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Posted on Fri, Mar 28, 2014 03:24

I hope I don't stir up too much with this, but I have to say a few things here... A lot of my gf's have a similar complaint among them...

 

If there's chemistry, it's usually hot and heavy at the beginning, but as all things do, things cool down.  Problem is men usually say as a pat answer that they can satisfy a woman, but they dabble.

 

...Lick, lick, squeeze, squeeze, poke, poke...then they can't take it anymore.  ...They get so worked up they have to eventually run for the border and finish up, and because we may squeal abit, they think they're king of the hill, when we're just getting started.  

 

Some only do what they perceive makes us feel good and they gage what they think is a necessary time limit until they can get theirs and get done.  I'm not saying all, but not many men savor the experience and are even genuinely interested in how we really tick and are genuinely willing to really find out, or even want to experience it as long as they can before they themselves climax.  

 

Soooo many of my gf's don't want it anymore because there's nothing in it for them and they realize that there never was from the beginning!  I've heard these comments hundreds of times.  In my experience, I have to agree.  

 

We all can gets sparks flying, but control and interest in another's anatomy and how it works should be a priority and a genuine want, not a duty to come across as being a considerate lover. 

 

And, to the host of this question... We'd want to keep up with the frequent intimacies, even initiate them more, if the man would learn how to make love to a woman with genuine interest, instead of just for a testosterone filled ride all the time.  And, yes...it goes both ways, for sure.

 

In my personal opinion ...both sexes who indulge in frivolous sex with unknown partners (one night stands, unemotional) or partners who they could care less about (unemotional), and/or too much masturbation (self satisfaction) outside of emotionally connected relationships can be a huge culprit in never learning how to connect with a another human being or wanting to.

 

We end up being the victim of our hormones and what we consciously or unconsciously condition ourselves to be, do, have.  Realizing how we personally function and conduct ourselves should be the starting point for correcting our behaviors.  It seems to me that we all want ...what we all want.  But, do we look past the passionate calling of hormones to ask ourselves if we really are decent lovers at the end of the day?

 

For women, again in my opinion... give us the time to warm up (as you've heard a million times before) being genuinely interested and proactive in arousing us for longer than a few seconds at each body part you grab, flick or poke at, and maybe, unless you're not a genuine piece of shit of a human being...we'll be running back for more!  

 

...And, that doesn't mean you have to work us over until you have lock jaw!  There's all kinds of ways and tools (lol) to help you out! (And, that could help men with erectile dysfunction or small penises, too.). ...Just get into it for OUR sake once in a while and get into the wonder of our bodies, instead of just until you've had enough.  And, just because we squeal for a bit doesn't mean we got ours!  ...GET THAT!

 

...Marvel at the evolution of all we can exude in the process of your explorations as part of your plan of attack!  

 

...Satisfy us!  And, talk to us in and out of bed.  Make us feel like you care, that we are wanted, important, loved, cherished...in bed, and WE MIGHT PUT UP WITH ANYTHING out of bed!  

 

I could bet most of us gals wouldn't be such 'bitches' if we weren't frustrated!  ...A few hours a week of real emotionally connected sexual play thrown in with random quickies would change the entire mood of a household.  Lol

 

Just a few thoughts.  (Omg...don't kill me here.  Please. Lol)

 



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Posted on Fri, Mar 21, 2014 10:19

Quoting rmac22:


I never grew up, don’t plan to.  I still want to be a fireman when I grow up.  Now that I know that the ladies have a thing for them; well, …….

 



Rmac, that's my plan as well.  When you grow up, you could be a fireman...or you could just pretend to be one on a video.  Seems to work just as well.  :-)



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Posted on Fri, Mar 21, 2014 08:30

Quoting Dakota35:

It's funny because I don't feel like a grown-up yet, either.  Just wondering how many out there still feel like a kid, or feel like they are not fully a grown-up. :-)  

 

Not long ago, I climbed a tree and was hanging using my hands and feet.  The limb broke and I landed on the ground flat on my back.  I may have some kid left in me, but I have the weight of an adult. LOL

 

 




I never grew up, don’t plan to.  I still want to be a fireman when I grow up.  Now that I know that the ladies have a thing for them; well, …….

 



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Posted on Fri, Mar 14, 2014 14:30

Quoting Jenkneee:

Lol, see!  Even manly men can appreciate my crushes although I will always be loyal to my main crush, my Sauza fireman.  

 

  In reference to the teenager comment you made.  Someone close to me once said, "As we get older we just become more of what we are". You can take that a few different ways but what I was in general as a teenager, I still am that but with life experiences I'm just more wise :)

 

 



I think that, as we get older we learn how to act properly in public, but we're all kids at heart.  Never lose your inner child.  I can honestly say that at my advanced age the things I like to do are the same things I enjoyed as a kid.  Food, family and fun.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 14, 2014 12:19

Quoting Dakota35:

It's funny because I don't feel like a grown-up yet, either.  Just wondering how many out there still feel like a kid, or feel like they are not fully a grown-up. :-)  

 

Not long ago, I climbed a tree and was hanging using my hands and feet.  The limb broke and I landed on the ground flat on my back.  I may have some kid left in me, but I have the weight of an adult. LOL

 

 



I would have liked to have seen you swinging off the tree :)  Glad you weren't hurt!  

 

As for me, I'm a klutz, always have been, always will be.  Gracefulness is something I am unfamiliar with.  Isn't being graceful boring though?

 

This isn't my photo but guess which one I would be.

 

 

 

 


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Posted on Fri, Mar 14, 2014 09:55

Quoting Jenkneee:

Lol, see!  Even manly men can appreciate my crushes although I will always be loyal to my main crush, my Sauza fireman.  

 

  In reference to the teenager comment you made.  Someone close to me once said, "As we get older we just become more of what we are". You can take that a few different ways but what I was in general as a teenager, I still am that but with life experiences I'm just more wise :)

 

 



It's funny because I don't feel like a grown-up yet, either.  Just wondering how many out there still feel like a kid, or feel like they are not fully a grown-up. :-)  

 

Not long ago, I climbed a tree and was hanging using my hands and feet.  The limb broke and I landed on the ground flat on my back.  I may have some kid left in me, but I have the weight of an adult. LOL

 

 



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Posted on Fri, Mar 14, 2014 07:14

Totally agree!! 

 



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Posted on Fri, Mar 14, 2014 07:13

I totally agree with that, as we grow more mature, we become aware of different pleasures in sexual matters. 



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Posted on Fri, Mar 14, 2014 00:14

Yep!  It's ladies nite in! All 12 of the bevy.....Waiting for that quench...Of the fire......BEEJUWAPPPPPPP...You won't tell my wife,now...How bout' the other 11 I brought....Calendar time...Yep! You'll be in it! Lot's 'A' fish!



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 23:39

Quoting Dakota35:

Okay, the sausages in the pan is just to much.  Come on.  But I must admit I like him better than the fireman.  Oh wait, I'm a guy...I don't like either one. :-)



Lol, see!  Even manly men can appreciate my crushes although I will always be loyal to my main crush, my Sauza fireman.  

 

  In reference to the teenager comment you made.  Someone close to me once said, "As we get older we just become more of what we are". You can take that a few different ways but what I was in general as a teenager, I still am that but with life experiences I'm just more wise :)

 

 



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 21:42

Quoting Jenkneee:

I have to say the Zesty guy is running a very close second. Give me someone who knows his way around food and the seduction begins :)  Is it hot in here?

 

Video title; 

Kraft Zesty Dressing TVC with shirtless hunk video gone viral

 



Okay, the sausages in the pan is just to much.  Come on.  But I must admit I like him better than the fireman.  Oh wait, I'm a guy...I don't like either one. :-)



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 16:58

Quoting Jenkneee:

I have to say the Zesty guy is running a very close second. Give me someone who knows his way around food and the seduction begins :)  Is it hot in here?


You are so smitten with the Souza Blue Tequila fireman guy. LOL  

 

Jenkneee, I think there's still a little teenager left in you.  :-)  Which is great.

 

   



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 14:49

I have to say the Zesty guy is running a very close second. Give me someone who knows his way around food and the seduction begins :)  Is it hot in here?

 

Video title; 

Kraft Zesty Dressing TVC with shirtless hunk video gone viral

 



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 12:53

Quoting Diana3316:

Well I was befuddled right from the start.....but wanted to leave the hatchet job to someone better equipped.  *wink*

 

Never the less....the million dollar question:  What seduces a woman's mind?  How do you set the hook???

 

NO Dak!!! I am NOT signing up for your study!  *wink*  :))



I should read the "setting the hook" blog to see if there is any advice on there for me but if the question is how does a man seduce a woman, I would rather not type too much about it since the man who will seduce me already exists. I just need to find him.  So far I found him in a commercial, unfortinately it only last about 2 minutes.

 

 

I will say/type this though. If a man is more of a patriot and agrees with me on most of my political views, then he has at least started the seduction. If he understands that walking in heels is hard, he has started the seduction. If he speaks in French and says whatever because I don't understand French, but who cares because it just sounds sooo good, he has started the seduction.

 

 

Souza Blue Tequila fireman video.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwWnIhFd8gA



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 11:21

Quoting Jenkneee:

Count me in as one who knows!

 

 


How to seduce a woman's mind....

 

Rule 1.  Confirm that she has one.  If yes, remember that she's probably smarter than you.

 

Rule 2.  Ensure you have one, It's mandatory or you don't stand a chance.

 

Rule 3.  Remember that every woman is unique and this includes her mind.

 

Rule 4.  Have a sense of humor.  Try to get to know her.  Be yourself

 

If that fails... move on, you have no chance.

 

@ Diana... Well I was befuddled right from the start.....but wanted to leave the hatchet job to someone better equipped.  *wink*

 

I am licensed to carry... an opinion.  I try to use it judiciously.



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 09:28

Quoting Jenkneee:

Count me in as one who knows!

 

 



Hey Jenkneee,

 

I believe as women mature, they become more aware of this.  I'd like to know at what age a woman realizes that it takes more than just a fling to satisfy her?

 

Some women don't have minds to seduce. :)  Luckily those women don't inhabit these blogs.



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Posted on Thu, Mar 13, 2014 09:20

Quoting Diana3316:

Well I was befuddled right from the start.....but wanted to leave the hatchet job to someone better equipped.  *wink*

 

Never the less....the million dollar question:  What seduces a woman's mind?  How do you set the hook???

 

NO Dak!!! I am NOT signing up for your study!  *wink*  :))



"Never the less....the million dollar question:  What seduces a woman's mind?  How do you set the hook???"  I believe all women are different, so what one woman likes, another may not.  I have a pretty good idea of how to "set the hook" but I'm to damn dumb to use it.  Plus, I'm not a player, I just need one good woman, so it's not in my nature to play games.  But I've experimented and studied enough to know how.

 

 "NO Dak!!! I am NOT signing up for your study!  *wink*  :))"  Well darn it, I have this experimental injectable that I've been wanting to try.  It's suppose to make if feel like the first time. :-)  Wasn't that a Foreigner song?  I'm sure you think I'm BS'ing, about the injectable, but I'm 100% for real.  Works on both men and women.  Not like Viagra, it works through neurological pathways. It's not some sex store concoction, but real science and million dollar labs behind the stuff.  Finding things like this is what happens when a guy get's no dates or sex.  LOL Am I to old to become a monk?  



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Posted on Wed, Mar 12, 2014 23:48

WOMEN.....OF COURSE....LOL



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Posted on Wed, Mar 12, 2014 21:44

Quoting leonicvirgo:

I can tell you now, that 7 was symbolic of completion. As to the task of pleasing a woman, I'll agree that the typical married man must sharpen up. We always seek that mutual orgasssss(Leonease) stuff, but there are trigger points a woman needs switched, at times. Chat clitanglement(Leonease) on another blog get's to the oh, so sensative aspect of imersive passion with the woman.

Pisces are very passionate,as are the water sign's. The fires(Aries,Leo,Sag)have very passionate approaches to lovemaking. These usually mate within the sign, or somewhere in the water sign's. Air sign's should choose earth signs, after they exaust opportunities in the air sign's. Hey, Chemistry is what it is! Most women can feel a man's magnetic field, and decide for themselves....Or, the bevy will! 



Leo,

What is a Scorpio?  A water sign?  I seem to connect with Cancer men quite often...perhaps because my mother is a Cancer???  Not sure, but they seem to be calm around me and not reactive when I am on a rant.  They just let me roll and then reel me in.....gently leading me away.  I am often attracted to Aquarius and Pisces men....but it never seems to work out.



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Posted on Wed, Mar 12, 2014 17:32

Quoting 3345roc:

Hey Dak...  I thought that no one was responding because they viewed this post as a self serving infomercial.  I think Lucky(to be)Stiff's hidden agenda was to let women know he was a sex master who has researched the literature and performed hours and hours of tireless field studies and selflessly published his findings.  we, both men and women, should be thankful.

 

While his motives seem ttransparent, some women migh fall for this ploy, however, the vast majority will see it for what it is.  I guess it would just take one to make this a successful infomercial

 

It's been known for some time that women have twice as many nerve endings in their genatalia as men do and, unlike men, have a clitoris that serves only one anatomical purpose... sex.... and then there's those multiple orgasms.  Women are so lucky and so are we because they allow us to be a part of it all.

 

Technology has certainly advance quite a bit since Masters and Johnson published similar findings in the 60's.  I am curious how he as able to quantify the pleasure index at "10".  Do you think he put some Wi-Fi capable nanobots in their drinks?

 

Another curiousity to consider is his abandoning the seminar he was giving to newly divorced men because his girlfriend objected to it.  I'm certain he considers himself one of a " minority of men who have a surfeit of potential sexual partners, whether due to their looks or charm or status".  Why didn't he just her to the curb and just take up with the next one in the queue.?

 

I'm befuddled.


Well I was befuddled right from the start.....but wanted to leave the hatchet job to someone better equipped.  *wink*

 

Never the less....the million dollar question:  What seduces a woman's mind?  How do you set the hook???

 

NO Dak!!! I am NOT signing up for your study!  *wink*  :))



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