In view of the latest ongoing blogcraze ...
I want to ELECT ....
IROC AS MY PIN UP BOY
but wait...as like a real democratic presidential race.. WWWWsss is running very close.. and from another party, my other dream boy DEVO is running close behind...
HMMM I WONDER WHO TO CHOOSE
..hmmmmm I might have to eat some chocolate before i decide which one is going to be my dream guy hehehehe
ps.. i'm going to hide behind my cola can now..incase Rockie protest LOLOL
What about you ladies? Who will you elect as your pin-up guy? LOLOL
Here's a guide to determine whether you should or should not continue blogging!
Here's the choice!
=you have got a great idea that you just can't wait to share with others!
=you've got a good topic that you think will enrich other people's lives
=you've got a good information that will help others
=you have got a good joke to make others smile and giggle
=you have got a great crush on someone and you are hinting, so express it by blog!
=you have a great love for someone that you can't just wait to shout out to the world!
=you have great sense of fun, and you just can't help it but bring fun and happiness to others.
=lastly you trully have a good heart and wish others happiness
NOT TO BLOG
=you have an old score to settle
=you rely on blog for your happiness
=you don't have a life outside the computer world
=someone is having a fight on blogland, and because you haven't got a life, you decide to side with one party and attack another party without knowing the full story!
=you want to deceive others and make them think you are having a great life and you are super sexy when the truth is complete opposite LOL
=you want to attack someone who you hate for no reason
=you blog to butt in just so you can meddle in someone's business
=you are mean in spirit, jealous,and wanting always to have the last say in an argument
=you are megalomaniac, and wanted attention that you crave and seek the adulation of people on internet for that.
=lastly you blog because you want just to create chaos and mayhem!
And the very very last reason not to blog, YOU'RE BORED WITH IT! LOL
Happy self spotting!!!!lol
(Before i proceed with my blog, I just want you all to know that I was not supposed to blog..LOL I was just chatting to friend of mine who in still here on MM, and she said there was a guy who want to chat to her but i bet it's a scammer..so i said to her, don't be like that, give the guy a chance who know's it could be your 'the one',to cut the story short..i said, i bet, he's not a scammer!', she begged to differ, and I said if I win you will date him, or blog I win, if I lose then you will see me blogging 'you won'..
Here's my blog,
When I was here about 5 months ago, I've been insular in my way of thinking, not letting anyone past my criteria get to know me more than what is necessary whilst I was playing matchmaker.
It was an insular way of living as I've not tried to get to know others, I've tried to let them see that I mean well and that I was here to bring fun and positiveness to others...but in the end, even the true generous intention that I had have been not taken as it should be and not enough in the nature of man, and it's capacity to err..
Looking back, I should have accepted it as human and that others were here to create an illusion they wanted in there lives..but eventually i've accepted it as such hence I wish all people on internet, peace and happiness..
my message is go out, accept and include people who are not in your normal criteria of associates and friends and who knows you might find the jewel amongst the rubble..like i did..
Accept not the norm,and explore outside your normal dimension and venture where it's not within your horizon and you're LIFE WILL BE ANYTHING BUT INSULAR!
--so my friend YOU WON..i've blogged you won..BUT IN REALITY WE LOSE, because, it only shows that not all who represent themselves are presenting their true nature!...so I will wish you goodluck and may the man who is fortunate enough to find your worth be on here if not just within your horizon!
Just came on here for few minutes to wish you all HAPPINESS THIS XMAS!!!!
thank you for all the memories of blogging the 1st and 3rd quarter of 2007.
May each and everyone of us have peace, health, and joy in 2008!!!
I WOULD HAVE TOLD THE WHOLE OF BLOGLAND THAT YOU ARE THE CLEVEREST, THE MOST HANDSOME MAN HAD YOU TOLD ME THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT..
I WOULD HAVE GLADLY OFFER MY LOYALTY AND MY WHOLE SUPPORT HAVE YOU COME CLEAN WITH ME, THAT YOU WANT A LITTLE GAME TO PLAY...
YOU COULD HAVE TOLD ME YOUR HEARTS DESIRE IF YOU HAVE JUST BEEN HONEST...
TELL ME ANYTHING YOU CAN IMAGINE..I WILL TRY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN JUST FOR YOU ...JUST TELL ME NO LIES!!!!
-kimi's last blog on MM 20/9
I beg to all people on Internet..just tell no lies, be upfront with what you want, and let the receipient decide for herself to accept it or not!!!
One day I was blogging on MM early morning before I start my 6 am shift, between 22-28th July..
I noticed a new blog by a new model type blogger, few minutes I've noticed a regular blogger (male) comment, then after few minutes he deleted his comment on this new blogger's blog. I thought nothing of it, then the next 5 mins later, I've noticed this new blogger blog on my ''better shout now'' commenting I want to be matched up with (the name of the guy who commented on her blog few minutes earlier but deleted his comment),
I've thought nothing of it..let it pass,THEN AFTER couple of weeks..This male blogger,emailed me ''hey kimi..match me up with beautiful,tall blah blah..something like (the name of the same new model type blogger), so I said but you said you want nice, and elagant and educated blah blah blah,and yet the pic of that woman blogger is almost naked?
then he replied back..oh yeah but she keeps on flirting with me, and texting me from london.
I replied "really? but her location on her profile is in Miami..give me her London number and I'll check her, i replied." All along not telling him what I've witnessed back in July.
Then this male blogger replied on email ''are you sure you are not working for MM?.
I left it like that..noticing that the new blogger exulting the male blogger all over his blog.
But last week, I told MM what i've witnessed and the exchange of email given to me and asked to verify the new model type blogger.AND BINGO MM admin came back with it's verdict'' THE MODEL TYPE IS A TROLL.
NOW READERS...I HAVE ENOUGH OF THE WAY THIS BLOGGER TRY TO PORTRAY HE IS HONEST AND OUTSTANDING..WHEN ALL ALONG HE IS PLAYING MIND GAME! My membership ends on 19th Sept and please MM don't renew my membership for me..
I PLAYED MATCHMAKER TO GIVE JOY TO PEOPLE..NOT TO BE DECIEVED FOR SOMEONE TO EXULT THEIR" EGO".THAT IS JUST SO WRONG!
I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK ON BLOGLAND..AND HEAVEN FORBID YOU DON'T FALL FOR HIS GAME!
I WAS TOLD BY THE PEOPLE BEHIND THE SCENES FOR ME TO DO A DEAL WITH THE VILLAGE IDIOT!!!
-THE VILLAGE IDIOT (PLEASE SEE MY OTHER BLOG OF SAME TITLE), SAYS TO THE MIGHTY PEOPLE BEHIND THE SCENE TO ASK CUPID TO REMOVE WHAT SHE HAD WITNESSED ON HER BLOG ''A QUESTION OF HONESTY'' IN EXCHANGE HE WILL REMOVE HIS BLOGS AND LEAVE SILENTLY'
I SAID NO DEAL...KICK HIS ASS!! DECEPTION BY EMAIL IS AN AUTOMATIC BAN ON MY BOOK..HOW DARE HE TRY TO ASK ME TO MATCH HIM WITH A TROLL (HE KNOWS ALL ALONG THAT IT'S HIS OR HIS RELATIVE'S TROLL) !!!
I WILL NOT REMOVE WHAT I'VE WITNESSED ON THAT DAY ON JULY!!!!
I'M NOT RESTING TILL ALL BLOGGERS KNOW HIS DUPLICITY!!!
MY MATCHMAKING BLOG I'VE TREATED SACRED..I FELT SAD FOR PEOPLE WHO GOT DISAPPOINTED COZ I CAN'T MATCH THEM..AND I FEEL THE JOY OF THOSE WHO HAVE BEEN MATCHED!!!
HOW DARE THIS VILLAGE IDIOT MOCK WHAT I TREATED AS SACRED!!!
hell hath no fury like a cupid scorned!!
So dear Readers,
After 10 weeks of hundreds of emails playing matchmaker/cupid
After the laughters and consistent blogging
I'm finally going to go and have my MM BLOG ADDICTION cured..
NO SMART ASS COMMENT ROCKIE LOL PLEASE..OR YOU WILL GET A KICK IN THE BUTT FROM BRAT KIMI lol
As the breeze gently touches my face from the electric fan that constantly blowing across the room.I silently lie here on my own, thinking what to share to my fellow members of this site!As I look up at the ceiling noticed the lights flickering adding to that melancholy touch. Let me muse further and gently try to express how I feel. The television set is on the corner of the room flickering with images from the muted show, as I look across it, I can't concentrate, it's about what's going on around the world if not around my place, but my mind isn't on i right now..as I observe some boxes that is sitting near it. Alas, I must make an effort to clear the past evidence of my previous dwelling, gently chiding myself to make an effort, but not yet, not just yet...
I feel the warmth and humidity in the confinement of my room, as single bed, with semi hard mattress devoid of frivolity and yet serving it's purpose. Oh what a joy to lie down my aching body from the battered confinement of work....As I gently lay my head to the horrors of the past! I have no words to say but share what I feel, devoid of anything yet happy and content...
Tell me how are you today, share with me the idyllic musing of your day and the idealism of your life!!!!!
OOOPPSSS , double ooppsss
I've been trying to use my last arrows, to match up few friends on here, anyway
I've told this gent to look up at someone, i told him leave it to me, I can match you up with ''classy, educated lady that you require''
and so i happily typed the name (or so i thought) , now i've open my email and HE WAS LIVID...
ooppss I sent him the wrong spelling that matches up to the opposite of what he requires..
HERE'S THE STORY BEHIND THE CAN...
When I came back 2nd time around on MM....
My intention is just to blog and do matchmaking, and the idea behind hiding the cola can is to make guys be aware of the blog, and not focus on me, as I'm not offering myself on the plate, but offering my matchmaking service, wherein, my intention is to give the ladies a reason to smile about, whilst they blog!!!In short, I went to MM for to matchmaker, to make others happy, not for myself!
I thought by hiding my face, the attention will be on the blog and not on me KIMI (Issabella), Anyway, my free membership as cupid is now gone.
This time I've got an offer for membership from my cousin, she offered to give me 3 months membership as my advance Birthday gift!! BUT ON ONE CONDITION...THAT I DON'T BLOG , BUT TRY TO FIND A REAL DATE!!!! An offer, that I might accept!!!
I did enjoy playing cupid for everyone, I meant 'EVERYONE' who cared to join in. And I thank all people for the trust bestowed on me.
I did my best, but sometimes my arrows are blunt and unfocused. I just hope I managed to give 'EVERYONE' a smile they deserve.
I am now resigning as cupid, and my free membership has ended today. I am thinking of focusing on my real life,and happy to learn a LOT about people, about relationships and compassion and all sorts of stuff that is good about MM. My profile will still be on MM, but I will not blog as much as I've done in the past 1.5 months..I think I need to focus more on my new environment and get to know more people..perhaps meet up with some people i've met on here!!!
THANK YOU ONE AND ALL, THANK YOU MM for the blog section of your website!!!
Please tell me what how do you feel if you have that 'loving feeling''...
I would love to know how you feel? When you're in love or when you are no longer in love?
How would you know such and such????
Would you rather you are inlove or not inlove???
Ladies and Gents,
lol I'm playing the cupid/matchmaking game again(after all this is a dating site , right VL?lolol) ...so if you are dating or seeing someone else on the quiet, but still blogging..don't worry, i will not match you up.
I will be imploring your full cooperation and understanding if there is any error of judgement on my part
Plea for all to say a little prayer, that Vgavicki's mom will pull through, as she is in ICU at the momment.
According to Vicki her mom seems to lost the zest for life soon after her father passed away 3 yrs ago.
And now that she is very ill, she seems to be not fighting to live.!Let's all say prayers for Vicki and her family!
HERE'S THE DRILL..
WHEN I WAS 16 I WANTED A TALL, DARK , HANDSOME, EDUCATED, KIND MAN
WHEN I WAS 18 I WANTED A TALL, DARK, HANDSOME, EDUCATED, MAN
WHEN I WAS 20, I WANTED TALL DARK HANDSOME MAN
WHEN I WAS 22, I WANTED TALL, DARK MAN
WHEN I WAS 24, I WANTED TALL MAN
BUT NOW THAT I'M NEARLY 26...I WANTED JUST A MAN!!! LOL
he cupid's humor!!!!
After reading the quote about someone who has been abandoned by his mother... I felt the compassion for him...and remembered my own motherless childhood.
Hence this musing....(sniff sniff)
We long to have changed what we went thru
but it wasn't possible
We wiped our tears and hope that it will never happen again, and promised ourselves that when we grow old we will never go in that path again.
We seek the warmth that we never receive
And that we will try to get someone who can give us this.
Our own tales of our own sorrow, as a youth we have the burden of an adult..
Either we open up and forget the pain and the hurt
For we will not move forward if we continue to be hurt by the past.
The child amongst us must be forgotten if we suffered at that stage
But the child who was nurtured and loved must be rejoiced and live to the promise of his care.
But some who had silverspoon upbringing look down on others, not knowing that he should have cared more for others..
I suffered as a child, but never in the past let that suffering get me down, have the positive view in all corners of life, looked at every challenges in the adult with an eye of the child that is within me!
So in all, there is 'the child amongst us' with the way we live our life as of today , as of now!!!
Seldom I will loose my temper..I normally just giggle myself on blogs and on chat, trying to ask gents mostly 2x my age to come and join the blogs..
But today, 'flabbergasted' is the word I can describe my reaction to one chat with a guy who at 53 wants a young woman to father a child with.
I WAS LIKE ..."DON'T YOU THINK IT'S UNFAIR FOR THE CHILD TO HAVE A FATHER OLD ENOUGH TO BE A GRANDDAD? DON'T YOU THINK THE CHILD WILL BE SUBJECTED TO TAUNTS AT SCHOOL AND BY THEIR PEERS? "
I am not here to judge the man whether he is unfit or fit to be a dad.
I was here on behalf of the child. To think before fathering a child, after all...there are already loads of babies or children around who needs care and attention, and Fathering doesn't mean sowing his own seed, it means caring and loving a child even not of his own blood.
please guys...BEFORE YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO HOT AND TOO RICH FOR A YOUNG WOMAN..PLEASE CONSIDER THE CONSEQUENCES!!!
LOVE NEEDS HEART..TO MAKE IT BLOOD POUND
LOVE NEEDS EYES TO ENJOY THE BEAUTY OF SIGHT
LOVE NEEDS THE HANDS TO FEEL AND TOUCH
LOVE NEEDS LIPS TO EXPRESS WHAT MAKES THE SOUL SING AND KISS
LOVE NEEDS EARS TO LISTEN TO THE SONGS OF PRAISE
LOVE NEEDS THE FEET TO KICK ASS ...(please attach your own reason's why)
- this blog is joint venture between me and lp, during our goofie chat..the guy needs a good woman...Can someone please save him from chatting to a cupid!!! hahaha