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Posted on Feb 09, 2013 at 07:43 PM

My daughter is getting married and doesn't want me to go to the wedding.  Just called to inform me she would take out a restraining order if I did.  Those are suicide words


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Posted on Feb 12, 2013 at 02:43 PM

yes....in short; a 15 years custody battle and the one alienated in Parent Alienation Syndrone.


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Posted on Feb 12, 2013 at 11:21 AM

At least she told you I never even knew when my daughter got married but i still love her and that will never change


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Posted on Feb 11, 2013 at 11:16 PM

thank-you so much...


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Posted on Feb 10, 2013 at 01:55 PM

sorry to hear this. My sympathies. Seems old history has deep wounds. In time she may need you


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Posted on Feb 10, 2013 at 10:03 AM

Sounds like you two need to try and come to some agreement to meet up and talk and try to settle issues that have caused you to fall apart from each other. I think mother and daughter relationships are so important. I love my mum so much. We have never fallen out. She is my friend and rock. So hopefully you and your daughter will be able to settle whatever problems you have so you can both move forward.

 

Sarah


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Posted on Feb 10, 2013 at 05:09 AM

Death is the only thing that can not be undone. You have a lifetime to change your relationship with your daughter, if you want to deal with the heartache of the effort. Life is painful sometimes. She needs you to be her rock. Lead by example, show her your grace. 

Many blessings.... I believe in you. 

Amber Garibay


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Posted on Feb 09, 2013 at 08:59 PM

Daughters can hurt very deeply.  Obviously I don't know your situation but maybe the two of you can get therapy together, if it isn't possible then you need to seek help for yourself to get through this. I would turn to God but you might not want to. Find a close friend or relative or a stranger but you need someone for support. You probably have some time, be careful how you react to her, things can change. Best wishes.


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