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Southern_book
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Posted on Tue, Apr 30, 2013 07:53

fiftyto fifty shades of grey was mentioned to me in a comment left. It's a good read I hear from people that like to pose as Subs and Doms but for Thoes that are in the life style are torn between anger and hurt. One Sub that read the book states that it is more abusive then BDSM and that you should stay away.  I don't know much about the book myself but I can tell you it's not a highly thought of book in the BDSM lifestyle. I've read some fanfiction on BDSM and I was horrified by how off about the subject they were. Not even the slave and master side of BDSM was that cold or heartless.  When you first join BDSM as a sub you have the option to be trained under a Mater or Mistress or wait and just follow what the fellows Subs have told you is expected of you Until You find the right Dom for you. Another thing is if you want to try the life style you should know there are diffrent styles, ways, and levels. 


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Posted on Sat, May 04, 2013 22:25

"50 Shades" was piss poor writing by a bored housewife for other bored housewives who needed their life amped up in the bedroom.... Women starved for sex, feeling lifeless and dull with their spouses who needed an "escape" from schleping the kids to and from ballet and soccer. 

 

It also grabbed the attention of the inexperienced "girls" who don't know about men or their own sexuality enough to realize there was little to no truth in how everything transforms within a sexual relationship, BDSM, or otherwise. (It related to BOTH "shades" of relationships very ridiculously!) 

 

As a previous abuse victim, I had concerns before reading. I felt it might be an "abusive" depiction of a foul releationship. In any regard, it was NOT. In an abusive relationship, the victim holds no power. In this relationship, the "supposed" victim held almost ALL the power, which is what I suspect allured so many lonely women to that pathetic display of a Trilogy. The bored housewife wanted to feel "so wanted" and "desired" like dear old Christian wanted Ana, since they no longer feel that "thirst" like they did 10 years ago before diapers and car pools..... and the inexperienced girls got a thrill the sexy, hot wealthy man wanted the girl who had only kissed 2 boys and never had intercourse in her life.... that is.. until meeting the "handsome Christian." 

 

Christian never placed Ana in danger and she was always FREE to go.. Always had SAFETY words  to use and she was the one who cooerced Christian into the "Red Room" after her first, oh so traumatic encounter there. Anyone ever suffering any type of abuse knows all too well, they are NOT FREE to go, there are no passwords and she is not in charge of cooercing. Even the "emotional toil" had more to do with the character Christian than Ana... 

 

Pathetic, Pathetic, Pathetic... 

 

The book, which was very poorly written, redundantly using the same words as "mutter," "murmur," "mercurial," "inner goddess," "subconscius," and 50 other repetitive words!! Even the sex scenes were redundant. 

 

As far as your account of "cold and heartless".. the book was not cold and heartless... However, BDSM, if taken by the way it is to be performed, is ALSO not cold or heartless. With BDSM, all parties are consenting adults, and all parties may leave at any time during the course of play. BDSM ranges on many levels, and although most people consider it to be all whips and chains, this is not the only "style" to dom and sub... And many BDSM interchange their status for differing in role play. 

 

If a true BDSM participant is not allowed out, is forced to do things they express they do not desire or are not comfortable with, or if at any time the rules are not followed as discussed, THIS constitutes ABUSE and is no longer a part of BDSM, but an ABUSIVE ACT.



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Posted on Thu, May 02, 2013 23:15

Look at diffrent breed 3 ma'am I wrote it just for you.


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Posted on Thu, May 02, 2013 20:18

SB~

Hmmm....but what happens to the sub's soul if she has given her master everything she has to give.....and then he tires of her, perhaps discarding her for another?  Is she disgraced and doomed to debilitating depression?  Is there anything left for her that's still worth living for? 

 

Not judging....just asking.

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