I have lived in the Bay Area all my life and really it is a great place. Unfortunately I have not been able to find my special someone here. How is that possible you may wonder. I will tell you how. The SF Bay Area much be big, but here everyone knows everyone. It is weird but is really shows that the world or at least the one here is small. I don?t mind moving or putting roots down somewhere else. I am pretty flexible and open to a long distance relationship because I believe my soul mate is out there and with modern technology and frequent flights having a meaningful long distance relationship is possible.
I really like to meet a man who is ready to settle down and start a family. Someone I can be best friends with and I can do things with.
Ok, So I have tried a variety of dating sites and have met a few people. Many of them there not as sweet or as sincere as they said they where. It is rather disappointing, but I will not let it get me down. Now, I am on this site and figure I can meet a different type of person than one who would be on match.com or yahoo singels. (They are often just looking for a fling).
Only to my siaappointment so far, many of the men don't seem to be interested and I can't figure out why. Do they not like my picture or the way I look? There is more to a person than looks. What about intellect? Goals?
I'll admit I am a little on the heavy side. Ok more than a little, but I exersize daily, eat healthy, have a great career and I have a big heart. I guess that is not enough. If I switch companies I good be wealthy but, there is something to be said for a job you love, where the your boss is relaxed and the poeple are great. I love my stress free totally relaxed job.
I bet you anything if I said i was rich (though I am not) I would have all these men into me. I guess for men Money can override looks and looks can override what's inside. I know from expierence, someone you may not be physically attracted to at first can become the most beautiful person in the world if what is inside is steller and the most gourgous woman in the world can become the ugliest person in the world because their personallity is ugly.
I would just like for people to start looking beyound the outside and see deep within.
I find it extreemly hard to meet good men. I have tried dating sites, the bar scene, work,and even joing groups. They all want tiny little fke woman with huge fake tits! What ever happened to guys wanting a smart woman, who is not so girly, loves sports and is not tiny. Fat doesn't mean out of shape and thin does not mean in shape.
I'll admit I have a hard time letting men halp me. Sheez, I was raised to never depend on a man.
I don't care if you are broke or rich as long as you are sweet, employed, and not full of yourself.