I jumped in and became a member and am now thinking I wasted my money. I am seriously looking for a partner for life. I am extremely well adjusted and happy with myself and can easily be alone and be okay with that, but thought I would like to share my life with someone special. My pictures are very recent and considering I am 43 and going to be a grandmother, I am not at all hard to look at. Do I need to adjust my profile to say something about walking on beaches and cuddling by campfires? That stuff is great and I do enjoy it, but doesn't everyone? Why am I getting no responses?