Wouldn't it be great if we could understand why members of the opposite sex do such things or get them to understand that some of the things they do serves them in a more disadvantage way and can be very off putting.
Here are some of the things i find somewhat strange with some men here from both experience and general observation.
Men with profiles stating they are in a relationship ie they are married and looking for casual sex, isn't there a site that is specially for this type of arrangement or better still use your hand to get over your period of sexual frustration. It might be less costly in the long term.
Men state specifically what they have financial wise and then complain they attract the wrong sort. Really a child would understand if they brought sweets to a playground they would gain a few new friends and not necessary of the sincere variety.
Men with lack of communication skills, unfortunately there are many here and then you notice they have been here as far back as 2005 surprise surprise, and if this site was here in 2025 they would probably be still here. I won't even go there with some of the chat up phrases i got here, believe me you would not even pull a pint with them never mind a woman.
Men who get "hard" after a two minute cyber conversation, oh lord what an advertisement i think most women would be hoping it would take a little longer than that
Men who use generic emails, If you are going to the bother of initiating contact and are too lazy to bother to write a specific email to the woman you could at least insert the name at the top to apply a small amount of effort and to make it look less obvious that this is the email that is sent to any lady that catches there eye.
Profiles that seem to be written by a great fiction writer because that is the only conclusion one can come up with after contact with some . So ditch Enith Blyton and write an honest profile of what you really want as they say honesty is the best policy and who knows you might find someone who genuinely wants the same.
Men who say on their profile there hot, just because your mother may have told you this does not necessarily mean its true, when you delude yourself so much you bypass many great people not in your own perceived league.
It is very obvious when you are part of the "numbers game" a good clue is when you are asked the same question that you had already answered or where the line of communication lacks any serious purpose.
Again there are some men here who are great so the above does not imply to all and i am sure that women too can prove baffling here too, I did read a message in the forum where a man who was obviously an interior designer was offering to personalize someones home for them but some women took it up as if he was giving them a free house (as if) so obviously some read what they want to read.