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Posted on Wed, Apr 04, 2007 13:51

1. Tell her she is beautiful 2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second. 3. Hug her from behind 4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to. 5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you. 6. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most. 7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her....let her know she's yours and they aren't. 8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi" 9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend. 10. Play with her hair. 11. Pick her up (she loves it) 12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it 13. Make her laugh 14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. 15. If she's mad at you, kiss her. 16. If you care about her, then (we all know this is a challenge) TELL HER 17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it everytime she goes to sleep), jewelry(will treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed) and don't forget to bring her flowers or something special once in a while. 18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone. 19. Look her in the eyes and smile. 20. Hang out with her on weekends (guys, this WILL NOT, i repeat WILL NOT kill you) 21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this) 22. Kiss her just for the heck of it 23. If you're listening to music, let her listen too. 24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER. 25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just when ever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.) 26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care - so call even if you can only talk for a minute. 27. Read whatever you can find on how women think and what they like. You study for school and work about stuff that brings you very little joy. Why neglect studying a subject that can impact your whole life?! 28. Learn about what it takes to make her "toes curl", and then practice that over and over until you get it right.... And then, of course, never forget it, and never stop doing it... (Oh, unless whatever "it" is changes, which may occur without warning, so be prepared to adapt!) 29. Tell the kids how absolutely fantastic there Mom is... over and over... 30. get really creative on special occasions. Give a lot of thought. The more time you put into planning, the more she will appreciate it. Let it be a surprise if possible... 31. Spontaneously jump on a plane, train or automobile, and go Meet her, wherever she may be, and damn the consequences! :o)


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Posted on Thu, May 31, 2007 21:34

I love waht you say smilinhappy. You can talk the talk. Can you walk the walk? Quinn


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Posted on Thu, Apr 26, 2007 22:25

And you know that she appreciates all of these things, especially the last one!! Kiss Hug Honey


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Posted on Thu, Apr 26, 2007 13:00

Smiley: Ah---hemm. That's all I can take. You are definitly giving me a bad case of 'ladywood'. Whew! It's getting hot in here.


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Posted on Sun, Apr 15, 2007 14:48

aw!!


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Posted on Sun, Apr 15, 2007 14:33

That right Barb! But you know, just cause I don't have to, doesn't mean we can't meet anyway... There must be other MM'ers out in our area. Maybe we could get an east coast gathering going... Have to give it some thought, huh?


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Posted on Sun, Apr 15, 2007 12:00

Gem! Where were you? we missed you! I heard your name come up (all really good stuff - don't worry), but couldn't place the name with the profile. Nice to meetcha!


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Posted on Sun, Apr 15, 2007 10:56

Kari! AHHHH, Vegas... bright lights, no clocks, excitment around every corner, late, late, late nights, sun, warmth, an eternity of endless connecting rooms and halls with (somewhat annoying) bells and little jingles, and bars and restaurants and shows - all requiring lots of strolling from here to there and back again (where the heck is the bathroom!). And people.... all walks of life from all over the planet... dressed in all sorts of ways... I came, I saw, I had a blast! I will be back to visit again... And that's all I can say, because you know what they say...."What happens in Vegas, ..." ;o)


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Posted on Sat, Apr 14, 2007 09:43

Thanks MissT! Love your new pic! You're beautiful, girl! GUYS!!! Very special lady here.... treat her well...


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Posted on Thu, Apr 12, 2007 22:58

31. Spontaneously jump on a plane, and go Meet her at the Eiffel Tower in Vegas! Wish me Luck! :o) OMG, Smiley!!!!, YOU GO GIRL!!, I MEAN BOY!!!, LMAO!!..."wink", Hugs, KARI


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Posted on Thu, Apr 12, 2007 13:54

That is a great list. Good Luck! T.


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Posted on Sun, Apr 08, 2007 10:48

Sugar plum, darling - I love you too!! From the top of my whip cream castle to the bottom of my Stiletto's shoes!! Muah Leon that is deep!!


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Posted on Sun, Apr 08, 2007 10:36

You girls are great... Basia, I got it started for you. Go take a peak. Thanks for the inspiration... Greenapple... I am single (but I am, of course, madly in love with my Blogland wife, Bambi), and I have a brother who is not attached... :o) Go git him Girls!


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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 20:34

How long? Well that depends on the man and the woman... When the woman realizes the guy needs to smile just as much as she does, and she takes steps to make him smile back at her... Well, then a man can sustain forever... (no Viagra necessary!) BUt, honestly, and from first hand experience... If she doesn't reciprocate... it will totally depend on how patient he can be... Most men have a pretty short attention span, no?


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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 19:07

Peggy... excellent question. I am all ears... Although Bambi would say I am all hands, and lips, and other extremities...


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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 18:49

Peggy Sue I think I have 100 ways!! But I'm not listing them.. SOMEONE will eventually find out!! lol Oh honey, so quickly you forget... I was at that 3 hour massage with Vick that you signed me up for!! Woohoo!!!


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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 15:27

Thanks Kari chick! PeggySue... You hit the nail on the head... so I don't have to feel guilty? Good. I'm having too much fun, and that would just mess the whole thing up. :-) Now where's that wife of mine? I know she is in here somewhere... (Struts off...)


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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 14:13

OMG, OMG!!! Bambi's Man is like sssooooo Romantic!!, I wish "ALL" Men would learn from You Smilling!!!, Bless Your little Romantic, Sweet and Tender Heart!! Hey do you have a "TWIX"???, LMAO..OMG!! thinking chocolate!!, that's when Im under stress cause of my failed engagement to my Cowboy!! I mean UUmmmm?, a "TWIN" Brother???, lol, lol..Hugs, KARI

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Posted on Sat, Apr 07, 2007 13:06

Mr. K... There is some truth, there... sometimes it is easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask permission... Wait, did I say that out loud? But, seriously, the whole philosopy behind making them smile is actually quite selfish, when you dig right into it... You do the work mainly for the reward.... Having her smile and be happy typically brings rewards(positive reinforcement). To a degree there is that element of avoiding the penalty (negative reinforcement) that comes with not makng them happy... So, a paradigm shift is necesary to look at this, not as a lot of hard work "just for some broad", but as a means to an end. If the reward is great and pleasurable, then the work is light. And I have found from experience, as I am sure you have too, that when they are happy, you are happy... and typically the rewards are most pleasurable.... wink, wink nudge, nudge,. Know what I mean? Know what I mean? Give it a try.... It is defintiely worth it!


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Posted on Fri, Apr 06, 2007 21:45

Thanks ladies! And I guess I apologize on behalf of my entire gender... Stay tuned, because I am working on numbers 27 through ??? :o)


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