me!! Muah Babe!!!


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 22:28

do both and balance your photos balance your prose


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 21:05

i guess it'sjust me...


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 18:06

Hey Angel... Guys are so visual, you could have the best personality in the world, and be put aside for some hot, nasty, selfish girl, if the " chemistry's not there " ?? But, in the long run, that hotty, will be just, old & selfish, no longer hot, and VERY LONELY... Then, the guy will then have to divorce her, I guess ... On to the next... I didn't put any picture on this other site, same basic profile, and nobody was interested but very few, Now, I'm slammed with interest....with really terrible pictures, I was half asleep, it was 2:30AM and this guy, had to see what I looked like...didn't believe me... So, I did the webcam thing, just to prove, It was me... I don't know what the answer is... but I do know, a lot of guys are going to be sorry someday, because I can see beauty in everyone, not always chemistry, but that could fade in time too, so you just better like the person... I just got back from a wedding, and I sat next to 3 different people on the plane. One guy was super-nice, made time just fly by, a good married man, I might add, next, a young Mexican guy, probably in his early 20's, really nice, we were exchanging driver's licenses, so we knew each other's names... but finally, AUGH.. I had to sit next to this 30 something gal, that thought VERY highly of herself, would not even exchange a smile, dressed to the nines, somewhat attractive, but.. I just thought to myself... WOW, what a difference in people. I see now, God's reference to Pride comes before a fall, in the day of judgement, the least of you, will have a claim on those blessed ... and first will be last, and last will be first... Well, I'd rather learn Spanish, than sit one second, with that nasty gal...ever again ! But, I'll bet she acts differently to her boyfriends, Until..... she's GOT "EM>>>> Be careful guys... SHE'S OUT THERE ...


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 17:27

do not bring up red heads, my family will didown me if I go out with another red head


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 12:45

mike sorry you took that wrong it was under smiling not yours I've read enough of your blogs to know that you are not looking for a trophy so please accept my apologies for that misunderstanding


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 12:35

why would you assume I want a trophy wife. There is nothing further from the truth, I really detest it when assumptions are made. For the record I just want someone who is right for me, not someone to show off to everyone else. I have never been stalked so I can not totally understand what the women go through, but I am sure it is not easy.


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 12:19

mike I agree with you ..but I still stand by the stalker thing if you have never been there or heard the horror stories you don't know what it's like being stalked if you want a photo why not ask up front you say you are straight forward smiling - no offense but people with money are always looking for trophies nothing else matters and those of you who have money and want trophies are not any better looking than some of the "ugly" people both what's wrong with friendships do they have to be beautiful also PS I'm not a trophy or beauty queen so I definitely don't fit either of your profiles


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 10:57

How many of us have had text conversations with someone that sounded fantastic, only to see their photo finally and go oh my god. Now your left with the dilemma of telling them we are not a match, it is very awkward. If we had seen the photo Right up front that situation would never have occured.


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 10:45

photos do answer a million questions running through our heads when we are looking for the one we want to be with. Chemistry is based, not totally, but highly on the visual. A posted pic helps us to not waste time trying to develop a relationship with someone who is definitely not our "type". Now, if you or someone is not looking for anyone, then who needs photos. But they are helpful for both parties to get better aquainted. lthough for some, this is about a beauty contest..., but it is not the case with many people, and definietly not the case with the ones that value the much more important things...heart and mind. When I am in my late 60's, no one is going to care about my pics, but I will still have a heart that keeps on giving....


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 09:41

Photos are not everything. Yes they can be misleading but I prefer a photograph on a profile because its nice to see a face behind words. People are very visual. They look to see a person they see as attractive- all shapes and sizes, then want to get to know them better. So its up to the individual if they want to put photos up or not. I put photos up, as sometimes a picture speaks a thousand words. sarah :-)


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 09:13

kitten- I agree with you and that's exactly what I do ...you give me an email address I'll be happy to send you one mike- thanks I agree with being honest and up front also anyone emails me and asks a question or for a photo I'll gladly answer it truthfully as long as it is legitimate PS that's why I added you to my favorite list


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