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Posted on Fri, May 26, 2006 16:29

Man, At the core of sexual memory there is always for me some image of a man's face, an electric recognition of the absoluteness of his existence. St. Augustine said that love is a form of becoming, and you can see this happen sometimes in the other person's face as it moves through the banded light thrown off by improvised physical union. Often it is happening far away, privately, with us merely beside it, though we call it union. Often there is rage, and the fission of its release. Often, with sharp intake of breath, there is an opening, a curtain thrown back on an utterly new world. In the man's body the woman sees the source of her pleasure and the sculptural aspects of his beauty; carved leaden shaft with delicate wings lifting for flight, yet it is the face that registers the story, expresses the feeling, creates the sense that one's touch, one's movement, one's life has changed the other person, has reached into the center of his identity, and he has used it to make some kind of rearrangement. The enduring appeal of sex, aside from the great gift of randiness, is an intimacy born of creating stories together: Good sex has an internal narrative, a rhythm, a development, a climax, and a falling. Narrative demands character and then, having character, demands that the character change. And we do change; though we often cannot retain these changes, while an hour or an evening ago they were so dramatic and so clear. Perhaps the drama of change lovers see in each other, which fades to invisibility in sleep and in the clothed world, doesn't actually disappear rather builds up beneath them, gradually, so that they do not recognize it, even as they stand upon it, high enough to see clearly and yet firm enough to love. You, my eternal lover, as well as i, know that until you believe in yourself enough to trust, to love in full, and to completely surrender, shall languish behind your self imposed walls waiting for your destiny, longing for me. May you embrace your beautiful, delicate inner being to find the love and life you so richly deserve. woman


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Posted on Sat, Nov 13, 2010 19:14

"Man"?? THAT's what you agree with? Gimme a break, this is some of the coolest writing we've seen for a while! Dubs, I think TampaGuy is going to win THIS date.


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Posted on Fri, Nov 12, 2010 16:34

I agree with the first paragraph. That is a awesome word. rotflmao


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Posted on Fri, Nov 12, 2010 05:56

it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. such is the paradoxical nature of spiritual knowledge. David

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