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Posted on Fri, Jun 16, 2006 15:24

Sorry guys, but it's your turn, I've never been one to keep my mouth shut so I have a question for anyone out there who cares to explain the facts on this. When a large percentage of men grow older (mainly in their 40's), they look for much younger women (in their 20's). When women grow older (their 40's)they know what men want and are much wiser, but men their age tend to want younger women. When men grow even older (around their 60's) they seem to go for women in their 40's. Why do so many men want women so much younger than themselves? I've been around the block and enjoyed every minute of it. I have learnt a lot of valuable lessons and wouldn't trade it for the world. If you can make sense of all of that we are on the same level and I would love to hear from you!

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Posted on Sun, Jul 09, 2006 02:40

Two years ago I dated a younger gal. She was 27 and looked great. We had good sex, but there wasn't the special connection. Since then I have dated women my own age and boy, you gals know what you want and know how to do it! So what if you have the odd streach mark here or there. This guy has no complaints.


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Posted on Sat, Jul 08, 2006 15:39

I think it works both ways though. I know of a few older woman dating younger guys. Its not just the older man younger woman. Many single guys in there 20's and 30's keep themselves in great shape. ( not to say some older men don't) Some older woman like that and want a hot guy like that. Because a lot of men there age dont care about how they look. When there is an older man chasing a younger woman a lot of times its the money that would attract that woman. As for myself I could go either way younger within reason or older. If the mans heart is in the right place like mine is he will capture my attention.


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Posted on Fri, Jul 07, 2006 11:01

Having created an earlier forum section bemoaning the whole eye/arm candy issue, I am thrilled to see all the positive male commentary here. Guess I'll keep my hat in the ring.


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Posted on Fri, Jun 30, 2006 10:50

Not all middle aged men are like that. Some of us found 20 somethings a bit tedious when we were that age, but to be honest the persnickityness of the 40s with the chip about the youngsters isn't much easier. But keep the faith, there are some of us guys that are looking for a partner that has "learnt" a thing or two!!! Maybe men in the 40's didn't get a chance to date women in their 20's when they were that age because all the women in their 20's were dating men in thier 40s. So perhaps the women who are in their 40s now, already had their cake 2 decades ago... But I was hoping for a car too! :o(


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Posted on Thu, Jun 29, 2006 14:41

sexy spice.. thanks for the compliments.. does this mean we are going to bring the spice girls back =future forward. now they are in their 50"s?hahahhahaf


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 13:01

Hi Coachfrankie, You sound like a great gal and stacks of fun, it's a pity we are so far away from each other because together we would rock this world! Over the week-end I observed the middle age thing in full swing. My daughter has a friend who is 20 and has a 9 month old baby. The friend goes out clubbing wearing the skimpiest clothes and the most daring cleavage you have ever seen (and I mean EVER!) along with fluffy dark blue slippers on her feet, yes, slippers. So of course I asked the question why she was wearing slippers, her reply was that guys don't even notice, all they look at is her cleavage and she gets free drinks the whole evening as well as all sorts of other offers. Her intelligence is as follows: when I asked how her baby was she said that she had the mentality of a 10 month old even though she was only 9 months old (blunder 1) then she told me that when she was pregnant her bust was a size H (blunder 2), you don't even get an H as far as I am aware. All of that in the space of 3 minutes! As for the sex, well she would rather spend someone else's money instead! I love being me, my intelligence, my sensuality, my sense of humour and my sex drive, and I wouldn't change it for the world.


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 12:41

Hi SymonSez, You have nailed it on head, touche! The ladies that you have described in your comments are here right now. If only all guys realised what you in your wisdom have stated! So start by emailing coachfranike, stylewclass and myself


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 12:36

Hi Stylwclass, I couldn't agree with you more


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 12:29

Hi Sixtilio, If what you say is the case, then what happened AFTER young girls started looking for older 20 year old boys? I think you lost the plot, sorry I don't buy what you say LOL


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 12:26

Hi L.F.III Thanks for your lovely comment, it is really nice to know that there are still men our own age that appreciate us for what we have! The ladies out there are waiting to hear from you now!! When are you going to send an email? ;)


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 12:15

Hi Willprt, Thanks for your input, I hear what you're saying, but that just goes to prove that you are one of the gents looking for a younger woman. There are still women that have children at the age of 50, yes, I think they are crazy but it also proves that woman don't have to be young to breed.


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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 05:46

Hi Sexyspice I cant speak for all males of course, however I dont think it just comes down to physical age. I have met some "old" 35 year olds and some young 50 year olds... and vise versa. I find females between the ages of 30 and 40 have a lot of issues they still have to deal with, generally older men will not want to have to deal with that on an ongoing basis ( the ones i have talked to ) My perfect person would have the energy and fun mentality of a 35 year old, the wisdom of a 45 year old and the zest of a 20 year old LOL... oh and like to dance... just my $0.02 worth... good investment i would say! ;) Symon


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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 04:22

Sexyspice you are very observant. I think I finally understand it now. Men in their later years are starting to have plumbing problems. They know that woman their same age are hitting their sexual peak. There is NO WAY that this man can keep up to a sexy 40/50 yr. old woman so they go younger to woman that they can control and who are inexperienced. They show these ladies alternative ways to make love and these ladies don't complain about the extra work it takes to arouse their man because the man is attentive and spends money on them The clever younger men - early 30's have realized what a goldmine we older ladies are. Why? They say that they like older woman because we know what we want. They find us sexy. A woman who can make up her mind and has life experience and experiences to share. A woman who is intellectual and can carry on a conversation without whining. We of course are insatiable and can take and enjoy all that a younger man has to offer. The non stop sex - well it is amazing and at this time of our lives we are really able to enjoy our sensuality ...smile.. come on girls.. admit it.. lol.. coach


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