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Blog title: Emotional Monogamy
Blog description:Emotional Monogamy So many of you are hung up on this concept of monogamy, and yet you have no idea what the concept is even about. You are all so insecure if your man screws around on you, yet half of you are doing shopping lists while you are having sex with him after a few years of marriage. Of course, nobody (man or woman) wants to admit that to their "spouse" or significant other, nor that they are thinking of the guy or girl they saw at the mall or walking down the street. So why is it so important,this concept, when you are all lying like hell to one another--emotionally cheating, never sharing one's true feelings, and yet everyone acts as if they are so "faithful to one another". I say b.s. It is a bunch of hypocrisy and nonsense to assuage people's guilty feelings for what they might do if they were to have sex with another person. But why? You aren't being honest anyway. Women and me both tell more to their best friends than they do to their significant others. Can you be trusted with innermost secrets and will you be trusted to never turn on your man or woman (as the case may be), no matter what, no matter how angry you get when the chips are down, can you be counted on to be his/ her best friend, not just lover, and can you not acted like a spurned lover, but as a real friend and confidant, to do the "right thing", just as he/she would do for you, when he/she needs you most to "be there" for him/her and not stab them in the back"--AS MOST WOMEN DO--SINCE THEY ARE INSECURE, CAN'T BE TRUSTED, AND ALWAYS THINK THAT IT IS ABOUT NOT GETTING DUMPED OR CHEATED ON. THEY HAVE IT ALL WRONG--IT IS ABOUT BEING BEST FRIENDS--AND SOULMATES!!!!! Emotional monogomy is where it is really at, to be honest with one's feelings and truths and so few people can live it and do it. Can you? No matter what. And deal with the consequences.... Cause that is the WHOLE PACKAGE, The R...
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Synchronicity 14 Views 05/03/06

Synchronicity

 

sitting at the beach

listening to the crashing waves

repetitive, strong and consistent

If I close my eyes, i can predict the next wave

I can feel it in my head

I think how lucky I am

To have her in my life

A kind,loving and intelligent partner

my best friend and lover

the woman I am spending the rest of my life with

She is consistent and strong

like the waves

Good times bad times

high tide low tide

moon tide

she is with me

we are together

we are riding on the same wave together ,a tandem ride

riding the wave all the way to the beach

synchronicity, simplicity, destiny

 

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Emotional Monogamy --try it on for size 157 Views 01/06/07
Emotional Monogamy So many of you are hung up on this concept of monogamy, and yet you have no idea what the concept is even about. You are all so insecure if your man screws around on you, yet half of you are doing shopping lists while you are having sex with him after a few years of marriage. Of course, nobody (man or woman) wants to admit that to their "spouse" or significant other, nor that they are thinking of the guy or girl they saw at the mall or walking down the street. So why is it so important,this concept, when you are all lying like hell to one another--emotionally cheating, never sharing one's true feelings, and yet everyone acts as if they are so "faithful to one another". I say b.s. It is a bunch of hypocrisy and nonsense to assuage people's guilty feelings for what they might do if they were to have sex with another person, SINCE THEY SO ARE ASHAMED AND AFRAID TO FREELY AND IN THE OPEN SHARE FEELINGS OF LUST FOR OTHERS TO THEIR PARTNER WITH TRUE HONESTY AND INTEGRITY. But why? You aren't being honest anyway to your partner. Women and me both tell more to their best friends than they do to their significant others. Can you be trusted with innermost secrets and will you be trusted to never turn on your man or woman (as the case may be), no matter what, no matter how angry you get when the chips are down, can you be counted on to be his/ her best friend, not just lover, and can you not acted like a spurned lover, but as a real friend and confidant, to do the "right thing", just as he/she would do for you, when he/she needs you most to "be there" for him/her and not stab them in the back"--AS MOST WOMEN DO--SINCE THEY ARE INSECURE, CAN'T BE TRUSTED, AND ALWAYS THINK THAT IT IS ABOUT NOT GETTING DUMPED UPON/LEFT OR CHEATED ON. MAYBE IF YOU HAD ENOUGH SECURITY NOT TO BE SO SCARED AND WERE WOMAN ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FUCKING AND LOVING, YOU WOULDN'T BE LEFT. A MAN MAY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN, with you there or without but he does not want to love every woman he meets. Most importantly, he doesn't want to be best friends with every woman he meets, it takes a special kind of woman to be a lover and a friend. WOMEN and even men HAVE IT ALL WRONG--IT IS ABOUT BEING BEST FRIENDS--AND SOULMATES!!!!! Emotional monogomy is where it is really at, to be honest with one's feelings and truths and so few people can live it and do it. Can you? No matter what. And deal with the consequences.... Cause that is the WHOLE PACKAGE, The REAL DEAL.... TRY THAT ON FOR SIZE AND SEE HOW IF FITS.
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