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Tindersue
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Posted on Tue, Oct 15, 2013 14:35

I signed up over the weekend and have had looks but no wants to chat.  I wish I knew what was wrong with me!  Anybody out there that can give me some tips?


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Posted on Tue, Jan 07, 2014 07:01

I am still here and absolutely nothing has come of this site.  I must not be what men are looking for...



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Posted on Mon, Jan 06, 2014 19:03

Hey lady, you were chattering away and all of a sudden this blog goes dormant.   Did you corner one?  Did one corner you?  Surely you haven’t given up? 

 

 

Your loyal fans want to know.

 

 

 

RMac

 

 

 



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Posted on Mon, Nov 25, 2013 15:46

Quoting Tindersue:

LOL! So, you are saying if I would move within 10 miles of you...you could do a drive by just to make sure I was presentable.  Really, that is not a bad idea...it would actually show you that my photos match that lady sitting on the bench.  Have to protect ourselves.  Excellent suggestion.


Lady did that to me once.  Told me to sit on a bench outside some store.  Idea was she would meet me there.  First she had her son drive by to see if I was safe, I guess.  Did not tell me that part.  He said I looked like a nice guy, so she and I had dinner together.  Nice Lady.  We did not become an item though. 

 

RMac

 

 



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Posted on Wed, Nov 20, 2013 07:23

LOL! So, you are saying if I would move within 10 miles of you...you could do a drive by just to make sure I was presentable.  Really, that is not a bad idea...it would actually show you that my photos match that lady sitting on the bench.  Have to protect ourselves.  Excellent suggestion.



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Posted on Sun, Nov 17, 2013 05:20

Oh my!  Several weeks into this site and still very little contact.  I met a very nice man...I thought!  I had to ask my 40 year old son what the heck is going on with older gentlemen?  What do they want?  I get to the lets meet stage and no shows.  My heart is in a spin cycle and I am just plain sad over these events.  I know I have alot to give and receive.  Any advice?



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Posted on Mon, Oct 28, 2013 19:29

Along with many others I don't see anything wrong with you.

 

RMac



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Posted on Mon, Oct 28, 2013 13:01

Thank you for your kind words, Liv.  I have worked so hard to understand the "y" for the death of my hubby.  I am such a fish out of water, that I think I am pushing to hard.  I thought people on dating sites want to date or at least get to know new people.  I will hold my head high and believe that the next opportunity that is knocking will be that positive I am looking for.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 28, 2013 09:05

Quoting Tindersue:

I signed up over the weekend and have had looks but no wants to chat.  I wish I knew what was wrong with me!  Anybody out there that can give me some tips?



You are a gorgeous woman and there's nothing wrong with you. Just give it time. Also, please do not place any importance upon this particular site for affirmations from the opposite sex. Build yourself up and be happy in and with yourself, and ignore those who don't want to chat with you or respond to your first move. Just mentally say to yourself - NEXT! For every 'no' [or ignore] you get, gets you closer to your 'yes'!

 

Take care and be happy!

 

Liv.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 28, 2013 06:14

Thank you for your kind remark...but nothing is going on with this site.  I guess people are busy making money instead of writing me.


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Posted on Sun, Oct 27, 2013 20:21

I see absolutely nothing wrong with you.



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Posted on Fri, Oct 18, 2013 06:42

Thank you Dakota35 for your open and honest reply.  It was well thought out with a sweet caring and understanding of the pain someone goes through the loss of a close loved one.


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Posted on Fri, Oct 18, 2013 06:35

Hey, caringguy in Charleston!  It would be nice if you would check my blog.


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Posted on Thu, Oct 17, 2013 13:36

Dak,your comments are so sincere, articulate and frankly uncanilly accuarate to whom you are replying to.



absolutely fabulous

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Posted on Wed, Oct 16, 2013 03:22

I received some wonderful replies and want to send my personal appreciate to them caring enough about one person to write.  We all really have a cross to bear...just in different ways.  I feel better and willing to pull myself up and look at continued life as a adventure.  Kudos to all who have the same, hopes, dreams and desires.


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Posted on Tue, Oct 15, 2013 21:06

You are fine and so is your profile!  I am very sorry for your loss. I have been on here for a few months and only have had scammers respond.  Do research this so you don't get hurt.  Google 'dating scams' so you can identify the bad guys.  if you report them, MM boots them off immediately.  Unfortunately, they often remake themselves and come back.  I had just given up and cancelled my gold membership when I heard from a nice man who is 'real.' There are real men out there but I've found that most are looking for young and athletic women.  Sigh... I would be athletic and slender, but not young, if I didn't have to work in a school for 10 hours a day and then have to study till 3 in the morning for my master's degree!  I've been burning the candle at both ends for 3 years studying for a medical degree.  Doesn't make for a slender, athletic body!  Oh well.  Good luck!  Don't give up!

 



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Posted on Tue, Oct 15, 2013 17:51

I don't claim to have the answer, but I will give you my simple thoughts.  Reading over your profile, I see that you lost your husband.  This is probably why you think there is something wrong with you...as in not motivated to chat.  When we lose someone and then try to move on, it is like we are replacing them.  We both know that people can never be replaced and it is difficult for us to think that way.  So people that have a loyal nature, tend to find it difficult to move to finding someone else.  Even thought they know it is the right thing to do and that the person they lost would want them to be happy.  My suggestion is to find someone, start off as friends and casual dating.  If all works out, then slowly you will find those old feelings that were lost.  You may also have low level depression which needs to be addressed.  My suggestion is to use a holistic approach.  I am not judging, just throwing some things out there that may or may not help.  Best of luck to you.



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