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Keeping your heart available 280 Views 08/19/14

This little comic is soooo telling..

 

http://www.spiritscienceandmetaphysics.com/this-comic-about-love-will-touch-your-heart/

 

Now for my lil poem...

 

 

Leave it at the door

 

Leave it at the door

Drop it on the floor

Don’t want to hear it any more

I know he was a bore

But don’t bring it here anymore

 

You see, I’m someone new

I didn’t do that to you

That’s something you must get thru

If we’re to start anew

 

But how can you restart

When you hide your heart

The reasons you two are apart

Keeps us from our start

 

Make the past the past

I want a relationship that lasts

But fighting thru your past issues

Isn’t what I want when I kiss you

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It's Spring again (redux) 98 Views 04/25/14

 

Sooo   spring is here (again)..  in the countryside where I live nature has a way of anouncing spring that is always unique and beautiful.  It would always be nice to go hand in hand and share it with someone..

 

take my hand

 

take my hand..  and walk with me.. 
see the distant hillside..
where apple tree blossoms
look like a sugar coating.
closer.. their scent is heaven sent..
and their bee swarmed branches
bzzz hums a beautiful tune.

 

the lilacs are full bloom..
scented like its date night.
the birds are busy busy busy
feeding the chirping young.
the tall lush grass.
now soft underfoot.. 
swollen with rain..


blue skies filled with
imagination teasing clouds..
faces.. animals..  things...
a wind that still cools you.. 
the heat of summer just being hinted at..
longest day still coming towards you.. 
when its light far into the night..

 

deer are hiding off the trail.. 
keeping to the woods.. 
not wanting to show themselves
in the bright daylight

 

we stop often..  to look..  and to dream.. 
just leaning into each other..
light kisses.. 
just to let each other know
that its always better
doing this together


once you take my hand..

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Ladies.. why date a country boy 212 Views 03/30/14

A friend who I dated from here sent this to me and I thought I'd share it.  While I only live on a farm but don't derive my livelyhood from it she thought it fit after a she had had a tractor ride, picked out plants for my garden and hiked around the property.

 

Unless you suffer from hay fever and hate the country, farmers make pretty great dates. Here are 15 reasons to date a farmer:

 

 

1. They aren’t afraid of putting down roots. In fact, your farmer is probably already based somewhere — with long-term plans to stay there.

 

2. Farmers are fit, toned and tanned. (The “tanned” part might only apply to their forearms. But those forearms are great.)

 

3. Many farmers subscribe to good ol’ fashioned family values — and will be proud to treat you with gentleness and respect.

 

4. There’s something sexy about working the land, cultivating plants and raising beef that nourish a nation. Your stomach will benefit.

 

5. It’s trendy to be eco-aware. Your farmer is as close to being “one with the land” as they come.

 

6. Free tractor rides.

 

7. Farmers are traditionally loyal and protective.

 

8. The rural lifestyle provides plenty of fresh air, vitamin D, and panoramic views with zero skyscrapers in sight.

 

9. You can visit your date at work — if you don’t mind getting manure on your shoes.

 

10. Farmers are essentially small business owners. They must have both brains and brawn to keep their farm running successfully.

 

11. Farmers are community players, often helping out neighboring farms when another farmer is struggling to get their crops in on time.

 

12. Most farmers want to keep the farm in the family. Thus, they want children.

 

13. Farmers work hard every single day of the year without complaint.

 

14. Farmers don’t live in condos.

 

15. Farmers are trustworthy. If a few dozen cattle can trust the farmer with their lives, surely your date can handle responsibility.

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Heaven on Earth 93 Views 01/25/14

Heaven on earth

 

Sometimes love isn’t strong enough for forever

Sometimes we don’t deserve forever love

Sometimes we just miss love forever

Sometimes forever love is just around the corner

Sometimes forever love is across the world

Sometimes forever love makes you better

Sometimes forever love makes you worse

Sometimes forever love makes you sane

Sometimes forever love makes you crazy

Sometimes we don’t recognize forever love

Sometimes forever love doesn’t recognize us

 

But if you ever are in a mutual forever love..

Then forever isn’t long enough for love

But it’s heaven on earth.

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Alone for the holidays (redux) 215 Views 12/25/13

Merry Christmas to all..  and I hope the one who will share next Christmas with me reads this..

Alone for Christmas

The tree is now standing.. the presents all wrapped

But the feeling isn’t Christmas..  my heart feels trapped

Its time for sharing presents, love and good cheer

But still its not Christmas, because you are not here

I have carols, stockings, and resolutions to renew

While the real Christmas feeling is waiting for you

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Baggage Redux 208 Views 11/02/13

 

Just a rambling from a man's point of view.  Too often I hear how because of the last relationship a woman is going to take it slow and really examine every man she meets because of how her last relationship(s) ended.  She says they were such a whirlwind of emotions and look how it ended.  Growing love under the microscope..  looking for any hint of what might be a problem insures one thing..   you find a problem.  Please don't start looking for a relationship until you're ready to be completely open to a new relationship..   and ready to fall head over heels.  Just one man's opinion..

 

Leave it at the door

 

Leave it at the door

Drop it on the floor

Don’t want to hear it any more

I know he was a bore

But don’t bring it here anymore

 

You see, I’m someone new

I didn’t do that to you

That’s something you must get thru

If we’re to start anew

 

But how can you restart

When you hide your heart

The reasons you two are apart

Keeps us from our start

 

Make the past the past

I want a relationship that lasts

But fighting thru your past issues

Isn’t what I want when I kiss you

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My friend here on MM on Chemo 152 Views 10/25/13

My friend just sent me a poem.  She is a member here. She has undergone 12 hours of surgery and is now going into chemo therapy..  Please say a prayer for her.

A Journey Of Fear

  The human spirit is an amazing thing From the depths of despair our heart sings The dark doors part as we enter the ring It's this time that we grow wings   In this place so cold and sterile We realize the enormous peril About to begin a desperate will to survive All these machines will come to life   The radiation will emit a ray of light This is the ray that begins the fight You see this battle with Cancer happens on so many levels You need to be ready to respond with an emotional shovel   Clear a path in your brain and your heart See the path where you will start Carry with you all the love of your family and friends Realize the new beginnings and the ends   To be clear There is much fear Carry no shame on the wet tear Be proud when you look in the mirror   Know that you have the strength to carry on Recall in your head your favorite song In your mind visit your favorite place See the sun, on the beach give chase   Hear the waves as they mount the shores Feel the radiation close the doors As it shuts down the Cancer's cells Even as the fears start to well   Know that it is through the struggles that we will  be reborn That our spirit is built to take the storm Each session in this ring will take a toll Remember it cannot touch your soul   As the fight heats up day after day You steps walking might start to sway Yes radiation & Chemo take a heavy toll To beat the cancer, this is their role   Hold on tight to a friend's hand to help you stand and move forward in this fight Get mad, get angry, scream with all your might This is my life that Cancer tried to end As I dust off the radiation and chemo my life saving friends.

 

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more profile insanity humor 356 Views 10/24/13

Is there anyone on here that writes "I look much older than my photos" "I look worse in person" or "I look old for my age"? Everyone (prob including me) say we look younger than our pics, young for our age and better in person! Do we really need to say this in our profiles?  If the photos don't do us justice..  get photos that do.  We will be able to tell if you look young for your age. As for how we look in person.. it sounds like we are trying to get a little leverage to have someone meet us!

or the people who put an age on their profile that is 10 years younger than their real age and then in the profile say "I am actually 65 not 55 but I wanted to get a better search result".  Once someone reads that you are 10 years older do you think they say..  "hell.. why not contact them" or do they think..  starting out with deception isn't a good way to begin a relationship and/or I didn't want someone that old so why would I now contact them? 

Your thoughts are of course welcome!

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Profile consistancy 246 Views 10/01/13

Its funny.. so many profiles have these inconsistancies.  Please feel free to add any in the comments cause I know this isn't all of them!

They use the word smile/smiling in the profile somewhere.. name.. status.. message.. etc. Then their photos don't show the person smiling

or they don't have a photo and in physical appearance they say "you decide" How do I decide?

or they say "no games" then have these slanted/angled photos that don't actually show what they look like..  or the photo is so old it is a photo of a poloroid!  and it makes you think.. let the games begin! or they say they want to find someone that likes them for their inner beauty..want to meet a guy who appreciates them for their intelligence.. and all of their photos are of cleavage and bum(not that I am complaining about cleavage and bum photos) or they want intelectural conversation (mispelling purposeful) or you go thru all of the photos til you finally come to the one photo that is actually them today! or "I'm an open book"   "truly outgoing" but no photos.. 

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Shelly's fighting cancer 145 Views 09/15/13

A member here (Shelly) who is a friend of mine just found out her cancer has come back.  She wouldn't let me post her user name so people could send her their well wishes.. but she didn't say I couldn't post her real name here and you can wish her the best as comments here.  She goes in for 8 hours of surgery on Sept 26.  Its in her throat, base of her tongue and lymph nodes.  and I promised to come dance with her for Christmas..  I will tell her to come here and see your comments...

 

 

our first dance

she promised to beat it in a bare knuckles brawl

knock it down, beat it up, make it crawl

it took the inside path using the deepest body blows

she countered with the toughness that she always shows

it jabbed and worked inside, landing its punches

she jabbed and dodged and landed hers in bunches

in the end she won, it never even stood a chance

because she wanted and promised me

                                                         our  first dance

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Whats on your mind.. 124 Views 08/15/13

I was asked this by a member..

 

Whats on my mind..  unrest in Eygpt and the middle east.. world violence..  beauty of today's sunrise..  my children out in the world trying to succeed..  a Donna Summer's song I can't get out of my head .. my  business and my search for new opportunities.. many things.. including finding someone to lay in bed with and hold and speak about all of these things with...

 

Whats on your mind?

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Black or white.. it just aint right 170 Views 07/21/13
  Lets just say for example my son, who has long hair and when he comes home from boxing at the gym can look really scraggily, is walking thru the neighborhood near his apartment where druggies have been breaking into rich people's homes. A man who has a gun to make him feel brave follows him with his car and finally gets out of his car to follow my son on foot. My son turns and asks him what he is doing.. the man accuses my son of being a robber because he is skinny.. scraggily.. and dressed sloppy..face roughed up..  looks like a druggie.  My son, who doesn't use drugs, tells him to go screw himself.. they argue..  My son has boxing skills and knocks the idiot on his butt. The idiot pulls his gun and shoots my son. It ain't black or white.. it just ain't right.
 
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FireFlies.. 90 Views 06/22/13

Tonight was the first night the fire flies have been out... so a reprise of the first poem I ever put here..

 

midnight walk

 

walking by darkend meadow sky
glowing stars just grass high
the phosphorescent firefly
glowing glowing glowing

 

looking for their mates tonite
their beauty just for my delight
as i see their small loving light
showing showing showing

 

wishing i had such loving power
to call my love at this late hour
all my love on her i'll shower
knowing knowing knowing

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a woman's hair 221 Views 05/10/13

I know many women have wigs, weaves and extensions to increase the volume, length, or change the style of their hair.  Chris Rock narrates a documentary called "Hair" that speaks to the how, what and why of women's hair that is very educational.  You forget tho that men find your hair attractive in many ways.  Here is a little homage to natural hair.

 

 

 

 

 

i wish to run my fingers thru your hair…

 

 

 

to pull it back slightly as i bend your lips up to be kissed

 

to cup your head in my hand to hold a kiss

 

to have your hair fall over me when you bend down to kiss me

 

to brush it back from your face to find your lips..

 

to smell when i come up behind you while you work

 

to pull slightly as we make passionate love..

 

to stroke lightly when you need comfort

 

to have you pull it up so i may nibble on your neck..

 

to elegantly pile for those special occasions..

 

to shake and release to show me you are ready for us

 

to have me wash, rinse and dry it for you as a sign of my affection

 

to brush it lazily for you while we watch tv..

 

to see it all sexily messed when we wake in the morning

 

 

 

I wish to run my fingers thru your hair

 

                                                  showing my love for you..

 

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never die 173 Views 04/09/13

If you have children they often worry and wonder about your death..  I told my children that I will never die as long as they have children and their children have children..   because somewhere in that long line they will see my eyes..  my smile..  hear my laugh..  see my walk..  so I will never die. 

My daughter Liz and I were together last week when the proof appeared. We had 60 family members together for Easter brunch.  My aunt pulled out a video she made from old film snippets she found in my grandmothers basement.  She took 2 months to paste the pieces together. She screened them for all of us to commemorate what would have been my grandfathers 100th birthday.  My nephew Zach was seated across from me as we watched "Poppa" on the screen from the 1950's and early 1960's.  From Poppa to my Mother to my brother Dan and now to my nephew Zach.. Zach looked like Poppa.  Mom and Dan don't resemble Poppa at all but somehow Poppa had appeared in Zach.  Life continues.

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Alone for Valentines Day 283 Views 02/14/12

Not the best but its for the season...   now if only I could fill in the "blank"
 

A small Valentine..

 

How should we love..  lets let the past decide..

maybe it will give us something true and tried

 

We could have jungle love, a couple with one name

and  swing thru the trees like Tarzan and Jane

 

Lets show our passion with words so poetic and dear

like Browning and Barrett.. our love we'd hold near

 

Or a young love so strong we'd to death gladly go

You¿ll be sweet Juliet.. and me..  romantic  Romeo

 

Or love like man did before he knew how to deceive.

I will play Adam..  and with this rib..  you are my Eve

 

Lets love so daring it brings Rome down to one knee

You are my lovely Cleo..  and I'm your Marc Anthony

 

Or a love sooo risqué that scandal sheets cover the table

You be Carole Lombard to my ear challenged Clark Gable

 

Lets tease, banter and then have love songs to share

I'll be nosy Sonny..  and you my sassy sexy Cher

 

There are other couples thru time that we all know

But we have to decide which way you and I will go

 

Lets love like no others..  pull on history this switch..

So Love's history will then speak of ¿blank¿ and Rich

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Meet The Scammers!!! 590 Views 01/16/12

We tend to let our guard down when we actually meet someone from this country who seems fairly normal...  DON"T!!!!  Two stories related to me from friends on here.  They were too embarrassed to post this themselves and they know people on here read what I write so they wanted me to get their stories out...

First story..  My friend met a woman in Boston who was visiting from Arizona.  This woman had a great profile..   real photos..  and was a certified MM millionaire!  He felt comfortable. (check your agreement for MM's disclaimer about the certification process).  She was wonderful.  He even brought her home to meet the parents.  Three days after she left he was going to take some money out of his account..  and found out she had his credit card/ ATM card and was going to town.  She also had his SS# and tried to open credit.  While he slept she went thru everything in his wallet and briefcase.  She also got into his email.  He went to the police..  the alias she used led them to the real person who had an arrest record for scams and other crimes as long as your arm..  with photos that matched! 

Second story..  They had been dating for 2 months.  He noticed she would be a little loopy on the phone but never thought much about it.  She came home with him after they had met many other times on the road.  After she left little things came to light.  A couple old bottles of pain killers left over from surgery were missing from the medicine cabinent..  cash kept in a dresser drawer was missing.. and a couple old pieces of jewelry.  The loopy phone conversations now came into focus.

 

Scammers come from this country also.  They work their scams slowly to get into your world.  It maybe for money or drugs or both.  MM can be scammed.  Their "verification" is cursory and easily tricked.  The one above who was a certified "millionaire" had used a man's credit card to pay for her membership..  only used a single name for her account..  and it didnt stop the site from certifying her forged IRS forms.  AWAYS BE CAREFUL.  EACH OF THESE MEN SAW LITTLE CLUES BUT DIDN'T THINK SCAMMERS WOULD ACTUALLY MEET YOU!  BOTH WOMEN WERE BEAUTIFUL AND GLIB.  PROS! 

Now there are many great people on this site..  and I know MMCounselor is working nonstop to try to catch these people and get them off the site.  MMcounselor actually suspended the first scammer's account as soon as my friend contacted her and fought with MM management here to keep her off until a police report was filed. Thats how bold they are..  even fighting suspension!  I just want to highlight the fact that scams are not just done thru emails..   that some have actually had the chance to MEET THE SCAMMERS.

I do have other writings on here about dating experiences, scammers, and poetry.  I invite you to read those other writings by entering smax117 into the blog search function.

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Alone for the Holidays 268 Views 12/23/11

The Holiday season is when all of us feel the emotions of not having that special someone.  Just a little Christmas poem for all of us looking for that special feeling.

Missing Christmas

 

The tree is now standing.. the presents all wrapped

But the feeling isn’t Christmas..  my heart feels trapped

Its time for sharing presents, love and good cheer

But still its not Christmas, because you are not here

I have carols, stockings, and resolutions to renew

While the real Christmas feeling is waiting for you

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Award winning screenplay 130 Views 12/11/11

MM friends and any new friends...  My son recently won the grand prize in an international screenplay writers competiton (over 6000 entries) for his first screenplay.  It came in the top 10 in another one just a month before (over 7000 entries).  The lead character is a Nietzsche quoting biker gang leader (perfect for Mickey Rourke).  He is moving from Boston to LA in January to follow his dream.  If anyone has any connections...   please let me know.

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WHY WOULD YOU LOVE ME? MY RESPONSE 324 Views 11/09/11

A woman asked me why would she love me over another man...   here's my reply..  I'm not a millionaire and my response shows this..

 

you’ll love me

 

if you want a man who grows roses for you and brings them into you

you'll love me

if you want an evening sunset walk along a ridge to watch the sky change colors

you'll love me

if you want to take wine and a sleeping bag on the back lawn to find shooting stars

you'll love me

if you love snuggling and watching a log being devoured by the loving licks of flames..

you'll love me

if you think kissing is a lost art..  where lips must tell a story every time they meet.. 

 you'll love me

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