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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 09:09

Great post spirit thank you. Erica Anne


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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 09:07

hey spizedtea when we become members on these sites we open ourselves to all that is out there the good and the bad of it. We deal with it the best we can. That is all you can do st . Not one of us is perfect. Have a great day. Erica Anne


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Posted on Thu, Jun 15, 2006 04:02

A wonderful essay. The meeesage is truly that: "We are all masters of our own destiny" What very scary and challenging concept for most. An important consideration to enhance the quality of life is: 'People tend to behave as we expect them to behave" SO if you expect positive you get positive, and life is pleasant. If you are negative, expect negative, you get negative ! Life is less pleasant For those whose life is not waht they wouldl ike it to be, it is much easier to cast the responsibility on others and envy those who are happy.


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Posted on Thu, Jun 15, 2006 02:05

Absolutely exceptionally said. I have to wholeheartedly agree with you on this subject. Playing the "poor little me" game is simply lame. We all have to face life's challanges every day but it's how we view life and those challanges that are going to determine our character and how others see us. You speak of a very wise lesson too many need to learn. Life isn't always going to run smoothly and treat us fairly. If it did think what boring people we would all become. I've seen you face some of the worst and shown such a possitive outlook on life. It radiates through your words just as i'm sure your smile does in person. So many don't understand about forgiveness. Forgiveness isn't for the other persons benifit, it's for our own. Those bonds of hatred, anger and resentment can lead to real physical problems long run. Forgiving my ex husband was one of the hardest things to do. I remember having to say it out loud every day for almost a good 2 months before I finally started to believe myself and truly did start to forgive. Suddenly it wasn't so hard after all and the hurts that had been there disappeared. Also the hold that he'd had over me for so many years and the fear I had felt disappeared. I believe that in forgiving we find ourselves once again. We don't even have to tell that person that we forgive them. Just doing it makes that difference.


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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 20:47

Why thank you Will... I believe that if we spend our lives in loving, we have no leisure to complain or feel unhappiness. I honestly try to remember this and live each day of my life in this way. I am happy...I am grateful for all that God has blessed me with ..and I love this sweet gift of life!!! Erica Anne


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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 20:17

Wow..thank you ! Sinergy What a sweet thing to say... Erica Anne


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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 15:13

Erica Anne, you give encouragement to those who thirst for it most. You speak positively of the world, and make it a rich and fulfilling place. You are truly beautiful, inside and out.


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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 09:20

L.R. Another sweet compliment..thank you...there are a lot of good people here on this site...I am sure you will find this in you discoveries here. We all have issues and fears..Yet basically I feel we are all here for the same reason and that is to find that one special love of our lives..." the one " that we can truly love unconditionally....completely ..solely ..passionately and exclusively... thank you for posting Erica Anne


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Posted on Thu, May 25, 2006 18:43

Not here...


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