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julze1
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Posted on Tue, Jun 06, 2006 20:50

I have to tell you who on earth is sick and tired of playing these games. I don't think my expectations are high! I am looking for all sorts of friends male or female and just for who they are not just a photo, although it is nice to see people. How many people will admit that they are vein but feel guilty because they don't want to sound rude. Come on own up. I did it once to someone. So I now know the mistake I made, and when a woman or man winks and you can send them the time of day to say thanks but no thanks instead of no answers at all. I just think that in this modern day world, we are picking dates like it is a line up, as if we don't have time anymore. I am way too sad lol. I just like it if someone gives you the time of day just out of niceness to send you a wink, don't you deserve to give an answer back? Call me ironic but yes I don't have time that is why I am here. I have done all different ventures and my life is hectic but not to hectic to give someone one minute out of my time to acknowledge them to say thanks for their time to look at you.


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sugar1979
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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 12:29

it is very true, usually when you reply as no thanks or even send a small note to show courtesy that your not interested etc, a very rude reply comes along


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BlueEyesBeDazzled
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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 11:27

If I get a wink, I send a reply...If I have people just viewing my profile I do not reply (unless I'm intrested)I feel as though, most look at your profile here ( mostly) for two reasons. They have read your responce to a blog. Or they have seen you in the chat room...Personally, I feel that the I'M thing is a joke....I wish it was set up more like a room...then we could go in there at will and interact with more people...As it is now, if you IM someone and they dont want to talk to you ...they just dont answer....( Ive talked about this in a past blog)So, I do try and be considerate to those who have shown intrest...Adding that I do not feel that is a bad thing to respond to a flirt if you do not feel compatible/attracted...by saying " I do not feel we are a good match"...but wish them luck in their searching....it is just considerate.


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julze1
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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 20:01

Thanks Shane One is on the way! I have nothing to hide just one that I would like to have up on the site.


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julze1
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Posted on Sat, Jun 17, 2006 19:56

See I guess being who I am I can take rejection. To me it is rude not to say thanks but no thanks. You know what you want or don't want. I think it is just common courtesy. Why bother being on here if you can't take rejection from total stranges you have not even met!!!!


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Posted on Tue, Jun 13, 2006 21:18

Its very interesting. If I am not interested I used to make it a point to send something back that says thanks but no thanks. I stopped after a couple of people sent back some very rude emails. Yesterday after a few months of stopping I sent to someone who contacted me twice "Thanks, but I'm not certain we are compatible, good luck on your search!" and I got back a very rude email. I don't understand that at all, frankly we are all looking for something, we (I) have little time (I shouldn't even be reading or writing posts to blogs) but... is it that devastating to get a rejection from someone you don't know at all?


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Posted on Tue, Jun 13, 2006 07:09

I was a little bit confused at your circuitous blog... You don't have time, but you want others to give time to you and respond to your winks, and you think it's nice to "see" people, but you don't have a photo yourself... Hmm... Well, as for the people who don't respond to winks, I don't think anyone of us would actually want an email response as to why they don't wish to correspond with us in any regard. Just let it be and move on.


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