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Posted on May 24, 2006 at 02:38 AM

First of all, I don't mind women posing in lingerie, or even nude, but do it for you significant other. Don't broadcast it to the world. What would you think if your Mother saw it? Or 10 years from now, your son or daughters comes across it? Once you put something on the Internet, it stays there. Anyone can access it. We don't need to sell our bodies to get a man. Have some self- respect. I would never put another women down, I just want you guys to know, that we are better than this. What kind of man is going to choose you to date? Do you really want that kind of man? Someone who sleeps with you, with no intention to make you his significant other. LET'S BE STRONGER.

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Posted on Jul 19, 2006 at 12:44 PM

I'M NOT AGAINST LINGERIE. I TOO, LOVE WEARING IT. I JUST DON'T THINK THAT A WOMAN SHOULD FEEL LIKE SHE HAS TO POSE IN LINGERIE TO GET A MAN. I'M SURE THE WOMEN WHO DON'T POSE IN LINGERIE GET AS MANY HITS AS THE WOMEN WHO DO. WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO A LITTLE MYSTERY?

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Posted on Jun 05, 2006 at 10:54 PM

I believe that fundamentally taste and class goes along way! Therefore, the issue is not specifically lingerie. If a woman chooses to present herself in a demeaning manner, she can do that in a pair of shorts, and tank top or a formal gown that she buys 3 sizes too small to get the "full effect" lol.. Before I am misinterpreted I am not saying there is anything wrong with posing in whatever one is comfortable with, but I don't think it is the clothes per say, but the presentation. One can choose to come across and convey confidence, sex appeal, class and sophistication in just about anything. The right woman can make a sweat suit look sensual and tasteful at the same time. So it's not the clothes, it's the person and the attitude. I believe as a woman I can be unbelievably sexy in a business suit and just as hot on the beach, but it is all in the presentation. So a lingerie photo can be just as tasteful as a professional picture, it is up to that individual to chose what message they are truly trying to convey

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Posted on Jun 05, 2006 at 07:33 PM

We???re all single (I hope) and looking for a friend or companion. Whether you???re dressed as an uber-professional or scantily clad, the end justifies the means. What works for one, may not work for another. Live and let live???

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Posted on Jun 05, 2006 at 01:49 PM

To each his own. Most women can't handle a horndog that wants sex all the time but she sure knows how to lure him in.

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Posted on Jun 05, 2006 at 01:08 PM

My opinion about lingerie is that "I love it" for me...I like to feel feminine and very soft and sexy. I do think that you need to be tactful when you post pictures, but, it is a personal preference. And not for me to judge.From what I have read and been told, men like a little bit left to the imagination...Just "food for thought"

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Posted on Jun 02, 2006 at 09:57 AM

come on now there is nothin wrong with showin the right amount of skin........... u know a little tease?!

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Posted on Jun 02, 2006 at 06:56 AM

Maybe.....just maybe posing in what ever attire she may be wearing has nothing to do with the men she is trying to attract. Maybe what she wears is in accordance to how she feels about herself. It could be that she poses in a sweat suit and feels incredible, sensual, and femine. Maybe a business suit, or maybe lingerie. What I would hope she is wanting to convey is her feminity and her womanhood. All I am saying is don't be so arrogant that you think she is posing just for you or your buddies. Maybe she is doing it for her on pleasure and joy.

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Posted on Jun 01, 2006 at 09:16 PM

Perhaps it's the same reason that some men feel they must pose and post a picture of themself bare chested with thier muscles flexed. I would guess it's an attempt to appleal to the sexuality or fantasies of a potential partner. Not arguing whether it is right or wrong. It's just an attempt to snag a date. :-) Personally, I would never do it for public viewing because I'm particular about first impressions. But if I had a partner whom I knew liked to see me in lingerie, I'd open a Victoria's Secret account tomorrow and he'd find little suprises in his email from time to time. ;-)

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Posted on Jun 01, 2006 at 08:57 PM

I love wearing and shopping for lingerie. In my opinion there is nothing nicer than a woman who has sexy under things. I enjoy wearing it mostly for myself. But also enjoy cooking a nice meal while sipping on wine and enjoying the company of the man I am with. I think it just adds a little more to the sex appeal you already have.

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Posted on Jun 01, 2006 at 07:41 PM

A little empathy would be appropriate here! Although society ignores reality on this issue, Men and women do think differently. Women commonly are attracted to what they hear (e.g., poetry, romance, the traditional "I love you," et cetera). men, on the other hand, are typically attracted to what they see. Most women realize this simple fact of life. When seeking a partner, they dress acordingly to look their best. Just because most women are not attracted by looks, does not make it wrong for men to be attracted to women who appear scantilly clad. It is just "different." Women who fail to comprehend this simple fact are doomed to never properly understand men. Why? Because she believes she understands men because she erroneously believes men think the same way she does. And there is no telling her otherwise! Sad . . . You can give me a scantilly clad woman any day because I know she knows how to communicate.

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Posted on Jun 01, 2006 at 06:02 PM

Bottom line is....SEX SELLS! I've also been told that there are "professional" women who lure men on the internet. I'm not implying that ALL women who pose in sexy outfits are ladies of the night - quite the contrary - but it is a fact that there are a few who are.

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Posted on May 31, 2006 at 08:36 PM

Perhaps they believe they can lure a fine man to them with their demonstrable erotic prowess. My impression is that if they connect with the men who fall for it, then they've removed the shallowest of them from the pool. That leaves the women of intelligence and depth with a much better selection of truly desirable men, and visa versa.

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Posted on May 31, 2006 at 03:07 PM

i agreem, Rob! a lady doesn't have to show some tail to get a reaction from a guy. I guess they feel the more they show the more interested the guy will be. But it's not always the case....they're stoopid...lol

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Posted on May 30, 2006 at 03:54 PM

You spelled the word wrong incorrectly.

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Posted on May 30, 2006 at 03:51 PM

You missed my point. What I was saying was that women do not have to pose in lingerie to get a mans attention. I can see doing it for someone your seeing, I would do it. But what I'm saying is that, that women should have more self- respect for themselfs before it lands all over the internet. You type in pictures from Millionaire Match, and their you are for the whole world to see it. Once you put it on the internet, anyone can access it. Would you like your future fiance's picture all over the internet for your friends to see? That's my point, or what about your future children?

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Posted on May 30, 2006 at 04:06 AM

Lol! Well me Have ot say nothing like it, I love it, I mean its like a fab box of choclates to unwrap! Hey come on What would Valentines or Romance be like with out it, would you rather flowers!! you know I gottta get a thong thing...lol! gone shy now

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Posted on May 29, 2006 at 11:39 PM

Men are gonna eventually ask us what we are wearing and can we send sexy pics with out a dought. Some are taking it one step further and cutting through the bs.And it makes women feel sexy too.

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Posted on May 29, 2006 at 05:17 PM

I think that it is sexy and makes us feel sexy...there is nothing wroung with it!

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Posted on May 29, 2006 at 05:00 PM

I think there is a tasteful way to do that. I want to see everything I can in a photo. There are some surprises I can do without on a first date.

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