Quoting whisperinocean:

I enjoy the forum and blogs (when I have time to pop in). However ... It is saddening to see so many people who have been hurt here, because they've been lied to, told they don't measure up etc etc etc. It's all about having fun and feeling great when you've interacted with someone. If people run you down or make you worse for wear. Drop and knock (NOT LITERALLY!!) them out of your life. You're worth so much more and there is someone out there for you, but don't sit waiting and pining. Get on with your life. That's what I'm doing.