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Blog title: Internet friends can be successful
Blog description:Well since this is my first blog I would like to say hello to you all and anyone who reads this blog. You know I never believed in dating sites until I met the most perfect person In the world right here on this site. He is not a celebrity but he has become one of my best friends. He has been there for me since we first met a year or so ago and he has stood by me through thick and thin and has never asked for anything in return. So here is a blog saying thanks to all good people on websites.
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Beware Of The Professional Pessimist 102 Views 06/15/08
DISCLAIMER: This is not specifically referring to anyone that I am in contact with at this time or in the near future. This is about people I have met post-high school & pre-2008. Just thought I'd get that out of the way..... After having the chance of being on this Earth for almost 23 years, I've gone through quite a few personality changes. Aside from being crazy (LOL), I can honestly say that I started of 2008 as a whole person. I mean that in the sense of "I am happy with the way my life is at this exact moment." That's a lot for me to say coming through the fire I've been through the last couple of years (even dating back to high school, as some of you know), but the test of it all and most memorable would be 2007. Even with all the things that happened, only true joy can fill my heart when I think back to those tumultuous times. I can look back and say, "I went through all that shit in the areas of my life and came out better than before! I was able to deal with all of the deceit & betrayal from the two former important people in my life, keep my integrity intact, and make my resolve even stronger." Staying true to who God made me out to be, I allowed myself to be guided by the truth as I received it, as opposed to the interpretation of others. Now, I can say that I am happy because I feel a sense of completion within myself. I don't need someone else to complete me; I want a person to adorn me, only be flattering to what I already am. They should only improve on the sculpture I've made of myself. At this moment, I have friends around me that I used to dream about having....You know why? Because they all get along! Sounds like a stupid thing to say, doesn't it? But it used to be something that I dreamed about during the past couple of years that seemed unattainable given my company at that time......and it was, in every sense of the word. I am thankful & blessed to have friends in my life in 2008 who are classy and respectable (meaning I have no problem taking them out in public --- at times LOL). I am even getting in touch with old and new friends who are the same way! We have fun & are serious or goofy all when we want to be, especially when we need to be. More importantly, no one sugar-coats things with me & they tell me what I need to hear sometimes, whether I like it or not (I usually like it later) and vice versa. In a word, they are honest to me and I to them. And that, my dear friends brings about trust and respect that they so rightly deserve. We are there to support each other in our life choices, regardless of if we believe in them or not. Ones opinion and support do not go hand in hand. This brings me to the reason I blogged this morning: Have you ever known someone who was negative? Not just in some aspects, I mean negative ALL THE TIME...24/7...366 DAYS A YEAR?! (I'm covering leap years here, ppl) I can understand the occasional gloomies...shit, I'm sure even Hello Kitty gets tired of seeing her face everywhere & once in a while Blue doesn't give a damn about the clues. But some people are just headstrong on bringing you down to their level. I'm not talking about depression or even a person who sees the glass half empty. I'm talking about the Professional Pessimist. Don't know the difference? Well, luckily you have a victim to enlighten you. This person can walk into a room of happy, upbeat individuals having a great time and by merely uttering a single sentence, bring the fun level down to non-existent. This is the type of person who you ask what are their plans for having fun the next day and they reply in a monotone, selfish voice, "I hope I wake up tomorrow." DON'T BE FOOLED! This is not a person who is going through a trouble time in their day/life, a possible suicidal individual, or even someone trying to "find them self." This is a person who just complains about anything and everything, even when there is nothing to complain about! A few signs and symptoms that you have had an event with this type of person are as follows: Feeling lethargic or fatigued after a run-in with this person, whether over the phone or in person Overall loss of excitement and happiness after being around person in question Chronic talk about doing necessary lifestyle changes for future benefits, but still doing the same shit in a different pile Frequent bouts of hypocrisy, especially when telling you what lifestyle changes to make AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, recurring people from different areas of your life (mother, friends, co-workers, strangers, etc.) all tell you the same thing about this person: not a good influence, "fake," & they choose not to hang out with you if this person is around This Professional Pessimist may also go under the alias of a Debbie/Dan (?) Downer. It is quite easy to misinterpret this individual for the ever prevalent "Hater," but your course of action must be different. The "Hater" can do his/her job from a distance or in your circle. Either way, the more you have is a better indication that your life is going in a positive direction LOL. However, more than one Professional Pessimist increases your risk of loneliness (due to lack of other friends) and dissatisfaction with your daily life.... LMAO Okay, enough with the WebMD antics...Seriously though? You may be around people who make you feel like crap. And sometimes it's because they want you to feel that way. There are people who will literally suck all the joy out of you, if you let them. Misery loves company, remember? The only repellent I know of is becoming fluent in sarcasm that turns all of their complaints into jokes for all to enjoy at their expense. Someone who is a Professional Pessimist will take it personally & continue on their quest to cast you into despair, while anyone else will laugh right with you (or do that later) and become cheery soon enough. That might sound close to being an ass....AND YOU'RE RIGHT!!! lol (I haven't had any complaints so far from that method, aside from the obvious...) If you know of any other methods, share please and thank you! You only get one shot at your happiness and I think you have to be on guard in full battle armor to make sure that really happens. If there is something you really want to be or do with you life and someone is telling you why you shouldn't, listen to the passion (song) in your heart and let that be the voice that guides you to your destination. You might want to rethink those people in your life who keep telling you that you can't reach your dream or don't have the capacity to do so [Look at this clip of Madea explaining the people in your life through an analogy to a tree]. Life is too short to be one of those people who hate their job, but do it anyway to make money. Those are the people who try to tell you that nobody likes to work, so get used to it. Pick a career (notice the word choice) and be in the elite of the world who does what truly makes them happy and drown out the rantings of "The Man" and everyone else who shoots down your aspirations. At the end of the day, you are the one who rests your head on your pillow at night to deal with the choices you make every day. Even if you think that you are alone, the collective consciousness that exists on MM, let alone the Net is enough for you to find a place to rest any concerns....and then you'll always have me to talk to if you like! .....Unless you are the Professional Pessimist........in that case, I'm getting ready to wash my hair.
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The racsists I was talking about inmy other blog 277 Views 06/08/08
I was going to leave this alone in hopes of him seeing the error in his ways. Since My blog about the color of love he has since started attacking my friends with racial slurs call them nigger lovers etc... I won't repeat half of the stuff he said because it was so ignorant and uncalled for. My friend was on line a few minutes ago he tried to IM her she was speaking with him when we found out he was rude to another friend of mine she asked him about it them Blocked him be cause he lied about it. After she blocked him he started calling her all kinds of name saying that she was a nigger lover and niggers shouldn't even be allowed to populate the earth etc. He told her to go an say all kinds of nasty things. about African American people for no reason. So she reported him and since he is a racists ass His User name is GRECOROMAN. Beware LADIES HE WILL BE NICE AT FIRST AND WHEN YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK HE WILL START CALLING YOU ALL KINDS OF NASTY THINGS AND WHEN YOU TELL HIM TO LEAVE YOU ALONE AND BLOCK HIM HE WILL KEEP HARASSING YOU. after A WHILE HE WILL START CALLING YOU FAT ETC... He IS A TRUE PSYCHO.
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Greatest threat to mankind 128 Views 06/05/08
I was doing a Google earlier for another post and stumbled on an on line vote for what people thought was the greatest threat to mankind. I was shocked at what people thought and am in disbelief of how little people know about the world around them. Author "Sam Harris" thinks that the greatest threat to mankind would be the lack of reason. He says things get really scary when people make decisions and determination without reason being the number one factor. We all get emotionally attached to certain things we think are important. But how do we attach importance to things or ideas? Conversely to this would a society that only sees reason as its decision making be a good society to live in? So I'm curious what people think the greatest threat to mankind is and what we can do about it, if anything... What would you be willing to give up or change for the survival of mankind if indeed we are in danger at all.For me I think the greatest threat to mankind is mankind. I mean look at ourselves - every single day we make bigger and better ways to do one thing. Kill ourselves. We cant deny it, we are a self-destructing race. Also, global warming was never caused by us, all we are seeing right now is the earth repairing itself. We may have accelerated the process, but we never started it. The temperature of the atmosphere will rise, and all the ice caps will melt. This in turn will release much, much more O2 and CO2 into the atmosphere. Over the period of about 200,000 years there will be huge changes, life will flourish and become larger, new species will pop up and evolution will accelerate. With new fauna will come a huge increase of CO2 in the atmosphere which will lead to our flora flourishing. Soon enough, flora will cover more than 70% of the earth - we will be long gone by then, either through total destruction or a complete evolutionary change, as humans cannot survive in high oxygen atmospheres. Our cities will deteriorate, and will be buried for all time. This will take around 4-5 million years. Then there will be a major climate shift and the earth will fall into an ice age, slowly freezing over the period of several hundred thousand years (the most recent ice age was a natural aberration*. After another many hundreds of thousands of years, the ice age will end and the ice will melt away, leaving a totally new and pristine earth.
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The lines of color and love 166 Views 06/04/08
I have been a member of this site for quite a while and I have met some great people here on-line and in person. People That I will be friends with for the rest of my Life. People with such a great outlook in life they have inspired me to be a better person.I have recently been contacted by member who said some very harsh things to me. Unsolicited might I add, I have never contacted this member or even seen his profile and Basically I was told some very Nasty thing about my race and why I have no business being here because of my color and my ethnic background. He then went on to say that N#gg^^% has no business mixing with the upper class etc... and a whole slue of even nastier things. I am not one for trouble therefore I will not mention his SN. I couldn't imagine why he would single me out and then I remembered my profile and the updated I just made a few days ago it says and I quote.. "AGE AND RACE DON'T MATTER TO ME. BECAUSE I FIGURE WE ALL HAVE SOMEONE WHO IS MADE FOR US AND GOD MAY NOT HAVE MADE THEM THE SAME AGE OR COLOR ETHNIC BACKGROUND AND/OR SOCIAL STATUS. LOVE IS LOVE AND IT TRANSCENDS ALL BARRIERS". I just figured I would share this with you all. maybe someone will read this and it may benefit you in some way. Maybe it will change your heart for the better or make you more aware. Because I have been here for a while and have met nothing but great people here. I just hope that this is my last and final run in with people so mean. I hope none of you have to listen to that CRAP either. People should be free to live and love as they want No matter the situation. Well I wont bore you any longer with my rants. You all have a great Day,afternoon, or evening when ever you read this. Blessings be with you and yours. SHARRE
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