After living in NY & Chicago I have pretty much sworn off cold winters...until I read this. I love the scenic beauty of ND, from what I have seen in pictures. It seems peaceful and tranquil. With the world news pressing in from all angles, the fact that there is a haven there is beginning to sound appealing. I have always thought of myself as a city girl, but the world is making so much noise, I am thinking smaller cities, or country living might be a place to explore with the right partner. A big sky, lots of stars, panoramic vistas...hmmm.
I am wondering if any of you could tell me what you love about the state, and where the centers of art and culture are. Sometimes the things I have adamantly resisted have turned out to be the best things for me.
There are a lot of ways to make contact with the women that interest you. Wink, e-mail, Live Chat, Post a Comment on the profile for the woman you want to meet...
I have received all forms of contact. and I have not been ABLE to respond because of the form of contact.
1-women with free profiles CANNOT initiate an e-mail.
2-even if you send a wink, we cannot respond if you have your account settings such that you are hidden, or not accepting winks.
3-if you are a paid member it would be best to send an e-mail and NOT a wink. Women with free profiles can respond to you in a return e-mail...and guess what- you get to say more about why you liked her profile, or what you think you have in common, etc. in an e-mail than a wink.
4-If you log in to LIVE Chat the list of members logged-in is on the right. a member can initiate a private chat with the woman they would like to talk to by clicking on her profile and starting a conversation.
5-you can post a comment on a woman's profile- tell her what you liked about the way she looks or what she said in her profile and invite her to look for you in Live Chat.
About the Lobby-
I have found that the lobby is generally attended by an established clique of members who have formed a support group, of sorts. Most of them are really more interested in a group encounter with their cronies than they are in meeting new people.
so- when you see a woman on a profile through your general search, e-mail her, or comment on her profile, or invite her to a private chat. be sure she knows how to chat because you can only comment once every few days, and if she is not clear how to do it you probably will miss your opportunity.
AND MOST IMPORTANT- Check you settings to make sure you are not filtering out possible ways to find you or respond! We may not be as snobby as you think...we just may not be ABLE to let you know we are interested!