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Posted on Fri, Nov 30, 2012 13:13

Dear co-bloggers,

As many of you know, Im rather new in the blogs (if comparing to many of you), I started my bloglife here with a rather extreme subject and several first rather recently told me it made them “doubt my character”, as "how can I.." but if you read that blog, you will get the picture that Im a very loyal person in every angle of my being, but Im also interested in looking at the world, questioning, thinking out the box etc. as its in my inventor nature, so after reading further in my infidelity blog & then in more blogs I posted, people started “warming” up to me & understanding. I thank you for embracing me, even though English is not my main language & also as Im kind of an "out of the box"-type.


OK..now…since the TexasNeuro incident, where I even started a blog post to let people speak/clear out about the disappearence of a long time co-blogger & then came the US elections...Ive noticed fireful spots of tension increasing between bloggers & that poor MM are having to deal with many complaints & not to even mention their tech problems...


Core causes of these tensions are basically due to differences of opinions between people...lets say some are democrats, others republicans & then (in one case) comes the international mix with more juice to the soup (me) and OMG there goes a KNOOOCK!-blow between folks…some are Christians some are not BAM!There goes another blow…some are after the same guy/girl..some jealousy arises-BONG!There goes another blow etc…so it becomes a series of misunderstandings, tension etc & the blog becomes kind of a battle field when it should be the opposite, a field of fine roses with some tiiiny thorns once in a while but no greater harm.

Here we are now…tensionful environment (kindergaarten)...people sillywise complaining like mad to the Headmaster (MM), MM getting confused & tired, people blaming each other & blocking each other & pulses rising...FOR NO IMPORTANT REASON. We are all humans, from different backgrounds & lifewalks, we see things different ways, we like different types of ice cream etc but we are all alike - we inhabit tears, we inhabit laughter, we inhabit LOVE..we are people…when hurt, we suffer. So there is no ACTUAL need for all this drama. Lets all calm down and start over..shall we?

I invite all here to share some thoughts & hopefully some “IM SORRY” to eachother...this is a room where we hug, kiss & make up & with that we agree to;

- Not insult others personally, act respectfully

- If we do not like what someone is posting and it is not a personal (with name etc) insult to someone, no need to report and bother poor ol´ MM. If we feel something is wrong in a blog etc, we contact that person by personal mail & tell our feelings/thoughts with respect, then that person can change blog entry etc for you – if you are not a member/cannot post personal emails, leave a comment on my profile & I will chelp com. between you/your "opponent",I offer my meddling service for a simple fee of a smile=go thru some fellow blogger than heading to MM people in dust, dawn rain or sun...

- Be eachothers cheerers, not sticks in each other’s wheels

- Remove blockages made because of issues herein & give “wrongmakers” another chance

- Be MUCH MORE generous with compliments to eachother

- If you get truly unhappy about something someone is writing, turn the other cheek, just don’t bother that much…it is not worth it in the long run…simply agree to disagree & If discussing, and it might be heated on the particular subject, try to put yourself in the other persons shoe, try it on for a second, then you might understand something…if you cannot fit the shoe on…then you have other choices than attacking and being upset or causing unpleasant environment for you and others..

So, if YOU agree (and/or want to add something) with this peace package I´ve put together above, please leave some nice comment/s & you who´ve an ongoing or old feud, please write something nice to your "opponent", we´re all humans & we will face a hug with a hug back…Im hoping ;-)

Lets all let MM concentrate on the tech parts (as they are not up to par yet) & let us manage living in this MM bloggbubble in peace, love & harmony by our own means. Lets share a cup of coffee & fresh baked cookies, not a door slam in the face.

Starting from my corner; I´ve only blocked two people here, as I got to know they´re jumping up & down behind/in front of the scenes causing stuff, one also put out direct personal insult on my blog…I will now remove my blockings & offer you an olive branch and I say this; Its sad that you did what you did and hope you see it was not worth it and reconsider this and try to see it from my point of view also...


Furthermore, Im sorry if I hurt someones feelings (not that Im generally known for such actions) in any way when I have said/written some things that anyone would possibly felt/feel bad/sad about, I never mean any harm, I just try to understand & tell my point of view. Im considered  very nice & generous by those who know me just a little both herein & irl. Hope & think you are aswell.
I might not know you personally, but maybe in the future…and if you´re one of several who asked to call me and/or asked me to call you and If I have not yet, it is just that Im very unused to calling with people from online forum, as all this all is new to me...so, its general, not personal. If anyone would feel sad/offended etc. by anything I put in any of my blog posts, please just give me a personal message here (in some way), telling me directly & I will do something about it - within reason.

I think there´s been misunderstandings between different people & I hope we all can blog with more respect & at least be cordial & hopefully lovingly loving. Lets all change routes to the highest road possible, as this is not a battle field, this is a common ground of peace.


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Posted on Sun, Mar 10, 2013 11:54

Persnickytyone....ohwell...interesting is the least one can say ;-)

 

This somewho fules the fact that peace seems impossible in the world, as there are peopple who live by the kicks of drama. Sad but true.

 

 

 

 


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Posted on Sat, Mar 02, 2013 05:02

Oh mercy this must have been a VERY interesting time.  



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Posted on Mon, Jan 14, 2013 17:25

Quoting georgia1965:

 

You cannot give what you dont have.  V did not have love and attention from his parent(s) and thus he cannot give love.  He was desperately seeking attention, negative or positive for the lack of love in his life.

 

It was all fantasy to V.  We researched and found his real name and location.  V is NOT whom he says he is.  We will spare you the details.



..Georgia./Sandy...several on here are curious..who are you? Good to know as a starter..believing in/knowing more about you would be believing in your words I guess...furthermore I do find it inappropriate and insulting to even involve someones family/parents..as you cannot have an idea of what anyones relationship with his/her patents are unless you walk in their shoes..or may I say their tiny baby shoes...you are stating theories hence one could as much say that Voyager was angry or lovethirsty because of severe trauma he could have encountered as an adult beyobänd his most probably loving and decent parens or that he had some other kind of issues he might have been born with and and etc etc etc..theories....not only our childhood shape us..we are shaped every step of the way...obviously Voyager had issues..honestly I know very few who doesnt have somehing and/or someone they are bothered by..the problem is that Voyager took it to a sharp end...but..as someone who actually am sad things turned out as they did..I do wish Voyager a bettered future and hope he will learn..just as we all do..c'est la vie!



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Posted on Sat, Jan 12, 2013 13:48

 

You cannot give what you dont have.  V did not have love and attention from his parent(s) and thus he cannot give love.  He was desperately seeking attention, negative or positive for the lack of love in his life.

 

It was all fantasy to V.  We researched and found his real name and location.  V is NOT whom he says he is.  We will spare you the details.



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Posted on Sat, Jan 05, 2013 00:55

Just for the record, I warned Voyager over and over in very harsh blue collar terminology.  For some reason, he just wouldn't listen.  He wasn't bad with the guys, just the women it seams.  Which is why I kept getting on his case.  I feel he got what he deserved and it probably should have happened long ago.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 04, 2013 17:41

That picture with the rainbow is beautiful!! I have to wonder if its real.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 04, 2013 00:37

Uhm...just wanted to put it out there...that a birdie told me that someone called "Infinitcolum" had just posted a blog about Voyager, so I went on and read it...some kind of sugarcoated stuff...claiming that Voyager had gone thru a rough patch, losses and what not...

 

As someone said, Voyager was around 58 years of age, ie..must have experienced alot of losses etc thruout life..hence..this was not a child or even a teenager, who was just introduced to behaviour codes etc...and then, there is just about enough limit when a person insults people in person and such manner (which most here have clearly stated is off limits beyond excuses), shows up in another nickname and calls women personally the b word, conduct in a threatening manner and what not...and for that even suggestions of police report were discussed..as there is a limit to how much can be conducted in this manner.

 

Putting out such post after all that "tempest", seemed for several as pouring salt in the wounds of those who Voyager insulted and "attacked", either it was about their personal faith, b-wording women, their looks, their existence, their whatever more...its ultimately about the "victims" and not so much about the "attacker".

 

FYI

 

Stockholm syndrome, or capture-bonding, is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy, sympathy and have positive feelings towards their captors, sometimes to the point of defending them. These feelings are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims, who essentially mistake a lack of abuse from their captors for an act of kindness. The FBIs Hostage Barricade Database System shows that roughly 27% of victims show evidence of Stockholm syndrome.

 

Stockholm syndrome can be seen as a form of traumatic bonding, which does not necessarily require a hostage scenario, but which describes "strong emotional ties that develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other/others.".

 

One commonly used hypothesis to explain the effect of Stockholm syndrome is based on Freudian theory. It suggests that the bonding is the individual's response to trauma in becoming a victim. Identifying with the aggressor is one way that the ego defends itself. When a victim believes the same values as the aggressor, they no longer become a threat.

 

When I just checked...it all seemed removed and also the author was removed entirely aswell...gone..terminated...I guess MM have had all too enough of Voyager themes and the effects of those, as they did give him 2 clear fair chances and terminate him 3 times (!!!), as one of them was when he lastly came back with an alter ego and totally went ballistic insulting women on here, b wording etc...so MM seems to have things on watch.


As I said before, I find all such very very sad...as those who understand, KNOW that I, despite all, tried in many stages and ways to make him understand, respect and relax...and as many have said, Voyager seems to need something more/else than pushing limitlines and rashing out on the blogs with just some pat on the back and "naughty boy" pointers...and I do hope he finds a new way out there and tries to solve whatever issues he might have, as this is the way every other human on this planet have to do...and one can only endure so much insults.

 

As I said, this is a place of peace, fun and respect, not a battlefield...so lets hope it blossoms as such again...as after rain, must come sun and peace.


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Posted on Thu, Jan 03, 2013 22:49

Oh..so they are so quick?

 

Hm...oh well...

 

Yes it was wonderful...a rounded experience of class...mystery...elegance...very good food/drink and foremost interesting people...there was actually one American who was living in Europe...who attended...he was kind of and IT wizz who made a fortune and moved to Austria I think... to some dreamlife...his wife was stunning..they were dressed like Napoleon and his love Josephine...


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Posted on Thu, Jan 03, 2013 02:13

Quoting worldmind:

Oh interesting...i didnt see the link though..

 

Well Jenknee...there was dresss code to this private party..so one was to wear a costume..yes..I was dressed..a bit like this;



Unfortunitely my website link was removed by the staff of MM, sorry :(  It did show when I checked my post but obviously was removed.


That costume is fantastic!!  How fun it must have been to participate :)  Lucky you!



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Posted on Thu, Jan 03, 2013 01:35

Oh interesting...i didnt see the link though..

 

Well Jenknee...there was dresss code to this private party..so one was to wear a costume..yes..I was dressed..a bit like this;


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Posted on Thu, Jan 03, 2013 00:38

Worldmind, I understand about the pics. So did you get dressed up yourself for this latest one?

 

 

There is a ball coming up in Febuary where you can pay to sit in the balcony and watch without wearing a ball gown, I may just do that. They have a Dickens Festival where they throw several events, one being the ball. I like the Fashion show they have, it can be funny to see layers upon layers of clothes and what they had to deal with way back when.

 

 

Here is the website for the Dickens Festival in case anyone is interested. There are some photos of the fashion show,etc on it. I'm guessing the Ball is not as extravagant as yours but I really don't know since I've never been to one of them.

 



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Posted on Wed, Jan 02, 2013 23:44

Jenknee, 

 

Oyess....it was amazing and people were very elegant...Ive been to several of those in my lifetime and its very fun to watch the delicate work on peoples costumes, amazing jewelry items, makeup etc..and even the gentlemen have put in alot of thought to their appearences...very interesting and nice...not the kind of costumes as in "bloodspitting nurses, MJs Thriller-guy and playboy bunnies" hahahaa...

 

 Hm...I will have to ask the hosts if it is OK for them to post such pics online (they had their private photographer and the guests were not alloyed to take pics, other than private ones outside the party offcourse), as it was a private setting and I do respect that.


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Posted on Wed, Jan 02, 2013 20:43

Tha Ball sounds wonderful.  I would love to see some photos of it :)



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Posted on Mon, Dec 31, 2012 09:41

So, yeah...I’m a bit disappointed, having started this peace blog in all goodhearted intentions and all...as many times I was caught or thrown in the line of fire…and I was at times definitely misunderstood…and there were many "shoot-the-Swedish-messenger" moments…

Oh well...I have most certainly forgotten to mention some events…cant remember em´ all...anyways...it’s been a very interesting experience…and I must say...I have learnt even more about people in general…and also about some Americans….and gotten myself new friends I think will be for life...

 

...Oh...but...I still can’t get what all this have been worth, all this bickering between people and so forth..as..life goes on…and the great hopes and aspirations for peace most certainly is the force keeping the world together...although it is in patches here and there.

 

Again, I’m sorry if I in some unmeant way offended anyone on my behalf and my path here on this far…as I try to always take responsibility for my own actions...and I also hope that people understand that in my urge for the truth, defending spirit of the weak and the unheard, being direct and not wearing a mask, being as real as humanly possible on here…it might come across as something else for some who simply doesnt really get me/understand me...but c´est la vie I guess.

 

I do thank all the support given to me thru all this, you know who you are out there. Tack!



I hope we all can be thankful for the experience, and say goodbye to the 2012 years and whatever it was in it, and open our hearts and doors for all new pages in 2013.



Now I’m soon off to a new year’s masquerade ball…in my 1800-lady costume…will try to have a glass of champagne, with you all in my worldmind.

 



GOTT NYTT ÅR

 

 

(“happy new year”) 


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Posted on Thu, Dec 27, 2012 22:44

Fishyme...you know I like Algot...soooo cute and real :-) You seem to have such a rich life Mr Nature!


Oh well...I didnt even know about such but was informed by people on here who have much better idea..and you also seem to know thats illegal...oh well...hope he can figure his real life out and not have the blogs as it...yeah..I didnt even know him and yet I was the first to jump in trying to figure all out and all via a nice blog and I just got here when he was terminated time:1, .....and then when time went by..I got to see him as he actually is...and since im not into Stockholm syndrome stuff...

 

I tried to handle this in stages...first understand then take it lightly and jokingly then care then feel pity then hugcampaigne then I just couldnt find any further alleys to way in his favor so I lost respect and he didnt even nudge a second about that fact, he on the contrary i raised his activities...there is a limit of enough is enough.

 

Im sure MM would not kick him out 3 times (!!!) for no serious reason...and what he did and especially in the last rounds (threatening and calling some women on here the b word etc)was horrible beyond belief...I mean I lost respect for him..oh well he didnt mind..but..he seemed not to even respect himself enough to push the "enough button".

 

As I said, logically there could be alot to say on the subject but I dont see the point just now...hope you all get a peaceful transition into the coming year :-)



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Posted on Thu, Dec 27, 2012 21:32

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Fishyme...yeah..he came back allright...with another name...and was terminated a g a i n (3rd time) within short timeframe...as he posted two very extreme hate comments threatening women on here and calling them the b word etc. straight up and personally...some even suggested contacting the police...oh you must missed that "fun"...but my first sense of you Fisyme is not agrying with such womenly demeaning attacks...as I get it you seem to be a gentleman...yeah Ive also been into Stockholm syndrome bubble-mode about Voyager54..trying to find anything to help him excuse his aggresive and demeaning behaviour...belarging his sobstory and belitteling his extreme attacks on peoples  beliefs and womens looks and what not..personal attacks etc....but being a compassionate and logical woman..i couldnt have myself lost in such bubble for long...I tried in layers and levels to make him understand and stop all the hating..but he couldnt...we need to look at facts sometimes and not only sentimental stuff and excluding pain and scars a person does to people just because we just cant/wont deal with it..what many do not know is during all this drama, several people who do not even write on the blogs but enjoy reading...contacted me and told me they would file complaints after complaints to MM as they had enough...not that I think it was needed as MM are no blind fools either....I was the one asking those members to wait...relax..he will come around etc but obviously he did not...on the contrary. If this blog is all he has..that tells a story itself...maybe for people to open their eyes...why is he not appreciated in his own person irl....I guess we have witnessed the answer to that and that is NOT about if someone died on him etc..as then that would be an excuse card for everyone to behave like that and its not...maybe this will help hm work on his issues irl instead and if at all possible change and attract people irl so he doesnt need the MM blogs as a substitute...things happen for a reason...I would have alot to say on this...but I dont see a point just now...peace!



  Its called Cyber Stalking and IS a real crime no matter what the reason,give it a search.I left last winter after the crybaby stuff and came back right during the bring him back stuff.After the Vegas blog I just stopped reading anything he said,never viewed his blogs.I would rather watch Algot poop,but then,I feel that way about most of the planet,lmao.


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Posted on Thu, Dec 27, 2012 02:37

Fishyme...yeah..he came back alright...with another name...and was terminated a g a i n (3rd time) within short timeframe...as he posted two very extreme hate comments threatening women on here and calling them the b word etc. straight up and personally...some even suggested contacting the police...oh you must missed that "fun"...but my first sense of you Fisyme is not agreeing with such womenly demeaning attacks...as I get it you seem to be a gentleman...

 

Yeah Ive also been into Stockholm syndrome bubble-mode about Voyager54..trying to find anything to help him excuse his aggresive and demeaning behaviour...belarging his sobstory and belitteling his extreme and direct attacks on peoples beliefs and womens looks and what not...personal attacks etc....but being a compassionate and logical woman...i couldnt have myself lost in such bubble for long...

 

I tried in layers and levels to make him understand and stop all the hating..but he couldnt...we need to look at facts sometimes and not only sentimental stuff and excluding pain and scars a person does to people just because we just cant/wont deal with it..what many do not know is during all this drama, several people who do not even write on the blogs but enjoy reading...contacted me and told me they would file complaints after complaints to MM as they had enough...not that I think it was needed as MM are no blind fools either....I was the one asking those members to wait...relax..he will come around etc but obviously he did not...on the contrary.

 

If this blog is all he has..that tells a story itself...maybe for people to open their eyes...why is he not appreciated in his own person irl....I guess we have witnessed the answer to that and that is NOT about if someone died on him etc..as then that would be an excuse card for everyone to behave like that and its not...maybe this will help him work on his issues irl instead and if at all possible change and attract people irl so he doesnt need the MM blogs as a substitute...things happen for a reason...I would have alot to say on this...but I dont see a point just now...peace!



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Posted on Wed, Dec 26, 2012 00:38

Quoting worldmind:

Readers note:


It has come to my attention that Voyager54 seems to no longer be with us...if that is the case, then that might be why his comments on here and elsewhere are missing, so that readers of my blogs who notice some slight incontinuity (foremost on recent entries) understand that.



  I'll bet he'll be back,maybe another name but I think we're all he has,for all he has.


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Posted on Tue, Dec 25, 2012 16:26

Readers note:


It has come to my attention that Voyager54 seems to no longer be with us...if that is the case, then that might be why his comments on here and elsewhere are missing, so that readers of my blogs who notice some slight incontinuity (foremost on recent entries) understand that.



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