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Posted on Sun, May 21, 2006 12:48

Corinthians reads that LOVE is NOT RUDE.... Tone of voice communicates more than your words....ones whole demeanor..speaks loudly...how you say something is very important...there is NO excuse to be rude.. if you are harsh..rude and unkind it is usually just to make yourself feel good or better.. Proverbs 11:17 YOU DO YOURSELF A FAVOR WHEN YOU ARE KIND A pleasant tone of voice an attitude is paramount in communicating with another individual..one must exude a friendly, respective,polite understanding gentle spirit...one should be polite not rude..understanding not demanding one should be kind and considerate to everyone...this is a test of faith. We should never say things to belittle hurt or demean another person..usually people who do this are very insecure... We should do our best not to make someone feel small or unimportant... We should always be friendly..compliment ..smile and take time for consideration..we need to learn to express our appreciation..and not to take anyone for granted..we should encourage and give our approval..all the while being kind...gentle and understanding... The more authority we have the more humility we should show.. we should remember that power and money can corrupt us and always be aware.. Have you noticed how polite we all can be with our co-workers..friends..everyday people we run across in our everyday lives...we can be more than polite to perfect strangers who may never cross our paths again...than to those closest to us those we hold most dear. Behind closed doors..the real test of character is how we treat those closest to you...your significant other..family..children..wife..husband...we should treat them better than anyone else..but we don't do we... The bible reads..that a man's wife is a reflection of his glory..and how he treats her reflects in her smile..her demeanor..her behavior..and in the way she looks..think for just one moment..if you have a wife ..lover ..or significant other...how does she act..what is her demeanor..does she have an inner glow that radiates from deep within her soul through her eyes...does she smile laugh a lot..is she happy does she feel safe ..content..does she feel secure confident..is she at peace...If not she is not then one is not putting into her what she needs..take a good look of you wife lover or significant other...does she reflect who you are?? Remember she is a reflection of your character.... We should treat those who are closest to us as valuable..We must remember that God has in trusted these love ones to us..for they are a gift from God and should be held precious to us...they need our love and respect.. In First Peter it reads.."Men..if we do not treat our wives with love and respect..our prayers will be hindered' Do not treat your loved ones with harshness or disrespect... Treat People right..being sarcastic rude and disrespectful is not love nor understanding ..If we want to be more persuasive ..be kind..gentle..considerate and respectful to those closest to you...Remember Hard and Harsh behavior..is negative..love and kindness should rule..Be gentle..be grateful..be kind..always express and show your love and gratitude.... Erica Anne

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Posted on Sun, Aug 06, 2006 16:49

Lance it looks to me he pulled his own post...wink... Thanks for posting...{ Lancelot } giggle erica anne@}------


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Posted on Sun, Aug 06, 2006 16:47

Thank you NNy...thank you for posting.. Erica Anne@}------


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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 03:31

Don't know Lance...lost a lot of my posts..who knows...didn't I answer this in an email? Have you been drinking again?? Erica Anne@)--------


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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 03:28

Hello sweet Lori..it is always good to see you....thank you for posting... erica anne@)---------


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Posted on Tue, Aug 01, 2006 03:26

Hello there JMOV (catchy) but not effective...Its very simple ...nothing says you have to open my blog..why not just pass it by? So many do...I am sure there are some here that will be more to your liking...thanks for your post.... Good luck to you on your continued journey or should I say bashing?? ... Erica Anne@)------- wink...


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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 16:07

Thank you Shane. Erica Anne


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