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Posted on Thu, Dec 19, 2013 02:14

Quoting Diana3316:

Really?  Where do you think the country is headed Dak?  I thought you were a big believer in individual rights and the Constitution?  Doesn't it say something in there about the pursuit of happiness?  Is their lifestyle choice really affecting you and how many people you choose to share your bed with? 

 

PS:  Thanks for the words of advice.  I'll give it some thought!  *wink* :))

 

 



Yes, they are  "affecting" me.  It's a degradation of society and that has a effect on everyone.  Do you think these people keep all their activities behind closed doors?  Hell no, these people crave attention and will broadcast it to everyone that agree or disagree.  And young people are very impressionable.   But I've come to the conclusion that it will not stop until crap hits the fan.  Kind of like when all the politicians prayed together when the WTC fell.  People run to God when times get hard and they try to do right, but forget God when everythings is good.

 

I want to give a little praise to Phil Robertson (Duck Dynasty), I didn't read everything he said, so I may not agree with everything, but I sure agree with what I've read.  I don't watch the show as it's just not my type of thing, but I'm a little more of a fan now.  A&E has it wrong if they think viewers will turn against this guy for his remarks, they apparently don't know the Duck Dynasty fan base. LOL

 

And Obama really seeks peace in the world as it's clear to see by his decision to send two openly gay athletes to the Sochi Olympic games.  A slap in face of Russia.  Nice job puppet of George Soros.  I don't agree with mistreating anyone because they are gay or lesbian, but these people have a tendency to shove their sexual preference lives in our face.  Both these athletes could have gone to Sochi without announcing it to the world...clearly a move only to aggravate and anger the Russians.  And I don't want to anger the Russians as I have a secret obsession with their incredibly hot women. :-)

 

Diana, you are full of it...Despite your liberal beliefs, I don't believe for a moment that you would share a man with another woman.  If I'm wrong, then I don't want to know.  Admit that you are secretly looking for a conservative guy that will just put up with your liberal views. *wink* :))



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 21:27

Quoting Dakota35:

This is where the country is headed due to liberalism.  How can it be healthy for a woman to share a man and bed with another woman.  Diana, if you think it's okay, then maybe that would be a option for you?


Really?  Where do you think the country is headed Dak?  I thought you were a big believer in individual rights and the Constitution?  Doesn't it say something in there about the pursuit of happiness?  Is their lifestyle choice really affecting you.... and/or how many people you choose to share your bed with? 

 

PS:  Thanks for the words of advice.  I'll give it some thought!  *wink* :))

 

 



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 18:45

Quoting Tammila:

I am asumming one of the girls is a lesbian and the othe girl is bysexual or by curious. And the guy is thanking his lucky stars and praying to whatever God he belives in that this never ends..haha! Young men do what old men only dream about. Merry Christmas



@Irocas,,," I can assure you that, as an older man, my most intimate sexual fantansies involve just one woman... and that's what I dream about."   Amen Brother,, perfectly said !

 

@Tamm, " Young men do what old men only dream about"  not this old man,, no way no how !  LOL  I'm way to smart at this age for the disaster coming down that road !  LOL  Merry Christmas to you too.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 16:40

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Sorry man, but I don't remember you.  Occasional lapses in memory are normal as you age.  Luckily they are infrequent, however, if they become more frequent it could be an indication of something more serious.

I've been kicked off of this site more times than I care to admit.  Back then we had a few men who thought they were God's gift to women.  One of them had a super over inflated ego that also proved to be very fragile.  When taken to task he ran, crying, to the Blog police and I was kicked off.  I received an overwhelming amount of support from both men and women bloggers and when he was exposed as a scammer I was invited to rejoin the site.

Polygyny has been around since biblical times.  It's not some f*cked up new age fad.  Polyamory just gives women equal rights and many relationships are comprised of one woman and two or more men.   Polyamory means many loves just like polyester means many esters.

I don't believe that there is a universal morality.  Devout Christians believe that any sexual act, outside the institution of a monogamous marriage, is immoral.  Are any of us on this site moral by that definition?

As long as no one is being harmed in any way, who am I to judge.



She's not a "man" she's a lady...and a nice lady at that.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 16:37

Quoting Diana3316:

I think it amounts to youthful exploration and experimentation.  Young people today are way more open minded and tolerant of different human behaviors or ideas than the older generation is.  Sometimes they think they invented these ideas, but don't know what they don't know.

 

When my son was in high school he didn't date any one girl much, but just rather hung out/went out in groups....boys and girls.  Me??  I went 'steady' with just one guy.  Who knows....maybe more relationship experience will make the next generation better decision makers then we were, when it comes to marriage and raising a family.

 

One thing is for sure....jealousy is a malevolent and useless emotion.



This is where the country is headed due to liberalism.  How can it be healthy for a woman to share a man and bed with another woman.  Diana, if you think it's okay, then maybe that would be a option for you?



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 09:16

Quoting Tammila:

I am asumming one of the girls is a lesbian and the othe girl is bysexual or by curious. And the guy is thanking his lucky stars and praying to whatever God he belives in that this never ends..haha! Young men do what old men only dream about. Merry Christmas


While it's a common belief that men are more sexually oriented than women the truth that women are by far the stronger of the species when it comes to sex and intimacy, has been known for some time now.  Unlike man, a woman's anatomy has parts that serve only one useful purpose... sex.  Women have twice as many nerve endings in their genitalia than men do and their orgasms are more intense,involve their entire bodies, last longer and can happen in mulitples.  While men do fantasize about threesomes and many participate I can assure you that, as an older man, my most intimate sexual fantansies involve just one woman... and that's what I dream about.

None of the women that were featured in the program I referenced were lesbians but a few were bisexual.  None of the men were gay or bisexual and most of the couplings occurred between a man and a woman.

These folks were not kids in their teens or early 20s who were just experimenting with sex.  There were no rainbow parties and no gang bangs.  I don't know how long these sort of unions can last but those involved were in their 30s to 40s, they seemed quite mature and intelligent and their decision to participate was motivated by far more than just the sexual aspects of the relationships.  They seemed quite happy.

At least that's what I observed.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 06:41

I am asumming one of the girls is a lesbian and the othe girl is bysexual or by curious. And the guy is thanking his lucky stars and praying to whatever God he belives in that this never ends..haha! Young men do what old men only dream about. Merry Christmas



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Posted on Tue, Dec 17, 2013 21:44

I think it amounts to youthful exploration and experimentation.  Young people today are way more open minded and tolerant of different human behaviors or ideas than the older generation is.  Sometimes they think they invented these ideas, but don't know what they don't know.

 

When my son was in high school he didn't date any one girl much, but just rather hung out/went out in groups....boys and girls.  Me??  I went 'steady' with just one guy.  Who knows....maybe more relationship experience will make the next generation better decision makers then we were, when it comes to marriage and raising a family.

 

One thing is for sure....jealousy is a malevolent and useless emotion.



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Posted on Mon, Dec 16, 2013 08:33

Quoting Curious2078:

Good God.  Irocas!  Well, I can't say whether I'm happy to see you on here or not.  You gave me one hell of a lot of trouble before the last time you were kicked off.  Hopefully, this time, now that you're out of Pennsylvania [and somewhere down south where the weather is warmer] you won't feel the need to pounce on me with insults. 

 

Whatever, so far it's nice to see you.  When you weren't insulting the heck out of one or another of us, you were always an intelligent and interesting addition to the blogs.  So far.....so far indeed....glad to see you back.  Whether or not I'll cointinue to feel that way remains to be seen.  N'est pas???


Sorry man, but I don't remember you.  Occasional lapses in memory are normal as you age.  Luckily they are infrequent, however, if they become more frequent it could be an indication of something more serious.

I've been kicked off of this site more times than I care to admit.  Back then we had a few men who thought they were God's gift to women.  One of them had a super over inflated ego that also proved to be very fragile.  When taken to task he ran, crying, to the Blog police and I was kicked off.  I received an overwhelming amount of support from both men and women bloggers and when he was exposed as a scammer I was invited to rejoin the site.

Polygyny has been around since biblical times.  It's not some f*cked up new age fad.  Polyamory just gives women equal rights and many relationships are comprised of one woman and two or more men.   Polyamory means many loves just like polyester means many esters.

I don't believe that there is a universal morality.  Devout Christians believe that any sexual act, outside the institution of a monogamous marriage, is immoral.  Are any of us on this site moral by that definition?

As long as no one is being harmed in any way, who am I to judge.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 19:43

Quoting 3345roc:

Hi Ray,

 

Good to see some of the oldtime Bloggers still around.  Polyamory has been around for some time.  I think there's even a cable show that highlights polyamorous relationships.

 

(formerly irocas)



Good God.  Irocas!  Well, I can't say whether I'm happy to see you on here or not.  You gave me one hell of a lot of trouble before the last time you were kicked off.  Hopefully, this time, now that you're out of Pennsylvania [and somewhere down south where the weather is warmer] you won't feel the need to pounce on me with insults. 

 

Whatever, so far it's nice to see you.  When you weren't insulting the heck out of one or another of us, you were always an intelligent and interesting addition to the blogs.  So far.....so far indeed....glad to see you back.  Whether or not I'll cointinue to feel that way remains to be seen.  N'est pas???



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 19:38

Quoting Dakota35:

Just some F'ed up people without morals.  Sorry but that's just how I feel.  I'm sure that kind of thing has been going on for a long time, but it doesn't make it right.  Another sign of the times.

 

Actually there a 2 women on this site, that are together, that are looking for a guy.  That's either heaven, hell, or a little of both.  I have a difficult enough time when I have one woman in my life, I can't imagine them ganging up against me.  Talk about never winning a argument and constant dehydration.



Poor baby.  I hope you never wind up in the situation you're describing. 

 

F'ed up people without morals indeed!!! 



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 19:33

To 3345 Roc:  Like Sarah said, there's some big self-esteem issues going on here.  And the issues are with the women who would put up with this crap.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 19:32

All I can say, Ray, is this is screwed up indeed.  New Age or any other newism?  It's screwed up to the max.  If this is what the younger generation thinks is cool, then I think the younger generation needs to be "fixed" in a big way.  Yikes Almighty.  This sucks big time.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 17:17

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Lol where I come from that's messed up! Lol I really can't see how people like that are truly happy. If it was two guys and a girl. Would the guy put up with that? I wonder... I think there is a big issue with girls having low self esteem.  

Sarah 



Thanks you Sarah, I'm glad to see that other parts of the world still have morals.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 15:36

Quoting MissMonteCarlo:

Lol where I come from that's messed up! Lol I really can't see how people like that are truly happy. If it was two guys and a girl. Would the guy put up with that? I wonder... I think there is a big issue with girls having low self esteem.  

Sarah 


Hi Sarah,
Britain actually ranks pretty high when it comes to sexual deviants.  Consider Henry the 8th, a perv with 6 wives who never satisfied him.. so he killed them.  James Joyce enjoyed flatulating in his partners face during sex.  His work is literally littered with his obsession with f*rting.... and then there's Alister Crowley who founded a cult like religion based upon sex.
I don't know whether these polyamorous relationships will last for the long haul but the people who were interviewed seemed happy and the men who shared one woman seemed to have their egos in check.  Physiologically 2 men and 1 woman makes a hell of a lot more sense than vice versa ... but I still a one on one kinda guy.
... again, who am I to judge.



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 09:09

Lol where I come from that's messed up! Lol I really can't see how people like that are truly happy. If it was two guys and a girl. Would the guy put up with that? I wonder... I think there is a big issue with girls having low self esteem.  

Sarah 



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Posted on Sat, Dec 14, 2013 06:00

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Hey Iro,, long time ! yes unfortunately I'm still hanging around..LOL

 

@Dak,, I'm quite sure I don't understand it. But I think thats because in situations of the heart,, I don't share well. I do wonder about some relationships these days. (shaking my head at this one)



To each, his own.  Who am I to judge?  I watched some shows where polyamorous trios (both 2M+1F and 1M+2F) were interviewed and they seemd very happy with the arrangement and explained why it was preferable for them and it was not all about the sex.  I'm not certain that they would be long lasting unions.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 13, 2013 10:29

One of the places I worked, several women, recent college grads, and one young man all lived together.  Claimed it was all just a place to live for all of them. 

 

Never was sure how much of that I believed.

 

First long lonely weekend with only one she and he there? 

 

Both just happening not to have dates?

 

 

RMac

 



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Posted on Fri, Dec 13, 2013 05:47

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Hey Iro,, long time ! yes unfortunately I'm still hanging around..LOL

 

@Dak,, I'm quite sure I don't understand it. But I think thats because in situations of the heart,, I don't share well. I do wonder about some relationships these days. (shaking my head at this one)



That kind of situation is not one of the heart.  It's either lust or confusion and will never work long term.

 



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Posted on Thu, Dec 12, 2013 17:29

Quoting 3345roc:

Hi Ray,

 

Good to see some of the oldtime Bloggers still around.  Polyamory has been around for some time.  I think there's even a cable show that highlights polyamorous relationships.

 

(formerly irocas)



Hey Iro,, long time ! yes unfortunately I'm still hanging around..LOL

 

@Dak,, I'm quite sure I don't understand it. But I think thats because in situations of the heart,, I don't share well. I do wonder about some relationships these days. (shaking my head at this one)



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