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Posted on Thu, Jan 02, 2014 10:05

After subscribing to this site on Christmas to impress a wealthy lady (see blog post #1) I now realize that... well, I might've wasted that money! :-D

Statistics say that millionaire women almost always want a millionaire man and a prenup, while millionaire men almost always want a young woman non-millionaire and don't care much about a prenup.  While of course, me being not rich,  I am doom-ed, practically destined to not find someone on this site.  Though I worry more about all these lovely millionaire women, who will probably not find their millionaire men!  (Call me? :-) 

Funny, but not funny at the same time.  At least I met good friends here while I make a fool of myself.  I met LingLit and NovemberJuliett, wonderful people who I hope can look past my not have been a workaholic for 20 years or being born into money.  (try not to take that last sentence too seriously, people.)

Happy New Year, everyone



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Posted on Sun, Jan 05, 2014 06:47

I don't know about the fangs, but....Let's say, You're a TECHIE. There are female TECHIE's here also. There is every color of the rainbow here, " LOOKIN' For LOVE", and maybe some personalities(read profiles) you feel would work in your world. Truly, few women these days are going to seek you out. Too Busy,smell desperation, and are very glamorous here( The Vanities). I've seen a few Skatergals, goths,emos.....Lid for every pot! The purely honest give a no-makeup shot. Those women who spend 3 hours, challanging the mirror; as women know how revealing that is, relate. If you can handle that, then comes personality( profiles).

This is the place where I look at Chick Magnet Spots, and position. While one loves the place born & raised, one realizes the culture, and wishes to see the more exotic sides of life. Toronto is above the LAKE, and there are women up there wishing to get warm. Canadian's are neat, anyway.

 There are horse gals, camera chasers, Savvy Women who want the strength of a man to provide air for their wings, AND IF NOT.....................On this site! They come with a list( contract), with their stuff written on rice,and your stuff enforceable; Just another way for the hand to rock the cradle,or spin Yours. Good Luck! 



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Posted on Sat, Jan 04, 2014 17:31

So LingLit and myself, heh... I'm not a good judge to say money well spent or not. 

 

This site Is called millionairematch.com why is everybody beating around the bush and pretending here money is not important? Not in this blog in particular, in general on all blogs, forums profiles, such hypocrisy.  Women and men, women who want it and pretend they don't. Men that have it and pretend they wouldn't  lose any sleep about not having it tomorrow. Money is  good if you  want  it to be and bad if you choose it to be. Up to you what you do with it, so stop blaming money for the bad decisions some make or  saying it is wrong to want money, bla bla bla

 

I wanted to say that money in general ( his own not mine) is important for a man. It makes and it breaks. It is vital for the dynamic of the relationship to have either a perspective ahead (career or business idea) or a burning desire to achieve it. 

 

sorry but  the thing that drives a relationship forward is a force to be reckoned with, and while opposites attract and diversity helps , similar outlooks on where you want to see yourselves overpower the rest. 

And a similarity in how hard you work is usually repaid in how hard or similar you play. you cannot just consume, and enjoy dinner, sun, wine, ski , sail, shopping without going back to what pays for them. 

 

speaking for myself, I would never ask for a prenuptial, I find the idea of negotiation insulting in itself in this context. I would always imagine an ominous shadow of doom lurking  above our bed that we needed to protect ourselves from . I cannot open up and give my love to a human being whilst feeling like that in my own bed  night after night. Money comes and money goes , like love and like life . You cannot buy protection. But then again I wouldn't marry someone lacking drive or the means to at least match me. 

 

I have had one marriage where we literally built everything together and then we split because ultimately we were more business partners than spouses , we became just good friends...but nothing would have lasted that long if we didn't share a drive to get to point B.

And my second marriage where  there was no point B to be reached, the money was more than sufficient and the relationship did not make it past the test of kids ( or lack of, sort of speak) . It was harder to compromise or justify to yourself in the mirror the decision to stay in a so-so relationship (a dream to many men and women here)  when you know you can be just fine or better on your own. Without that piece of mind that you can achieve (financially speaking, of course) you find reasons to stay... Sometimes it works and is a good thing to stay and work things out ,  othertimes is just complacency .... And lack of self-esteem which ultimately would have killed me. Literally , not metaphorically speaking in my case. I believe in my star and believe one day I will get what I deserve.  

 

So it's not ALL about the money in my books, but I don't want to  know of  the LESS IS MORE sort of  BS unless we are talking about lingerie :-))) 



I have a dog. I run my own finishing school and I take prisoners

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Posted on Sat, Jan 04, 2014 10:26

Maybe it's not $ wasted after all. Look at it as $ well spent in research and understanding of other humans on how they think and react.

Must always look at the positive side!  :-)



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Posted on Fri, Jan 03, 2014 16:54

Quoting Quintessential21:

I dont know why, but every time I try to define a guy I allways get to the conclution that we're just born mentally different, and we spend all our existence trying to understand each other. You're also hard to understand, you know.



Good point, it works both ways.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 03, 2014 10:27

I dont know why, but every time I try to define a guy I allways get to the conclution that we're just born mentally different, and we spend all our existence trying to understand each other. You're also hard to understand, you know.



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Posted on Fri, Jan 03, 2014 09:53

Never said you were.  Change might be appropriate though since what you're doing doesn't seem to be working for you.  Maybe the whining and complaining will help.

 

 



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Posted on Fri, Jan 03, 2014 03:04

Quoting 3345roc:

If you think it's all about the money.. you are doomed.  The women, millionairesses and others, that I've met are looking for a man.  A man who will love them, laugh with them, cry with them.  A best friend who they feel safe with, in and out of the bedroom.

I'm in no position to claim to know anything about the women you might consider dating.  I've heard they're into vampires and have seen sites where they sell those fang like teeth.... just saying.

 



If it seemed I portrayed women as one-dimensional, I'm truly sorry.  It was part of the joke that I don't.  Though if you don't know me and my sense of humor well, I understand how you could take it that way.  It was based on an article about this site dated Sept 2013, I'm not allowed to post URLs.

As for this rumor:

I am NOT a vampire.  Not that there's anything wrong with that, if you happen to be one.



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Posted on Thu, Jan 02, 2014 21:12

Quoting tivo_fiend:

After subscribing to this site on Christmas to impress a wealthy lady (see blog post #1) I now realize that... well, I might've wasted that money! :-D

Statistics say that millionaire women almost always want a millionaire man and a prenup, while millionaire men almost always want a young woman non-millionaire and don't care much about a prenup.  While of course, me being not rich,  I am doom-ed, practically destined to not find someone on this site.  Though I worry more about all these lovely millionaire women, who will probably not find their millionaire men!  (Call me? :-) 

Funny, but not funny at the same time.  At least I met good friends here while I make a fool of myself.  I met LingLit and NovemberJuliett, wonderful people who I hope can look past my not have been a workaholic for 20 years or being born into money.  (try not to take that last sentence too seriously, people.)

Happy New Year, everyone



If you think it's all about the money.. you are doomed.  The women, millionairesses and others, that I've met are looking for a man.  A man who will love them, laugh with them, cry with them.  A best friend who they feel safe with, in and out of the bedroom.

I'm in no position to claim to know anything about the women you might consider dating.  I've heard they're into vampires and have seen sites where they sell those fang like teeth.... just saying.

 



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