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Posted on Sat, Nov 04, 2006 07:12

perhaps this is a boring blog...


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Posted on Mon, Nov 13, 2006 15:38

Erica, If the man I'm seeing has done romantic gestures for me, sure, in that case, I'd probably try to reciprocate. That's probably why I've rarely ever done any. Virtually none of them ever have.


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Posted on Thu, Nov 09, 2006 07:23

AA...most men love romantic gestures...try it some time...I mean what do you have to lose..if nothing else he will be touched that you chose to take the time and effort out to show him how much you care.. Erica Anne @}----------


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Posted on Thu, Nov 09, 2006 07:18

T.. I do think you have a romantic there...if so..you are in for a beautiful time....*wink* Candie...now you are just beautiful...sweet and adorable...How could a man not be romantic with you..... Tons...I understand how you feel...I have received the same experience...but you shouldn't let it cloud how you perceive a romantic gesture....You are judging from past bad experiences....this is sad... being romantic...doesn't have to mean anything more than that...It is just some one's way of acting out what they are feeling inside...some people are just romantic by nature..they are givers....


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Posted on Mon, Nov 06, 2006 16:51

Erica, I think one advantage that men might have is that as long as they're not doing the romantic gestures too early into the relationship, they can do them and not worry about making a fool out of themselves. WE women are probably worried that if WE do them, we'll scare the poor guy off! At least that's my main reason why I haven't done a whole lot of the things you mentioned on your list, aside from cooking dinner and making CDs.


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Posted on Mon, Nov 06, 2006 14:50

Hi 75th Ranger how are you? Yes it depends on the nature of the person...more than the gender...Just as Some people are more touchy feely and some will shrink away when touched...to me being romantic is in one's nature..if this is not their nature and they are acting romatically..they will feel uncomfortable and out of their element..one can usually tell if it is natural or not...I love it when I guy gets all kinds of crazy and shows it...It melts my heart... good to see you again ranger


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Posted on Sun, Nov 05, 2006 17:47

AA..I agree on some of your points ..but I have found that just about every man I know have or are reading relationship books...many have chosen to go to counseling..and the ones who have been or are in relationships have even asked their significant others to go with them and have received refusals.... I have found men to be incredibly romantic...not just with sending flowers ..for no reason at all..but through their writing....I have received poetry written for me...prose..songs and music written for me.....surprise picnics...I have received special romantic CDs put together just for me...I love you written out in roses on my drive way....one sent me a chord of wood for years.....they have cooked for me...When I was thrown from my horse ..a friend could not take off from his Corp...so he called me and read to me over the phone...a whole novelette...I have had cookies baked for me and sent thru the mail...all kinds of surprises dreamed up....I can't tell you how many times...someone has gone down on their knees in a public place to ask me to marry them....one did it on a Sat. night in the middle of town square...men are willing to look foolish just for their ladies...love...they are always wanting to know what makes us happy...they really do care..they are interested... I have friends I know who really care with all their hearts they do.....they really want to please...they want to communicate....these days men take care with their living space..making it beautiful ..cozy ..comfortable..with scents ..candles fire places and color co coordinating everything....giggle...they want to look good..smell good..they want to please...and most men want to please the lady first in an intimate situation...sometimes even denying their own needs to do this...men are more out spoken about their emotional needs ...wants..desires...disappointments and pain than they ever were...and they say the most endearing things that will literally melt a girls heart...men are like little boys ..when they make their lady happy...their eyes light up ..they blush...and they glow with this inner light...I feel men are truly coming into their own...they are no longer afraid to show their feelings through actions...or words....I feel what we need to do is just be more aware..listen to them...watch them...If they watch a chick flick with you..now how romantic is this? Call to check on us..see how we are doing..make coffee and bring it to us before they head off to work..pick up their clothes..wrap a warm towel around us hot out of the dryer....tie our sneakers when they come undone...take care of us when we are sick... I have received hand made cards...teddy bears that say I love you ...with their voice recorded...one rose every day for a year....once I had so many flowers...coming in that I began to dry them...and made potpourri out of them...I was making so much I thought about opening a little boutique...guys are constantly asking what we like what we want ..what are our dreams.... Men are extremely romantic...perhaps when one gets right down to it..even more romantic than most women...they certainly feel deeply...they hurt longer...they are more sensitive even thought they have been conditioned to hang tough....I think today's man..is in touch with his sensitive side just as Mailoderman states in his post..and mysticbuzz..hints around that he too is a romantic....how beautiful this is......It is and has been my experience that men are more open more vulnerable...and even more emotional than ever....they are so incredibly passionate....giving....and most are very affectionate....They are incredibly sentimental too...One friend of mine kept every little paper ..note ...bottle cap...ribbon..email..Im...I ever touched or wrote...I don't know..about everyone else..I just know with my experiences...the men have been amazingly romantic beings.... It is true not all men are romantic by nature...but neither or women...my best girlfriend said in a smug patronizing way one day...Erica men are always wanting to protect you and to take care of you...you are always receiving flowers etc etc.....don't you just hate it...flowers die...who needs it I rather just go for it.....so you see...she was just the opposite of me.....she hated men who were romantic found it silly stupid and a waste of time...I believe it is a given that most women are romantic by nature....but I also believe men are too.....we just need to pay attention...and appreciate.... Why even now...I am receiving the most beautiful communications...that are so endearing....I can only appreciate this wonderful quality...what better way to let someone know you care ..than to put one's feelings into action. ..... If you ask me we all could stand to be more romantic....I love romance...It is just to Sweet.....*wink* Erica @)---------- Barbara...thank you...lol....that was too funny!!!!! Erica @)----------

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Posted on Sat, Nov 04, 2006 16:31

I think both genders are capable of being romantic, but I suspect women are probably MORESO, because society tends to judge them more negatively if they're single compared to men. We're conditioned more to think a lot about relationships, and to consider ourselves failures or at least "unfulfilled" if we're not in one. We're the main writers and readers of romance novels, and far as relationship advice books, we seem to be the only ones who ever buy or READ them! "I don't have a man in my life? What am I doing wrong?" Whereas whatever most men are doing WITHOUT any advice already seems to work most of the time, so they probably feel no need to change anything.


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