Become self referring
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I have been blessed to not have a job since I was 19yrs old and then adding to that I was able to live off residuals since I was 23 . I was able to focus on my dreams vs building other peoples . This has given my mind the freedom to notice many of the human behaviors and emerging trends in the world . I do not believe I am smarter then other people but my mind has has been freed up to be simply " more aware " .¿

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I give you this information only to explain how it is I have been able to enjoy so much freedom , Not to brag , and it has nothing to do with money . I did not inherit my income I worked hard and smart from 19 to 23 focusing when most people where not so I could be free as a adult when most adults are not . We all know you can make a lot of money and still not be free . So my point is about freedom here not income :)¿
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One of the major issues I see people doing today is making the mistake of defining themselves by what they do . As you know when asked " who are you ?" most people will respond with what they do for a living or how they make money . If you are what you have , then when you have it no more you ( are no more ) . This is a major mistake I see people making as they accidentally label themselves .The problem is then when a major career change occurs or in a reccssion people are let go or when your children grow up and leave the house ... you have forgotten " who you really are " .
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That also assumes you ¿took the time to figure out who you were in the first place :)
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This is leading to many people self medicating , or worse taking too many pills from the local doctor . Depression sets in , anxiety hits ,you sense that the world is passing you by , or worse somehow you just know you are living a lie . I really encourage people to take a program it is a 90 day program designed to help you figure out who you really are and to take action steps each day and week and no " I don't have any financial ties to them" Then you can live on purpose , your time becomes on point with your long term and short term goals or better yet your values . This does not mean you are an achiever or an over achiever its simple means you are focusing on what is most important to you . That could be quality time with a child or to travel , don't let the world get you so busy you end up running down they're roads vs the path you REALLY want .
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Abraham Maslow stated ?that the highest level of self actualization was " being beyond the good opinion of others "
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This leads to the concept I spoke of at our last convention , there is a continuum from dependence to independence , followed by interdependence ; each is a prerequisite of the next .
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Most cultures outside of American ( because it is a new country ) has some sort of right of passage or ritual to allow the first transition to take place . The first one from dependance to independence if not handled properly can hinder the last transition from ever occurring . People must feel they are allowed and respected enough to handle their own affairs ( independence ) in order for them to ever decide to come play on your team again ( interdependence ) after they earned the right and moved out of your house ( dependence ) .
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Most business leaders fail to study human beings enough to notice this trend . Church leaders , coach's and for sure parents often hit the same wall. When a right of passage is not provided for a child to transition there will often be a certain event in which a huge fall out occurs . This is because the student or child does not know how to separate respectfully or the coach or parent is not providing a way for this to happen .... hence a train wreak is for certain in the future . Unfortunately this train wreak through out history can be so severe countries to companies to families get torn apart and pain is felt by all in the wake . I pray those of you reading this do not minimize the carnage this simple lack awareness or execution can cause .
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Warriors with power have a quiet self -reliance that respects and loves others . They choose to interact with other powerful beings to bring diversity and wealth to the life journey , silently knowing they never need .
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Become self referring
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I have been blessed to not have a job since I was 19yrs old and then adding to that I was able to live off residuals since I was 23 . I was able to focus on my dreams vs building other peoples . This has given my mind the freedom to notice many of the human behaviors and emerging trends in the world . I do not believe I am smarter then other people but my mind has has been freed up to be simply " more aware " .¿

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I give you this information only to explain how it is I have been able to enjoy so much freedom , Not to brag , and it has nothing to do with money . I did not inherit my income I worked hard and smart from 19 to 23 focusing when most people where not so I could be free as a adult when most adults are not . We all know you can make a lot of money and still not be free . So my point is about freedom here not income :)¿
¿

One of the major issues I see people doing today is making the mistake of defining themselves by what they do . As you know when asked " who are you ?" most people will respond with what they do for a living or how they make money . If you are what you have , then when you have it no more you ( are no more ) . This is a major mistake I see people making as they accidentally label themselves .The problem is then when a major career change occurs or in a reccssion people are let go or when your children grow up and leave the house ... you have forgotten " who you really are " .
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That also assumes you ¿took the time to figure out who you were in the first place :)
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¿

This is leading to many people self medicating , or worse taking too many pills from the local doctor . Depression sets in , anxiety hits ,you sense that the world is passing you by , or worse somehow you just know you are living a lie . I really encourage people to take a program it is a 90 day program designed to help you figure out who you really are and to take action steps each day and week and no " I don't have any financial ties to them" Then you can live on purpose , your time becomes on point with your long term and short term goals or better yet your values . This does not mean you are an achiever or an over achiever its simple means you are focusing on what is most important to you . That could be quality time with a child or to travel , don't let the world get you so busy you end up running down they're roads vs the path you REALLY want .
¿
¿

Abraham Maslow stated ?that the highest level of self actualization was " being beyond the good opinion of others "
¿
?
¿

This leads to the concept I spoke of at our last convention , there is a continuum from dependence to independence , followed by interdependence ; each is a prerequisite of the next .
¿
¿

Most cultures outside of American ( because it is a new country ) has some sort of right of passage or ritual to allow the first transition to take place . The first one from dependance to independence if not handled properly can hinder the last transition from ever occurring . People must feel they are allowed and respected enough to handle their own affairs ( independence ) in order for them to ever decide to come play on your team again ( interdependence ) after they earned the right and moved out of your house ( dependence ) .
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Most business leaders fail to study human beings enough to notice this trend . Church leaders , coach's and for sure parents often hit the same wall. When a right of passage is not provided for a child to transition there will often be a certain event in which a huge fall out occurs . This is because the student or child does not know how to separate respectfully or the coach or parent is not providing a way for this to happen .... hence a train wreak is for certain in the future . Unfortunately this train wreak through out history can be so severe countries to companies to families get torn apart and pain is felt by all in the wake . I pray those of you reading this do not minimize the carnage this simple lack awareness or execution can cause .
¿

Warriors with power have a quiet self -reliance that respects and loves others . They choose to interact with other powerful beings to bring diversity and wealth to the life journey , silently knowing they never need .
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