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Posted on Sat, Jan 12, 2013 12:38

Of the following-I’ve not only wondered of in the moment, but as well what future there

may be-in even pursuing to finding it worthwhile, to fixate on people who’s work wont’ befit

the have of us, serious relationship-between they and I. I truly don’t want to waste our time bcs, extrinsically

I can bring more into the ‘ship-even in just growing to remain friends, which is sincerely possible, for I feel already-that he’s not sensing me irresistible. so of the situation-I’m vacillating, and feeling frustrated.

 

I’ve recently grown fixated with a gentleman who is a doctor. it’s early in the interact, with us volleying messages back n forth thus far. he’s doctor at a not only a hospital, but a teaching hospital at that. so the rotations and probably estimating student loads to teach-leave him next to no room to not only not truly date, but probably not to have much time to stretch out and play a possible pick-up game, of say basketball with colleagues, and just down right-be a boy, in between situations, missing out on these pausings-due to amongst so much adultify of work necessating him to be uber competent.

 

I happen to sleuth of him on Facebook-and found that there’s no variance of lifestyle, the dominance of friends that are on his f.b. page are women, of the same nationality as he (for he’s Arab) and he didn’t before know until very recently-that I’m not fellow countryman. (btw: I’m African American). I can relate to him-for the scientific/intellect of what we each

know about medicine, so his income is farthest from my qualifying him attractive to me, even if he is nominally-a millionaire.

 

now, I know one answer to his potentially being relationshipped is that he could be traditional, and estimatingly export a woman from his country of origin, to take her up as bride, but doesn’t bcs he may not be traditional, and remains single-bcs the work that he does fronts as though he can remain 1) single only-and/or 2) won’t take up ‘ship into serious enough to marry bcs work won’t befit.

..and then there’s that I’m not irresistible to him-by I sense, sight-which of course between the truly mature , isn’t all that

matters.

So if I stay now, i would be taking a risk to: 1) be a friend-n remaining so, and don’t just want to remain so of anyone  for the best of our matching synergy of our Spirits amiably, so if there literally isn’t Divine co-create purposeful to move us proceed into more intrinsic connectivity-maybe to marry, I am better to just move on.

 

clarity in truth is the most important, overriding my fixation that could mount into feelings.

anyone care to relate? if not comment?

 

thanks for “letting” me shareJ

j

 



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Posted on Sat, Jan 19, 2013 10:00

:)yes, very true n good

 



deflagged of/no longer the target of hosting haunts! truly haunted/negated no more! the following is THE most solid presense i've ever evidenced of God n the Network of the Helps had to overcome the hauntings of people USED to be arrogant, mean and stupid to me. especially where those people-have been males. please hang on-for i am not victim-feeling better from hating them. i just understand the FLIP of their behavior-having me tune up, from the view into breaking off my rejection fatigue...

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Posted on Fri, Jan 18, 2013 15:27

thank you mtsunny

i do benefit from what you say-and will keep my feelings and thoughts in check about

myself over him-especially if/when i see him again (for we have a group in common)



deflagged of/no longer the target of hosting haunts! truly haunted/negated no more! the following is THE most solid presense i've ever evidenced of God n the Network of the Helps had to overcome the hauntings of people USED to be arrogant, mean and stupid to me. especially where those people-have been males. please hang on-for i am not victim-feeling better from hating them. i just understand the FLIP of their behavior-having me tune up, from the view into breaking off my rejection fatigue...

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Posted on Fri, Jan 18, 2013 15:23

thank you-i will, and have had more spiritual inut on the matter

again thank you:)!



deflagged of/no longer the target of hosting haunts! truly haunted/negated no more! the following is THE most solid presense i've ever evidenced of God n the Network of the Helps had to overcome the hauntings of people USED to be arrogant, mean and stupid to me. especially where those people-have been males. please hang on-for i am not victim-feeling better from hating them. i just understand the FLIP of their behavior-having me tune up, from the view into breaking off my rejection fatigue...

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Posted on Wed, Jan 16, 2013 20:57

Hi, Jannew15

That was deep, But no matter what you decide, Pray about it

to make a righteous choice, and Let the spirit lead you and

Guide you, in clarity and Truth....God Bless You?..Trust God?..



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Posted on Wed, Jan 16, 2013 02:01

Hmmmm.......words fail me!

 

Liv.



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