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Posted on Apr 03, 2007 at 06:23 PM

I have begun writing a book on why men cheat and the motivations behind their indescetions. For you men out there, feel free to post your comments or email me directly For you woman, tune in, because this blog is going to be very interesting. The first reason I would like to put out there for discussion is that Men have to cheat, to maintain their fragile sense of self esteem.

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Posted on Jun 15, 2019 at 08:05 AM

If a woman shuts down and won’t have sex,a man will start looking for someone else after some time,some of them they’ll cheat no matter what,they are just weak. I been cheated on,I hope I will never have to go through that again.

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Posted on Jun 14, 2019 at 04:07 PM

Men cheat because they "feel" that their penis represents something powerful? A man will cheat because he is insecure about himself or is not communicating his needs or wants to the other person

 

 

Don't be in a committed relationship if you think you will probably emotionally hurt someone

 

 

 

I do not think that most men cheat


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Posted on Jun 14, 2019 at 02:29 PM

l think the best way to look at that is to ask what cheating means to you? Cheating your FEELINGS is more hurtful than other ways of cheating? l tried to be as elegant as l can about "other ways".

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Posted on Jun 14, 2019 at 02:15 PM

I've never have cheated on a gf or wife. But just about every woman has cheated on me. They all thought they could have me and someone else. They also thought they would never get caught. Eventually it all comes out. I've learned to see the signs of cheating. Why can't women be happy with just one man? I will never understand that question. 😒

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Posted on Jun 14, 2019 at 02:01 PM

I am also writing a book called "Why women don't give a damn"

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Posted on Jun 14, 2019 at 10:46 AM

Why most women don't care to know about why men cheat!!!

For the same reason noone cares to know why dog💩 smells bad.
IT JUST DOES! Step around it and keep moving.

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Posted on Jun 13, 2019 at 02:21 PM

They cheat for the same reason women do (and women cheat almost as much as men do).  They are unhappy.  It might be their spouses fault, it might be unresolved issues.

 

Note, I have noticed that there are two kinds of men that date women much younger than them:

 

1) Those that grew up heavily in demand (wealthy parents, tall, in great shape, handsome and got into a good college).  Women threw themselves at him his entire life and he never had to work hard to get a new girl.  Tjerefore they never valued woman for anything except beauty, so he always picks the prettiest woman he can get.

 

2) Those that grew up being rejected by women all the time.  They hit it big, earn a ton of money and try to redo their life by dating woman that look like the women that rejected them way back when.  Quote "Why should I date  old ladies that probably would have laughed at my face when I was poor when I can date these hotties?"

 

 

 

 

 



All names have been changed to protect the guilty.
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Posted on May 01, 2019 at 08:33 PM

There’s one class never taught in any school. It’s called relationships. So it’s learning on the fly. Human behavior and survival take precedent over good choices sometimes. Not just men, but all genders often opt to cheat when they are backed into a corner. Bad decisions arrive in fight or flight mode. Some see it as an easy quick fix. The numbers seem to prove its most often the worst decision.

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Posted on May 01, 2019 at 08:26 PM

This is interesting stuff. People don’t come with owners manuals so communication is critical. When needs aren’t met people seem to find fulfillment in other ways. It’s their life. When spouses mentally and emotionally check out. The lines of integrity get blurred. If couples spent as much effort on their relationship as they did learning their profession- this would change. I believe that couples who are willing to work at it have dramatically less risk of a soouse cheating. People grow at different speeds and desires change. Planning for this in advance will save a lot of wasted time, money and heartache that causes irreparable damage that the next partner must deal with. Nobody really spends the time and effort required to align mutual needs and education so partners remain on the same page and life plan so shit happens. Sad but true. My ex shut off all opportunity of resolution, what does one do then. This is a behavior pattern she has had all her life. I can’t fix mental issues. Stayed faithful but just moved closer to happiness instead. Im sure i’m the same as many on here. Some guys just throw in the towel and seek satisfaction to soothe their ego. However, shortsightedness is expensive in multiple ways.

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Posted on Apr 13, 2019 at 04:45 PM

You mean indiscretions!

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Posted on Apr 13, 2019 at 03:29 PM

Great advertising

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Posted on Apr 13, 2019 at 05:24 AM

Its not that deep. You are a man that cheats or you are not a man that cheats. If a man cheats once they are open to cheating. Who cares why, just know if that happens once it will happen a 100 times. There is no reason only their excuse. Dump asap!

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 05:44 PM

Men lies /women lies. Men cheats /women cheats. Why? Lots of reasons. They all have reasons. Lol

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 05:26 PM

You mention amiture...you mean if i looked to have sex with men all day long....lol .i do have better things to do each day. i'm at the age where i know how to control myself. Ancestors they lived past the age of 90 years old.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 05:14 PM

My Son is younger than you five years. I don't want to be with the much older then my age. Cuz i still had too much energy in me. And too young lack of life experience in everyways. I got Grandsons no need for me to craddle the young things.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 04:46 PM

Anytime wasted on relationship that just won't works its a wasted of time. Times does slip by each second /minutes means lost of a good chance or good future you can have or to accomplish better in life.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 04:42 PM

I understood completly. What is the point of staying in marry to a man with no sex to a man you are /have the tittle as being his wife and he's a husband to you. So you rather let him use you? Living under your roof and taking care of him while he went outing having sex with numerous women? Hahaha....mine as well stay single and do your own things. Yeahhh....we human do need each other at some point. But if he or she uses you and abuse you in everyway is no good. Mentally, verbally , and physically if he's no longer want to touch you ....as you say sexless. Move on do your own and don't use kids as an excuses to stay together if it won't works then. It won't works now. Cuz he /she learnd and knew what button to push to play with your mind.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 04:06 PM

Don't get me wrong i do like men/people in general. But im in tittle to be as picky as i like or wanted too. Is call we all do have self respects. If a man or woman too is too easy pices of Ass is no good. In life there are lots of activities to be do and to see. It doesn't have to be base on sex first right off. Need to take some time to get to know each other first. Human do have mind,heart,body and soul.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 03:54 PM

Off course they worked very hard together. Now a day lets meet up for coffee...lol and for the men of how they see it. If they have to buy dinner or whater ...even just a drink they think they are intitle to have sex with you/women right away. That's full of BS. Lol them men they are not worth of my time to spend with. Cuz they only see you/women as to use them for sex on and on. Cheap ass men.

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