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Dakota35
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Posted on Thu, Feb 20, 2014 23:19

Quoting StunningYetShy76:

Everyone has the freedom to make choices in life. If you wish to be a flat head, then that's your choice.

I make no judgements. I don't judge flat or bagel heads as they are both welcome in my world. As long as they are happy, then I'll be happy, and for that, I appreciate everyone equally.  BUT if we have a criminal running around killing innocent children or adilts, I certainly wouldn't want anything to do with him/her. We all have different opinions and that's understandable but making judgements on the unknown is a problem.



We all judge in one form or another.  I'm guilty and will continue to be guilty.  I just choose to admit it.  It is just human and is a protection trait developed at a very young age.  And I'd say my judgement has proven to be correct more times than wrong.  Each to their own, it is what it is.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 20, 2014 23:15

Quoting Jenkneee:

Thanks Dakota and Stunning,I'm glad you both agree with me. I do find it quite sad that someone chooses to hide their individuality and instead becomes a follower.  Anything to fit in!!  While we're at it, let's all be politically correct. Unfortunitely we all lose when people choose to not think and act on their own. Please don't hide what you're about to just fit in.

 

 So how polite should you be? Should we be falsely "positive"?  No offense to all the positive people out there but I tend to think more realistically while still keeping some hope and some positivity. Sometimes I might even appreciate all those good moments even more BECAUSE of my realistic views of the world and of the future.

 

 

I once heard this lady say something to the effect of, "I hide the crazy for about 6 months in the beginning of a relationship" then I let it come out. lol.   Well..this man of hers may be getting quite a surprise 6 months down the road!  Not that I'm crazy but you better believe that whatever sums me up, he is going to know from the beginning, within reason of course. I may be an open book but no need to tell your life's history in the first 10 minutes either.

 

 

Bagelheads are popular in a certain area of the world, are you wanting to be a Bagelhead too?  Is your forehead just too plain on it's own? Do you feel bad when you walk into a room of Bagelheads because you don't have the same forehead as they do?  You can change it today, become a Bagelhead!!

 

 

 * I don't care if the entire human population all become Bagelheads! You will not find me giving in to it. I will be the lone, flat forehead girl forever :)

 

 



Jenkneee, exactly what you stated is why many relationships do not work out.  People hide who they are, then it eventually comes out.  So two people meet and if they both decide to be someone they are not, then the relationship starts out based on each lying.  You summed it up quite well. I'm going to pass on the bagelhead thing, and I really don't think you'll find me at a bagelhead convention. WhoTF would want that?

 

Another thing that many times people (especially women) do not think about...A man can look like a million bucks and be in debt up to his eyeballs.  What people fail to realize, is that if you owe for something, then you do not fully own it.  Now, I'm not saying that a man or woman should come right out and tell about their finances.  But this is something to think about, since many relationships end because of money problems.  Debt can be used as a grand lie...to make one look to be what they are not.

 

Stunning, I am doing absolutely wonderful!  Thanks for asking.

 



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Posted on Thu, Feb 20, 2014 22:17

Everyone has the freedom to make choices in life. If you wish to be a flat head, then that's your choice.

I make no judgements. I don't judge flat or bagel heads as they are both welcome in my world. As long as they are happy, then I'll be happy, and for that, I appreciate everyone equally.  BUT if we have a criminal running around killing innocent children or adilts, I certainly wouldn't want anything to do with him/her. We all have different opinions and that's understandable but making judgements on the unknown is a problem.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 20, 2014 21:31

Quoting Dakota35:

Jenkneee you are correct...there is a whole lot of masking going on, on this site.  Some folks on here don't even have their own identity, they choose to be what they believe people will deem as attractive, cool, and acceptable. Fake not only to others but to themselves, to a point where they only acquire the identity of what they believe others want. Very sad, as their originality will never be allowed to bloom.


Thanks Dakota and Stunning,I'm glad you both agree with me. I do find it quite sad that someone chooses to hide their individuality and instead becomes a follower.  Anything to fit in!!  While we're at it, let's all be politically correct. Unfortunitely we all lose when people choose to not think and act on their own. Please don't hide what you're about to just fit in.

 

 So how polite should you be? Should we be falsely "positive"?  No offense to all the positive people out there but I tend to think more realistically while still keeping some hope and some positivity. Sometimes I might even appreciate all those good moments even more BECAUSE of my realistic views of the world and of the future.

 

 

I once heard this lady say something to the effect of, "I hide the crazy for about 6 months in the beginning of a relationship" then I let it come out. lol.   Well..this man of hers may be getting quite a surprise 6 months down the road!  Not that I'm crazy but you better believe that whatever sums me up, he is going to know from the beginning, within reason of course. I may be an open book but no need to tell your life's history in the first 10 minutes either.

 

 

Bagelheads are popular in a certain area of the world, are you wanting to be a Bagelhead too?  Is your forehead just too plain on it's own? Do you feel bad when you walk into a room of Bagelheads because you don't have the same forehead as they do?  You can change it today, become a Bagelhead!!

 

 

 * I don't care if the entire human population all become Bagelheads! You will not find me giving in to it. I will be the lone, flat forehead girl forever :)

 

 


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Posted on Thu, Feb 20, 2014 20:48

Well said Jen, I agree. Hi Dakota. Hope you're doing well. :) 



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Posted on Thu, Feb 20, 2014 16:42

Quoting Jenkneee:

I agree with you for the most part. Being kind is the best way to be and gossiping can be hurtful,etc. BUT I think it is best to see someone's true colors on here instead of having them mask who they really are. 



Jenkneee you are correct...there is a whole lot of masking going on, on this site.  Some folks on here don't even have their own identity, they choose to be what they believe people will deem as attractive, cool, and acceptable. Fake not only to others but to themselves, to a point where they only acquire the identity of what they believe others want. Very sad, as their originality will never be allowed to bloom.


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Posted on Thu, Feb 20, 2014 14:23

I agree with you for the most part. Being kind is the best way to be and gossiping can be hurtful,etc. BUT I think it is best to see someone's true colors on here instead of having them mask who they really are. 



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