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Posted on Thu, Jan 30, 2014 10:38

All views are welcome.

 

Genuinely interested to hear what the opinions out there are.

 

Of course, generalizing is a fool's errand, so why do I?

 

Sometimes, one can find a speck of gold amidst the rubbled rock.

Life isn't static.

Live in learning, learn in living.

 

Speak!

 

:)

 

Say what you will, but please, in a respectful manner.



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Posted on Sun, Apr 06, 2014 11:37

Quoting Dakota35:

Time is a sneaky enemy, that's for sure.  The only problem I have with short women,   they are hard to dance with.  But for sure, big things come in small packages.  I really don't get interested in women over 5'7".  Since I'm 5'10" if a woman any taller wears heels, she will be taller than me.  Not that I'm insecure, but it just feels weird. 



I once tried dating a lady that was 6' - 5'' -- interesting.  Nice lady. 

 

 

 



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Posted on Sun, Mar 30, 2014 19:25

Quoting DLeeD2014:

In my experience, I think some men can be.  I've even been told by a few men AFTER they got to know me, that they didn't approach me because they thought a chick like me wouldn't be interested in them.  I was always shocked.  I never see myself as unapproachable.  And, I'm a people person and especially find all men to be fascinating.  (I'm not trying to toot my own horn here, btw.). And, my ex-husband did voice in counseling that he was intimidated by my intelligence, of all people. Lol



Real men search out smart and gorgeous women.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 28, 2014 04:01

In my experience, I think some men can be.  I've even been told by a few men AFTER they got to know me, that they didn't approach me because they thought a chick like me wouldn't be interested in them.  I was always shocked.  I never see myself as unapproachable.  And, I'm a people person and especially find all men to be fascinating.  (I'm not trying to toot my own horn here, btw.). And, my ex-husband did voice in counseling that he was intimidated by my intelligence, of all people. Lol



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Posted on Mon, Feb 10, 2014 22:25

LOL!!!!!!!!  No comment........



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Posted on Mon, Feb 10, 2014 11:55

Quoting rmac22:

I thought she was saying your comment was lovely.

 

 



OK... then I'm lovely by association.



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Posted on Sun, Feb 09, 2014 17:12

Quoting 3345roc:

I thought she was referring to me since it was posted above my comment.  Sheesh.. ..do you think that was wishful thinking?



I thought she was saying your comment was lovely.

 

 



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Posted on Sat, Feb 08, 2014 07:26

Quoting Jenkneee:

Who is lovely?



I thought she was referring to me since it was posted above my comment.  Sheesh.. ..do you think that was wishful thinking?



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Posted on Fri, Feb 07, 2014 19:57

Quoting Jenkneee:

Hmmm, I find myself in the not so wanted category. I'm not short which is kind of a problem since most of the men in California ARE short. I'm not petite like all the tiny Asian females are but I'm not fat enough for chubby chasers. I also find that while I'm okay with a man being 10 years younger , I don't like that huge age gap so I'm not really a cougar and I'm done teaching.  I do have a great personality though (usually self-deprecating) and have tons of common sense ;)

And how can I forget? I am more conservative than liberal and live in the land of sheeple, so there you go!!!  Should I get a family of cats now or wait a while?  Actually I can't even become a Cat Lady if I wanted to since I am highly allergic to them. Uggh!

 

 

Maybe I should just move to Spain or have him come to me?

 

 

 

 

 



According to the photo, I once was Spanish and now I'm don't even meet American standards.  I hope to one day be Spanish again. :)


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Posted on Fri, Feb 07, 2014 14:45

Quoting lubelle:

You're lovely :)



Who is lovely?



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Posted on Fri, Feb 07, 2014 11:11

Quoting 3345roc:

I'm not afraid of heights ... I am afraid of widths.  

 

Some men. who are beer drinkers prefer short women with flat top heads... to set their beer glasses on.

 

 I think dancing with a 6 footer with 5" heels might provide and interesting place to rest one's head.


Flat top head women???  Is that from binding?  If you can't find one of those, you could always get the woman that has the a** big enough to use as a table.  Walmart would be a good place to start your search.  :)

 

I prefer looking into a woman's eyes when dancing, rather than resting my head on her breast. I'm probably in the minority.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 07, 2014 03:02

You're lovely :)



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Posted on Thu, Feb 06, 2014 15:58

Quoting Jenkneee:

Hmmm, I find myself in the not so wanted category. I'm not short which is kind of a problem since most of the men in California ARE short. I'm not petite like all the tiny Asian females are but I'm not fat enough for chubby chasers. I also find that while I'm okay with a man being 10 years younger , I don't like that huge age gap so I'm not really a cougar and I'm done teaching.  I do have a great personality though (usually self-deprecating) and have tons of common sense ;)

And how can I forget? I am more conservative than liberal and live in the land of sheeple, so there you go!!!  Should I get a family of cats now or wait a while?  Actually I can't even become a Cat Lady if I wanted to since I am highly allergic to them. Uggh!

 

 

Maybe I should just move to Spain or have him come to me?

 

 

 

 

 


I love Barcelona but I'd pick Argentina.  It's the best of Spain and Italy... and then there is the Argentine Tango for unadulterated passion.  A trip through Mendoza to taste their Malbecs is also high on my list of things to do.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 06, 2014 08:58

Jenknee, 

 

Well, you could move to my part of Northern, VA.  Here in liberal Northern VA is a pocket of conservatives. 

 

 

RMac

 



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Posted on Thu, Feb 06, 2014 07:55

Quoting Dakota35:

Time is a sneaky enemy, that's for sure.  The only problem I have with short women,   they are hard to dance with.  But for sure, big things come in small packages.  I really don't get interested in women over 5'7".  Since I'm 5'10" if a woman any taller wears heels, she will be taller than me.  Not that I'm insecure, but it just feels weird. 



I'm not afraid of heights ... I am afraid of widths.  

 

Some men. who are beer drinkers prefer short women with flat top heads... to set their beer glasses on.

 

 I think dancing with a 6 footer with 5" heels might provide and interesting place to rest one's head.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 06, 2014 00:39

Hmmm, I find myself in the not so wanted category. I'm not short which is kind of a problem since most of the men in California ARE short. I'm not petite like all the tiny Asian females are but I'm not fat enough for chubby chasers. I also find that while I'm okay with a man being 10 years younger , I don't like that huge age gap so I'm not really a cougar and I'm done teaching.  I do have a great personality though (usually self-deprecating) and have tons of common sense ;)

And how can I forget? I am more conservative than liberal and live in the land of sheeple, so there you go!!!  Should I get a family of cats now or wait a while?  Actually I can't even become a Cat Lady if I wanted to since I am highly allergic to them. Uggh!

 

 

Maybe I should just move to Spain or have him come to me?

 

 

 

 

 


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Posted on Tue, Feb 04, 2014 20:06

Quoting Curious2078:

I don't think we have to worry about you, Dakota.  No bullets will be going through your head in this lifetime.  That's for sure. 

 

LOL

 

P.S.:  I am very short!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I don't make 5'3" even when stretching!!!

 

Oh, yeah.  There's that age thing.  You're only 43 while I'm about to turn 69.  Drat!!!  Wouldn't you know that SOMETHING would creep up to get in the way of true love.  LOL 



Time is a sneaky enemy, that's for sure.  The only problem I have with short women,   they are hard to dance with.  But for sure, big things come in small packages.  I really don't get interested in women over 5'7".  Since I'm 5'10" if a woman any taller wears heels, she will be taller than me.  Not that I'm insecure, but it just feels weird. 



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Posted on Sun, Feb 02, 2014 17:25

Quoting Dakota35:

LOL, of course I was joking.  But I am a little jealous of guys that find overweight women attractive.  I have a friend like that, and it was easy for him to find dates...of course he finally got married (she's a little chunky).  The only odd thing about me, that may be different from some guys is; that I find short women attractive.  To me they are adorable as long as they are not heavy.  I also could care less about how large a woman's breast are...so that's in my favor.  I'd rather have a woman with common sense than one that is educated smart.   If I'm ever attracted to a guy, then that's the day the bullet goes through my head, as I know I'm going insane.



I don't think we have to worry about you, Dakota.  No bullets will be going through your head in this lifetime.  That's for sure. 

 

LOL

 

P.S.:  I am very short!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I don't make 5'3" even when stretching!!!

 

Oh, yeah.  There's that age thing.  You're only 43 while I'm about to turn 69.  Drat!!!  Wouldn't you know that SOMETHING would creep up to get in the way of true love.  LOL 



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Posted on Sun, Feb 02, 2014 17:20

Quoting Dakota35:

I like mine dumb and ugly...explains why I haven't found a lady on this site. :-)


ROFLAMO.  Surely you jest!!!

 

ROFLMAO yet again.



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Posted on Sun, Feb 02, 2014 09:11

Quoting Dakota35:

LOL, of course I was joking.  But I am a little jealous of guys that find overweight women attractive.  I have a friend like that, and it was easy for him to find dates...of course he finally got married (she's a little chunky).  The only odd thing about me, that may be different from some guys is; that I find short women attractive.  To me they are adorable as long as they are not heavy.  I also could care less about how large a woman's breast are...so that's in my favor.  I'd rather have a woman with common sense than one that is educated smart.   If I'm ever attracted to a guy, then that's the day the bullet goes through my head, as I know I'm going insane.



I think they have an app for that.  I know men have all sorts of fetishes but I wonder if women do as well.  Some men like BBWs.  They're called "chubby chasers" and they have dating sites for them.  I've run across some guys who would only date Asian women.  They're called "rice chasers".  They think that Asian women are very passive.  The ones I've dated are far from that but the culture is quite different.

 

To each his own.



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