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Posted on Sun, Feb 23, 2014 11:59

If you're dating online, there's a tricky situation you should know about... And it's even important to you if you're
NOT dating online!

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Question from a Reader:
GET OFF THE DATING SITES...?

I have been dating a great guy for 1month. He says and does all the right things and appears to be very in to me.
He is very consistent with his texts andcalling patterns. I only return histexts and calls, very seldom initiate any call or text.

It does not appear that he is seeing anyone else. I speak with him almost every evening that we are not together.
We see each other twice per week. However, I do see that he is on a dating site ‘shopping’ or looking or something.
I am on the same site and when I go to his online profile he is online every few days. I am doing the same thing I
suppose but mostly to see if he is on.

I really like him and do not want to see other men. I am meeting others however no one is comparing to him and what we
have. I am likely engaging in more flirtatious activity than he is. I want an exclusive relationship with him prior to sex of course.

He may bring up being exclusive before I do but how do I bring up the online dating site shopping if he still continues after we are ‘exclusive’? Or do I mention it when I say that I only have a sexual relationship in an exclusive relationship? I do not want him to know I am spying on him because he would find this stalker-ish. What should I say when the sex/exclusive talk
comes up which will be really soon?….

I also feel odd about saying that I don’t think he or I are ready for exclusivity since we are on track with a really great dating relationship. I feel if I say that I am not ready for exclusivity he will either think its a game or that I am a player. When we areout I tend to get alot of attention and ....

 

 



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Posted on Wed, Mar 05, 2014 09:02

Quoting Euro2016:

Be honest with him and tell him how you really feel..Its time us women step up and put these men in there place; we are not toys we are women with feelings....If merriage is not a thought then why are people in realtionship???I got divorced last yr; after 24 yrs of marriage,,and this single life is crazy..Most of the men I have met ,,think they are so much better then women ,,who in the hell do some men think they are?? Sweet heart tell him how you feel and if he dosent resept your feelings  leave his ass..Men look at women like a sport... it sickens me...Women are to quike to give their power away to a man..Dont give your power away



Men love toys.  Women are not toys?  When did that happen?  Could you pretend to be?... we're really that simple.  LOL



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Posted on Thu, Feb 27, 2014 03:51

For demographic information. American  women... were asking... interesting situation



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Posted on Thu, Feb 27, 2014 03:48

I find that people do not read very well... people keep commenting that children are involved... well th Lady has three children. Although the woman herself is 36 going onto 37...

Nieve maybe... although there are hundreds of WOMEN over 21 have similar questions. hay.. i just placed this here..

Mmmmmmmm... the comments about children and dating sites... that is another hole ball game and kettle of fish..

 

Just intersting the comments about kids on dating sites.. then if that happens.. That is the parents responsibility.. As they are under age..



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Posted on Wed, Feb 26, 2014 10:27

Quoting mysterymastery:

I agree. Although what has children go to do with my blog.. This was a thirty six yearold woman.



Chronologically, emotionally she's still in high school.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 24, 2014 17:17

I agree. Although what has children go to do with my blog.. This was a thirty six yearold woman.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 24, 2014 16:15

Jenk & Roc,

 

I'm simply ROTFL..... this is soooo funny. Roc - I do like your take on the fact that these sites ain't for minors! Refer them to their parents... the scenario is way funny...lol. What on earth is this?

 

 

Liv.

 



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Posted on Mon, Feb 24, 2014 14:24

Children in high school should not be on these dating sites ... they're for adults.  I would tell her to ask her parents.  

 

Adults don't overthink these issues, they just deal with them.  Trust is a major cornerstone of a relationship.  It's your choice to remove your profile and it's his choice to remove his.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 24, 2014 14:03

Quoting mysterymastery:

With intergrity ... pure and simple

No games, no BS.. no gossiping.. all with integrity

As you are only as good as your word...you cannot control others words or thoughts ... you can only be responsible and control your intergity.

Then i also ask you... why take that presious time to read these bloggs then, when you clearly stat you are not interested?

 


If you are directing your question at me then my answer would be a question. How would I know that I am not interested in your blog if I do not read the content first?  I read the content and came to the conclusion that I'm not interested.   Take what I type with a grain of salt please.  I asked you to answer the questions yourself so as a reader, I would know how you stand on it.  If other posters also answer your questions, it may get more interesting.  

 

 

Feel free to post whatever, I will also feel free to post my 2 cents. Okay?



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Posted on Sun, Feb 23, 2014 18:58

With intergrity ... pure and simple

No games, no BS.. no gossiping.. all with integrity

As you are only as good as your word...you cannot control others words or thoughts ... you can only be responsible and control your intergity.

Then i also ask you... why take that presious time to read these bloggs then, when you clearly stat you are not interested?

 



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Posted on Sun, Feb 23, 2014 16:15

Are you playing Dear Abby for onliners?  I don't understand why you are using a blog here to refer to stranger's problems.  No offense but I'm not into surveys or this type of stuff.  You are not even using the friend of a friend theory which some people tend to hide behind. Turning your question back to you, the poster. How would YOU handle it?



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Posted on Sun, Feb 23, 2014 12:16

andI see that he does not like it.

He wants me all to himself which I like.
We are both in the entertainment biz and are used to alot of craziness so I do not want to be perceived as any of that.
Thought on what to say and/ or how to bring up the dating site shopping?

Thanks you so much.

Chris in Malibu, CA
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Chris, your situation is probably way more common than you think...

I actually ran into this situation with Jen, and she handled it in JUST the right way.

I've got to have a session of BRUTALHONESTY™ with you.

1) You want him off the dating site, but you're still on.

Hmm...

2) You say: "I am doing the same thing I suppose but mostly to see if he is on."

Hmmm....

3) You say: "I do not want him to know I am spying on him because he would find this stalker-ish."

Even though you think it's "stalker-ish" you're stil...

 

Can you read all this?

Do you know what is happening?

Do you feel this is similar in your on line dating?

How would you handle this?

 



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