It's really kind of disturbing but also really sad that every person on this website is after the ideal partner. For starters if it were that easy would you have resorted to a dating website? I mean, I'm just here to meet new friends but I seem to be hampered by the fact I'm not "petite" or "slim" and I definately don't think I'm "hot" or "very good-looking"! But... I'm only here to meet friends. So I just wonder why looks are so important to people when... well, it hurts people's feelings?