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Posted on Wed, Dec 11, 2013 12:45

Is there a new trend going on with the younger generation ?

 

I was talking to my niece, and asked her if she had a New boyfriend yet, she said, well kind of Uncle Ray, it's complicated and you won't understand. I said, sure I will whats going on. She said, well I don't have a new boyfriend but I'm in a relationship with Becka's  (her best friend) fiance. I said what ! She said yes, we all live together and are in a relationship. Then about 4 days later, I was in a Bar in Manhattan Beach California (which I love by the way) I was watching the Michigan State, Ohio State game. A bunch of younger people came in and were standing there shooting the bull. Well one of the young guys came up to me and started talking, he was really nice, then I said to him, is that your girlfriend, he said, oh sorry man for not introducing her, he said the is my girlfriend Sarah, and this beautiful blonde is our companion Kate. I said, (being old as I'm,,LOL) are you saying what I think your saying, he said, Yes, it's awesome and the 3 of us get along great, it's the best !

 

So I ask, since I never heard of such a thing, and then twice in one week,, is this a New Trend ? or have I just been in the dark ? ( you don't have to answer the last part)  LOL



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Posted on Fri, Dec 27, 2013 22:52

Fun with a twist



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Posted on Fri, Dec 27, 2013 18:05

This generation just doesnt want to commit and work together on issues. It's sad!



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Posted on Mon, Dec 23, 2013 14:24

Lol ray. Welcome to the dark side x

 



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Posted on Sun, Dec 22, 2013 09:41

Quoting 3345roc:

Yup, it's been a while,,, 3 or 4 years. I was curious to see if some of the old bloggers were still around and they are but very inactive.  The blogs were quite animated back then, and with all due respects to Brittany, when MM decide to assign a hall monitor they became a bit boring.

My view of opinions is that there is no right or wrong but if you and Diana delight in doing drive bys on each an every blog, have at it.  That was another reason the blogs started their descent.  There were a few people who felt compelled to make a comment on every comment on every bog and to make matters worse, their comments were humorless, pointless and thoughtless.

I feel that as long as big money is involved, politicians will continue to have two goals... get rich and get re-elected.  Soros is just one a many evils and these Leaderships Pacs have become petty cash for our pols to do with as they please..  

My lesser of two evils was the guy who wasn't in it for the money, and had some leadership and organizational skills.



Well Roc....it's hard to be as delightful a 'cut-up' as you are!  Never the less, I'm hardly on "every blog" but I will endeavor to reduce the number of drive bys in the future.  NOT!!!!  lolololo....*wink*. 



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Posted on Sun, Dec 22, 2013 09:32

Quoting Dakota35:

How can one define either in such a small description?  You can see right away that the definitions are flawed. Liberal: "freely giving money, time or other asset" yet this is excluded for the conservative def., just that one line proves my point.  I know liberals that wouldn't give a dime, I know conservatives that would give you the shirt off their back.  I know the Young Republicans go out and work on Habitat homes despite that being a liberal and race bias organization (not saying they don't do good).  The YR also go to local homeless shelters and feed the poor.  And I am not saying liberals don't do the same, I'm just saying that your def. are not totally correct and screams of spin and bias.  Or perhaps these definitions are what made you choose to be liberal...if so, find a new source for definitions.



Lolo....of course it "screams of spin and bias".  I picked out stuff that made my point.  Obviously there are always variables.  But go online and see what you come up with.  I was putting out a working definition so we all generally know what we're talking about.  Hah-ha!  (That was a joke).  :))



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Posted on Fri, Dec 20, 2013 14:36

Quoting 3345roc:

@Dak... "My friend, with all due respect, my credibility is secure on these blogs and in real life." 

"My friend"... now that's a stretch.  We don't know one another.  We are neither friends nor enemies.  We just disagree on the cause, morality and ethics regarding polyamory.

@Dak,@Diana...

.I think I can clear this up and get back on point regarding this blog subject.

 

I'm not certain, but assuming you both voted in the last Presidential election, did you vote for the....
        Free thinking, conservative, Democratic Candidate... or
        the free thinking, liberal, Republican candidate.?



Apparently you haven't been around these blogs in awhile.  Diana and I go at each other all the time in friendly debate.  Just trying to teach her right from wrong. :) You are correct, "we are neither friends nor enemies"  I keep course on my beliefs.  I voted for the lessor to two evils...does that answer your question? I voted against George Soros, the man that has cause suffering of the common people around the world, with his greedy financial schemes.  



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Posted on Fri, Dec 20, 2013 04:43

Quoting Diana3316:

My definitions are flawed????  I took them from Websters. 



How can one define either in such a small description?  You can see right away that the definitions are flawed. Liberal: "freely giving money, time or other asset" yet this is excluded for the conservative def., just that one line proves my point.  I know liberals that wouldn't give a dime, I know conservatives that would give you the shirt off their back.  I know the Young Republicans go out and work on Habitat homes despite that being a liberal and race bias organization (not saying they don't do good).  The YR also go to local homeless shelters and feed the poor.  And I am not saying liberals don't do the same, I'm just saying that your def. are not totally correct and screams of spin and bias.  Or perhaps these definitions are what made you choose to be liberal...if so, find a new source for definitions.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 23:07

Quoting Dakota35:

Your definitions are flawed.  Of course they would be.  Liberals are not evolving, they are simple revisiting a history of human error.

 

And just so you know, I'm not liberal or conservative.  To call me either would be a insult.  Just call me a free-thinker.



My definitions are flawed????  I took them from Websters. 



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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 22:42

Quoting Diana3316:

Quoting Dak:  Diana, you are full of it...Despite your liberal beliefs, I don't believe for a moment that you would share a man with another woman.  If I'm wrong, then I don't want to know.  Admit that you are secretly looking for a conservative guy that will just put up with your liberal views. *wink* :))

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Well…..I guess the first thing we have to understand is what the definitions of conservative vs liberal are.  I’ll spare you the entire cut and pastes, but these are some of the words you will find in online dictionaries to define the difference:

 

Conservative – adjective - Disposed to preserve existing conditions, institutions, etc., or to limit change.  Traditional in style or manner: avoiding novelty or showiness; Old-school; Unprogressive.

 

Liberal – adjective - Broad-minded: tolerant of different views and standards of behavior; Generous: freely giving money, time or some other asset; Unconventional; Progressive: not opposed to new ideas, not strict or exact.

 

 

Hmmm…while I understand that you were being totally glib in suggesting that I might want a conservative man…..after examining the difference in the two types…..you can see that it’s not possible.  I definitely want a man that gives generously……whether it’s his time, energy, heart, mind….but especially that ‘some other asset’ part.    *wink*   :)))



Your definitions are flawed.  Of course they would be.  Liberals are not evolving, they are simple revisiting a history of human error.

 

And just so you know, I'm not liberal or conservative.  To call me either would be a insult.  Just call me a free-thinker.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 17:22

Quoting Dak:  Diana, you are full of it...Despite your liberal beliefs, I don't believe for a moment that you would share a man with another woman.  If I'm wrong, then I don't want to know.  Admit that you are secretly looking for a conservative guy that will just put up with your liberal views. *wink* :))

*********************************************

 

Well…..I guess the first thing we have to understand is what the definitions of conservative vs liberal are.  I’ll spare you the entire cut and pastes, but these are some of the words you will find in online dictionaries to define the difference:

 

Conservative – adjective - Disposed to preserve existing conditions, institutions, etc., or to limit change.  Traditional in style or manner: avoiding novelty or showiness; Old-school; Unprogressive.

 

Liberal – adjective - Broad-minded: tolerant of different views and standards of behavior; Generous: freely giving money, time or some other asset; Unconventional; Progressive: not opposed to new ideas, not strict or exact.

 

 

Hmmm…while I understand that you were being totally glib in suggesting that I might want a conservative man…..after examining the difference in the two types…..you can see that it’s not possible.  I definitely want a man that gives generously……whether it’s his time, energy, heart, mind….but especially that ‘some other asset’ part.    *wink*   :)))



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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 16:58

Quoting 3345roc:

@ Dakota..." She's not a "man" she's a lady...and a nice lady at that.".

If you say so, but claiming a causal/source relationship between polyamory and liberalism is quite a stretch and diminishes your credibility.

 

@ Diana  "One thing is for sure....jealousy is a malevolent and useless emotion"

The same can be said about hatred and anger.  They serve no useful purpose and remind me of a Buddhist saying that likens it to drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.



My friend, with all due respect, my credibility is secure on these blogs and in real life. 



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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 16:26

I have no ideas what program your referring to. I was responding to the originakl post? And wow what a dirade, you really take this seriously. Peace!



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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 02:15

Quoting NGL2011:

@Irocas,,," I can assure you that, as an older man, my most intimate sexual fantansies involve just one woman... and that's what I dream about."   Amen Brother,, perfectly said !

 

@Tamm, " Young men do what old men only dream about"  not this old man,, no way no how !  LOL  I'm way to smart at this age for the disaster coming down that road !  LOL  Merry Christmas to you too.



Right there with you NGL.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 02:14

Quoting Diana3316:

Really?  Where do you think the country is headed Dak?  I thought you were a big believer in individual rights and the Constitution?  Doesn't it say something in there about the pursuit of happiness?  Is their lifestyle choice really affecting you and how many people you choose to share your bed with? 

 

PS:  Thanks for the words of advice.  I'll give it some thought!  *wink* :))

 

 



Yes, they are  "affecting" me.  It's a degradation of society and that has a effect on everyone.  Do you think these people keep all their activities behind closed doors?  Hell no, these people crave attention and will broadcast it to everyone that agree or disagree.  And young people are very impressionable.   But I've come to the conclusion that it will not stop until crap hits the fan.  Kind of like when all the politicians prayed together when the WTC fell.  People run to God when times get hard and they try to do right, but forget God when everythings is good.

 

I want to give a little praise to Phil Robertson (Duck Dynasty), I didn't read everything he said, so I may not agree with everything, but I sure agree with what I've read.  I don't watch the show as it's just not my type of thing, but I'm a little more of a fan now.  A&E has it wrong if they think viewers will turn against this guy for his remarks, they apparently don't know the Duck Dynasty fan base. LOL

 

And Obama really seeks peace in the world as it's clear to see by his decision to send two openly gay athletes to the Sochi Olympic games.  A slap in face of Russia.  Nice job puppet of George Soros.  I don't agree with mistreating anyone because they are gay or lesbian, but these people have a tendency to shove their sexual preference lives in our face.  Both these athletes could have gone to Sochi without announcing it to the world...clearly a move only to aggravate and anger the Russians.  And I don't want to anger the Russians as I have a secret obsession with their incredibly hot women. :-)

 

Diana, you are full of it...Despite your liberal beliefs, I don't believe for a moment that you would share a man with another woman.  If I'm wrong, then I don't want to know.  Admit that you are secretly looking for a conservative guy that will just put up with your liberal views. *wink* :))



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 21:27

Quoting Dakota35:

This is where the country is headed due to liberalism.  How can it be healthy for a woman to share a man and bed with another woman.  Diana, if you think it's okay, then maybe that would be a option for you?


Really?  Where do you think the country is headed Dak?  I thought you were a big believer in individual rights and the Constitution?  Doesn't it say something in there about the pursuit of happiness?  Is their lifestyle choice really affecting you.... and/or how many people you choose to share your bed with? 

 

PS:  Thanks for the words of advice.  I'll give it some thought!  *wink* :))

 

 



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 18:45

Quoting Tammila:

I am asumming one of the girls is a lesbian and the othe girl is bysexual or by curious. And the guy is thanking his lucky stars and praying to whatever God he belives in that this never ends..haha! Young men do what old men only dream about. Merry Christmas



@Irocas,,," I can assure you that, as an older man, my most intimate sexual fantansies involve just one woman... and that's what I dream about."   Amen Brother,, perfectly said !

 

@Tamm, " Young men do what old men only dream about"  not this old man,, no way no how !  LOL  I'm way to smart at this age for the disaster coming down that road !  LOL  Merry Christmas to you too.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 16:40

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Sorry man, but I don't remember you.  Occasional lapses in memory are normal as you age.  Luckily they are infrequent, however, if they become more frequent it could be an indication of something more serious.

I've been kicked off of this site more times than I care to admit.  Back then we had a few men who thought they were God's gift to women.  One of them had a super over inflated ego that also proved to be very fragile.  When taken to task he ran, crying, to the Blog police and I was kicked off.  I received an overwhelming amount of support from both men and women bloggers and when he was exposed as a scammer I was invited to rejoin the site.

Polygyny has been around since biblical times.  It's not some f*cked up new age fad.  Polyamory just gives women equal rights and many relationships are comprised of one woman and two or more men.   Polyamory means many loves just like polyester means many esters.

I don't believe that there is a universal morality.  Devout Christians believe that any sexual act, outside the institution of a monogamous marriage, is immoral.  Are any of us on this site moral by that definition?

As long as no one is being harmed in any way, who am I to judge.



She's not a "man" she's a lady...and a nice lady at that.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 16:37

Quoting Diana3316:

I think it amounts to youthful exploration and experimentation.  Young people today are way more open minded and tolerant of different human behaviors or ideas than the older generation is.  Sometimes they think they invented these ideas, but don't know what they don't know.

 

When my son was in high school he didn't date any one girl much, but just rather hung out/went out in groups....boys and girls.  Me??  I went 'steady' with just one guy.  Who knows....maybe more relationship experience will make the next generation better decision makers then we were, when it comes to marriage and raising a family.

 

One thing is for sure....jealousy is a malevolent and useless emotion.



This is where the country is headed due to liberalism.  How can it be healthy for a woman to share a man and bed with another woman.  Diana, if you think it's okay, then maybe that would be a option for you?



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 06:41

I am asumming one of the girls is a lesbian and the othe girl is bysexual or by curious. And the guy is thanking his lucky stars and praying to whatever God he belives in that this never ends..haha! Young men do what old men only dream about. Merry Christmas



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