Is that true, that someone can recall, detailed, what happened certain day In a similar line we may ask: Is it possible to count what you did for me and what I did for you since our relationship begun? Or worst: What you did not do because of me.

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All these are impossible recounts, and no matter this fact many couples insist on these, therefore the recount becomes absurd and wearing away, too.

Our memory hasn¿t the capacity to preserve all the information through the years. The context gets lost easily in our memory, and without it, it¿s almost impossible to give the right and just interpretation to what the other said, to what the other did.

And let me tell you that this is this way even if you recount with the best intention, not to say if you don¿t.

Our mind suggests not going on with something that is impossible. Our heart demands to avoid absurd and unjust discussions to our relationship, especially considering that these impossible recounts come up in a crisis.¿

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There are two remedies: Never leave a problem without remedy. Try to speak about it at the moment or at the first opportunity. When things are solved on time, the trash can remains empty. But if you did not solve on time, the only remedy will be to discuss according to current circumstances, feelings and perspectives.

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I know, we are attracted to recounts. Let us, at least, understand that those are impossible, absurd and most of the times unjust.
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Is that true, that someone can recall, detailed, what happened certain day In a similar line we may ask: Is it possible to count what you did for me and what I did for you since our relationship begun? Or worst: What you did not do because of me.

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All these are impossible recounts, and no matter this fact many couples insist on these, therefore the recount becomes absurd and wearing away, too.

Our memory hasn¿t the capacity to preserve all the information through the years. The context gets lost easily in our memory, and without it, it¿s almost impossible to give the right and just interpretation to what the other said, to what the other did.

And let me tell you that this is this way even if you recount with the best intention, not to say if you don¿t.

Our mind suggests not going on with something that is impossible. Our heart demands to avoid absurd and unjust discussions to our relationship, especially considering that these impossible recounts come up in a crisis.¿

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There are two remedies: Never leave a problem without remedy. Try to speak about it at the moment or at the first opportunity. When things are solved on time, the trash can remains empty. But if you did not solve on time, the only remedy will be to discuss according to current circumstances, feelings and perspectives.

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I know, we are attracted to recounts. Let us, at least, understand that those are impossible, absurd and most of the times unjust.
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