To live chat or not to live chat!
I just thought id share my recent experiences in the terrifying "live chat" part of this website.
After months of winks with no outcome, and being added as a favourite without any form of communication after! I finally came to the conclusion that i might not be putting myself out there enough (so to speak) and thought that i might have more chance of meeting my match by trying the instant messaging service here..........
How wrong i was!!!!
Almost every conversation that i have engaged in has somehow always turned around to the subject of cybersex. Now i did say ALMOST every conversation, so dont get me wrong there were a couple of gentlemen that were very courtious, and i thoroughly enjoyed our conversations.
However even though iv said on my profile that i am not interested in casual encounters, the sex talk just keeps on coming from the majority of these guys!!! Needless to say that when this does happen i go straight to blocking them.
But iv got to admit that im starting to feel pretty deflated after these encounters, and am also starting to worry that maybe the man for me isnt here at all. So i guess what im looking for is a bit of advice. Should i give up entirely on the whole online dating scene? Or just stay away from the "live chat" area, remain patient, and believe that i'l find my match when i am meant to?
I would seriously appreciate your feedback on this guys. :)
P.s i have noticed that a few women here have also had the same problem, so any advice from you would be great.
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