I will try to keep this short, since when I write too much people commment on my title and never read the blog, but I digress.
This is a site to look for a lover, best friend, wife, life partner, or what ever is the best name for who you would like to spend the rest of your life with. (or the weekend, again I digress) Other than the fact that you have an ex stalking you, which is a response I got last week and thought was a tad bit scary, why not post a picture? You have the technology to get online a try to date, why not post a pic. Honestly, I do not respond to adds without pictures, because I do not feel like the person on the other end is serious enough for me to take my time to get to know. (my feeling and my feeling only) is they are not being honest, unless they are being stalked by an ex or they are a political refugee, another response I got. This really is a worldwide site. Some of the ladies on here are being hunted. That must scarey, but then again, it must be nice to be sought after, even if it is by a terrorist.
I know there must be good reasons for not posting a pic, but just tell me why. I am not a hunk by anyone's standard, but I am here and upfront. No cheap shots please! I don't need anymore shoulders. LOL
How I have dreamed of what true love may be!
I have never known true heart ache. I have never known what is to loose one that I have really loved. Other than my family, I am not sure I have ever really been in love.
I have searched myself for the reasons. Is it me? Maybe. I am a very emotional person, so why is it that I have never felt true loss upon the ending of a relationship. Am I lucky and blessed with thoughtlessness when it comes to the loss of a lover, or have I never been truly in love?
I guess it is hard to believe that I have never been in love, but this may be the case. What is worse, losing something you truly love or never knowing what it is to truly love or be in love? "It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"??? I think so. I know I have everything I should ever ask for; health, wonderful friends and family, great career, free time, sunshine, and a big heart. With all this, is asking for more, asking too much?
I am ready and willing for it to happen. Maybe too ready and will I be strong enough to except the reality if love goes wrong? Yes? I hope so, but I am willing to face it regardless.
Has anyone else faced this with an open heart and open eyes and truly said to themselves, I have never been in love?
I hope there is enough hope, happiness, and love to go around.
I am awaiting my turn.
Any and every resonse would be appreciated.
I would like to get different opinions from everyone about relocating for someone you have met and fell in love with. Whether you met them over the internet or some other way. Would you be willing to relocate if you were in love? Would you move away from your friends and family to live with your love.
What conditions would there be for you to do this?
I have lived my life of 32 years and never was able to put together a tally until I tried online dating. 87% Why do you ladies need someone who is taller than you? And do you really need 6 inches or more taller?