Some of you have known me for sometime on this site. Many of you know me well enough to know that I'm a outspoken guy with morals and integrity. So here's a little story that just happened.
I see this girl on this site that I find interesting. She has a small photo, but it looks as though I might could find her attractive. I read her profile and like what she wrote. It seems that we have similar beliefs. So I make a comment on her profile. She is obviously a paying member so she emails me and ask for a photo. Well, many of you know that I'm not one to post photos or even share. I'm willing to meet anyone in person, even if just for a few moments so that they can decide what they think of my looks. I just don't like taking photos and rarely take a photo. So back to the story.
I never really told her that I wouldn't send her a photo...but I guess in so many words I did. So the emails stop a few days ago and I tell her I realize that since I will not send a photo that she will no longer be communication with me. I understand this completely. I do not fault her one bit in her decision.
So a few day pass, I go to the chat on this site. I leave the room and go into the kitchen. When I return, I have a IM from this woman. She is asking me why I will not send her a photo. I reply asking if she is still there. She is not, but within a few minutes she replies. Saying it doesn't matter. I reply back saying Okay, but I was hoping to talk to her. She replies back that I will not give her a straight answer. I didn't even have time to give her a answer. But I'm cool if she doesn't want to talk to me...that is her choice. I'm not pushy in any way.
But what did anger me is that it popped up on my screen that she blocked me. I did nothing to warrant her blocking me. It kind of makes me feel bad since I always treat women with respect. I'm never pushy with anyone. I try to be a nice guy. It's one thing if I was emailing her and harassing her, but I wasn't. I really can't understand why some people do this.
I do believe she is a nice woman, I just can't understand why she would block me when I've done nothing to her. I guess it doesn't matter, but it kind of hurts my feelings, as I did nothing wrong.