The last time I wrote a farewell blog wasn't too long ago, but only to find out he was married! Yes, Married! I have nothing left to say but to be careful ladies. Falling head over heels and allowing your heart to be crushed by lies and left in pain is perhaps why I remained single for so long. I gave it my all to only be fooled. Very unfortunate....
Amazingly time has flown by as we recently celebrated the year 2016. Seems it was just yesterday when I marked, 2012, the year I joined this website. Remarkably, I have managed to stay single for as long as the years have passed with some minor hiccups along the way but proudly remained focused on my business, and my children. After several years, my initial intention was to log in and delete my account. After unsuccessfully making many attempts to locate the delete button, I stumbled across 93 comments found on my profile!
Out of curiosity, I started reading them one by one, and honestly, I recognized many of the members with their usernames. Even though this is a dating site, I met some incredible people who today I proudly call my dear friends. Deleting this account has become more complicated for me than I thought. And here I am, stumbling across the blog section once again while finding myself writing and sharing my thoughts and opinion with the rest of the members instead.
On January 2nd, 2016, very unexpectedly I met the love of my life! Even though we both currently reside in different countries, we have communicated every second of the day with videos to get acquainted, text messages expressing our emotions, phone calls to hear one another's tone and shared the past, present, and future.
I seem to share similar traits found in inpatient children who are traveling to Disneyland for the very first or second time; instead, I have been impatiently counting down the days until his arrival.
He has no knowledge of all the accounts I hold, and deleting accounts were never his idea nor something we discussed, but I know with all my heart starting a meaningful relationship comes with some requirements and change to avoid future recklessness. Sometimes the unexpected happens, and when it does, you have to be prepared to accept change with the goodness of your heart and with genuine and kind intentions.
Please consider this my farewell everyone, wishing you all the best for 2016!
Being a millionaire maybe important to some, but I highly doubt it's important for all.
Many ask, "Why select this particular site if you're not looking for a sugar daddy?"
Here's my personal answer: I'm in NO need for a sugar daddy. I own my car, and thanks to my previous house, I'm barely in debt. As an entrepreneur, I enjoy working on new concepts and I'm highly driven. This site, regardless of the name, has far more attractive and classy people to select from then any other site. I have researched competitor sites, and while this particular one is listed on the top 10, in my humble opinion, should be number ONE. My intention is not finding a man who can financially guide me, but rather find a man with similar drive, affection, chemistry, love and mostly, PASSION! I believe a two year break (myself being single) is enough time to focus, invest and dedicate time to meet someone special. Long distance or seeing someone once a month is not for everyone but may not be an issue for some. There is more to life then finding someone for sex, money and greed; instead, focus on mutual attraction and finding happiness.
I had written this post online for my followers and I assumed it would be ideal to share on MM too. I've read a few post on MM and noticed how gossip, rumors or making PRE-JUDGEMENTS and assumptions become easy for us to do. It's a typical reaction for humans, but have we ever tried correcting ourselves and learning to speak with a more positive outlook? Maybe there was a reason behind the actions? You might learn, giving people the benefit of the doubt is far more pleasing then being negative; after all, we are all human and desire the samethings in life, no? Just a thought...
Gossiping and spreading rumors are my least favorite things to do. I'd rather be on the "unsociable" list, then be around gossip or people who thrive from damaging other peoples lives. Remember there is always two sides to a story! Don't surround yourself with negativity, as they may be gossiping about you too. - Start your 2014 with a positive outlook and love. Even if change of scenery is required, then start making that change today. Become inspiring and use your years of experience wisely. Instead of trying to correct others behavior, try changing your own. No one is perfect, but making an attempt to improve is better then believing no improvement is needed. - "Make A Change And Start Improving Your Life Today, Not Tomorrow."